Mercury Retrogade

My bf (is a Leo)started became distant from me during mercury retrogade,(which is I'm a Virgo)b4 that,he was screwed up from his tax money and telling that we can't work this relationship out anymore and he cannot wait for another 1year to be together.(We are in a Long Distance relationship)Before he became distant a week b4,he was depressed coz his friend got hit by a car and he's not in a good mood to talk following his tax issue so I've waited for him to talk to me til he became okay,but I've waited for 2weeks he is still distant from me,we talk just only few words and then he will not reply after that,. January 30,he unfriended me from all of my account in Fb and I didn't confront him about that and haven't talk since that day til now.. I'm
Waiting til feb 14 as it says when MErcury back to normal broken relationship will be rekindle as if breaking up didn't happened,,. I'm still waiting til now if he is going to message me coz I don't do any move since he is the one who walk away with empty words.. What should I do,do I need to do the first move or I'll wait for him?

Is this some kind of joke?

The guy drops you from his existence and so you sit there and wait for him to want you back?

You even make a thread in here asking what to do?

Are you retarded?

@P-Angel Thank you for your advice,. I came here coz I needed an advice what to do,not to call me a retarded,as if you owning this site telling others don't make thread and be retarded? How cruel are you?

I'm a kind if a person who is very understanding and giving respect to others especially to the person I love,I'm just giving him space coz that's what he wants and ask for it and I respect that,but things got worst.If you can't say anything nice to some people who needed help you better keep your big mouth shut up,A person here is very down and thank you for putting me down more,God bless you anyway..

I just can't understand what is really happening between us.I and my bf was been a very good friends for almost 4years,we've had shared ups and downs,each secrets have revealed to each other,dark pasts and supported,lifting each other's spirits and pushing harder both in our lives to live peacefully and looking forward for a better life,until we put our friendship into a higher level,.in our Relationship for almost 1year (next month will be our 1st anneversary supposedly) we planned to settle down in Philippines (coz he's in New York and I'm in Brunei) after he gets his tax money but unfortunately his tax screwed him up,and it seems that it is my fault coz after that he became distant from me and telling me in the end that this relationship won't work and he cannot wait for another 1year to be together,he unfriended me with empty words _— I'm really confused,he asked me just to give him space coz he prefer to deal with his problem alone and tells me don't be sad coz I'm always checking him 1 or 2 messages if he is okay,I respect him as much as I love him,I always admire him for being a strong person,a great man,in his chivalrous way of courting,he was been proud of having me and showing my pics to his friends in NY.... But I really don't know what happened, _— he left hanging in the string and all that.. _— it's really breaking my heart into pieces and having a hard time to cope,.it is very difficult for me to move on coz I'm have no where to run to or count a person personally coz I am not in my country living alone working as a domestic worker here in Brunei my place is very isolated and have no friends I could vent personally and that is the reason why I came here to ask help and give me advice.. Why there are some OLD people out there with very rude attitude towards others.. _??__??__??__??_

He just suddenly became a different person after a day we're talking in our usual way of communicating being silly,romantic,supportive and changed behavior in just after 24hrs,.. After for almost 5years being connected to each other—? I don't know him
Anymore,it's really confusing.. I never criticize him nor being a dominant in our relationship coz I respect him so much,. Men always needing their alone time and I don't complain about that especially if he is in moodswings and after 2-3days he will come back and became okay back to happy and romantic moments again,.im always being patient and understanding towards him... I don't know where I did I go wrong.. _??__??__??__??__??_ I'm so clueless.. _??__??__??__??_

I leave everything unfold and words also left unspoken (after unfriending me I did not confront him),coz I believe inperfect timings that for somehow unexpectedly we will cross our path again one day..My profile is public so he can still view my post that I'm not dealing with his dramas though it's giving me pain so much in my heart.I don't want him to see me that I'm becoming miserable because of him,coz I know Leo's want to see with women are being independent and strong and that's all i want him to see from me,.. I let myself focus in my interest and goals in life after my contract here and I want to show him that I can do the Imposible things alone which is in his mind won't work.. Breaking up is still a blessing coz it's giving me an opportunity to continue my plans in life..

Thank you @starlover for your advices,God Bless You.. _??_

Posted by RyzTheVirgo

.. _??__??__??__??__??_ I'm so clueless.. _??__??__??__??_

Now, if you could grow some brain cells to realize the reality of that statement, then you might actually develop some dignity, and step away.


Which is doubtful.