Need Help cancer man leo woman

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Melyssa35
@Melyssa35
9 Years

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Im a leo woman dating a cancer man we hit it off extremely well and we have soooo much in common. Our first bump in the road is when i showed him the complete conversation me and an guy had talked he ignored it and i said I was sorry and I don't want him to be mad at me he said he wasn't. So i had talked to my beat friend which is a guy and I wrote "Talking to a friend about you the other day and he was like how is you and your bf? I said we doing good still going strong lol he was like what about you and the sex and arent you craving dick. I said you know me too well lol by now I would have fucked some guy and he said yeah lol. I said I don't feel that urge anymore with mike. I do want to fuck but not some random guy all I want is my bf. He said seriously I said yeah its kinda weird but yeah I just want him. He said wow he's changed you i said yeah I know for the better and he was like yeah I see that." After I sent this to my bf he quit talking to me and its been 4 days. Did he break up with me and should I move on or is he just mad and I should give him time? I dont know what to do. Just been crying a lot I dont want to lose him
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wagtail
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13 Years5,000+ Posts

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I dunno. I dated a Cancer man for quite a few years and I just have to say I feel like maybe that was really personal information - just a very private topic in a way, that you showed you were discussing... Even though you feel it was validating his place in your life I just dunno... Kind of right in the feels.

Besides he probably doesn't need to see you writing about dick in ANY CONTEXT with another guy. Who knows what else you're discussing with others, ya get meh?like if my SO showed me a message he sent to some female best friend saying yeah normally I'd be all up in them strange sugar walls, but I don't need any pussay besides Wags neow it'd make me pause for thought - like please. Don't bring up our sex life or my vajayjay in conversation with someone I don't know.

Best of luck. Instead of asking if he's mad straight up take ownership and apologise profoundly for the hurt you may have caused. I actually really love this combo but trust is so precious for Crabs and it's not necessarily easily given and difficult to regain. They are PRIVATE peeps and the world you create with them in terms of intimacy is so sacred to them...

I hope someone else can give you more relevant advice I can only speak from the perspective of a Leo woman who very much loved and cherished her relationship with Cancer man. But my point of view may be completely off ~x~