Need help with this Piesces gay guy i am seeing...totally confused!!?

I was at my parents house 4 months back and I met this guy there. He is nice, we hangout, make out, and have a good time together. On first date he tells me he was in a 7 year long relationship which he ended like 2 years back. Then we are talking daily and he travels all the way to see me and spends time with me for a few days. He goes away and we are still talking and then he invites me to his place and I visit him for 10 days. Everything is fine, we are living like couples. Then I tell him that i like him and I want to spend more time with him and I sort of relocate my office to his city and move in with him.

First month with him was fine. Soon he took a u-tun. He became very elusive from me and keeps telling repeatedly that he does not want a relationship, until I could not take it. He told me he does not want to have sex with me anymore and that we shud be just friends, but he still wants me at his house. And he still does not mind when I cuddle him at night, Its so strange. When I am way he does not keep well, falls sick, or goes away from that place, and when I am there he is always there with me (apart from his work and gym) but he is so distant. He will make random possibilities for his future at any moment, and leaves me so confused.

I left his place a month back and told him that i can't take it anymore. I have feelings for him and I will grieve and try to kill them. And he is like if thats what you want do it. I never pressurised this guy emotionally or physically.

I don't know what this guy wants?? any clues guys? help? btw he is piesces.

@Aliensusedourbogroll - I wudve moved on. But the things he does for me, friends generally don't do for each other. I won't cook or do laundry for my friend. Plus this whole "not having sex thing" - he recently initiated sex with me himself...so I am all confused. I know he misses me, but rarely admits it. Plus I won't let me friend cuddle me at night. Are piesces generally like this? on and off?

@Aliensusedourbogroll - Thanks for your replies 🙂 To add on I am a gemini and I cud see that I might have come as a bit insensitive to him, maybe not through any conscious effort, but we guys are generally more friendly and talkative. Do you think he is maintaining a safe distance while not letting me go? is he waiting for me to take a final decision for him, admit my love and telling him to be with me forever? cause I have been telling him that I just want to know him at this level and will see in future if relationship is even possible with him or not.