Older Women

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Sssupes on Saturday, September 17, 2016 and has 54 replies.

Why You Might Attract Older Women

Attracting older women can be due to maturity, confidence, or shared interests. Your personality traits or relationship preferences may naturally appeal to women who value stability and experience. Understanding these factors can help you build meaningful connections with women of different ages.

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@Sssupes
10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by AriesLove
Most women age better then men. And even if they don't, there are ways they can correct problems that come with aging. So older women tend to go for guys that look comparable to them in looks which would probably be a guy a few years younger then them.

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@Season
10 Years1,000+ Posts

The Moon is in your 4th house right? That's your mother and comfort in her memory and reverence for her and older women in general. That might explain at least some of it IMHO.

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@LillyPetal
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Sssupes
Why do I always attract older women?

I've only had 1 serious relationship when she was younger than me.

Any guesses?

You have a good head on your shoulders and you're down-to-earth? Also, you may be too mature to deal with younger women who don't meet your level of mental maturity.

Do you see this attraction as a positive thing?

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@Palerio
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by AriesLove
Most women age better then men. And even if they don't, there are ways they can correct problems that come with aging. So older women tend to go for guys that look comparable to them in looks which would probably be a guy a few years younger then them.

I think most women are just more aware of their aging process, they don't necessarily age better on average.

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@Sssupes
10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by LillyPetal

Posted by Sssupes
Why do I always attract older women?

I've only had 1 serious relationship when she was younger than me.

Any guesses?

You have a good head on your shoulders and you're down-to-earth? Also, you may be too mature to deal with younger women who don't meet your level of mental maturity.

Do you see this attraction as a positive thing?

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It's always positive anytime someone finds you attractive.

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@Sssupes
10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by Palerio

Posted by AriesLove
Most women age better then men. And even if they don't, there are ways they can correct problems that come with aging. So older women tend to go for guys that look comparable to them in looks which would probably be a guy a few years younger then them.

I think most women are just more aware of their aging process, they don't necessarily age better on average.

I don't know. I've noticed a lot of men start to look rough after 35. Going bald, beer bellies, gray hairs, missing teeth, I know some women don't mind. But then you do have some men that take care of themselves as well I notice they are heavily in the gym, eat healthy, don't drink or smoke. I just think men don't care as much about their appearance as women.

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Women disguise their appearance with false advertising and accessories. Men don't have that luxury.

I take it your a gym rat?

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@Sssupes
10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by Redoctober2000

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Posted by Chalupa
Ssupes, u already have kids, so an older woman might not be such a bad deal.

Provided you're attracted to her. They usually mellow out by then.

I'm 39. If a woman isn't mellow by 35 then the world is in a shitstorm brother

Really?!'! Looks like you are in a shit storm of your own....

Mellow by the young age of 35?!!! She'd be dead by 50 then!!

You sound like a 69 year old!!

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You should know. You're a lot closer to that age than I am.

Mellow as in MATURE. Something you know absolutely nothing about.

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@Sssupes
10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by Redoctober2000

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Posted by LillyPetal

Posted by Sssupes
Why do I always attract older women?

I've only had 1 serious relationship when she was younger than me.

Any guesses?

You have a good head on your shoulders and you're down-to-earth? Also, you may be too mature to deal with younger women who don't meet your level of mental maturity.

Do you see this attraction as a positive thing?

It's always positive anytime someone finds you attractive.

Nope! No sir!! It depends on what they look like!!!

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Ok. You have ZERO room to talk here. I don't find you attractive in the least bit and that's rare for a Leo. Take your dramatic ass off my post you arrogant (for no reason) bull.

Please block me like you promised month ago

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@Palerio
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by Palerio

Posted by AriesLove
Most women age better then men. And even if they don't, there are ways they can correct problems that come with aging. So older women tend to go for guys that look comparable to them in looks which would probably be a guy a few years younger then them.

I think most women are just more aware of their aging process, they don't necessarily age better on average.

I don't know. I've noticed a lot of men start to look rough after 35. Going bald, beer bellies, gray hairs, missing teeth, I know some women don't mind. But then you do have some that take care of themselves as well I notice they are heavily in the gym, eat healthy, don't drink or smoke. I just think men don't care as much about their appearance as women.

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It depends on the culinary tradition of the country you live in, in Europe you don't meet many men looking rough and with a beer belly at 35, more frequent around 45/50.

As for not caring as much I'd say 'thank God we don't'; also grey hair have their why.

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@Sssupes
10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by SensitiveBlues

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Posted by Redoctober2000

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Posted by LillyPetal

Posted by Sssupes
Why do I always attract older women?

I've only had 1 serious relationship when she was younger than me.

Any guesses?

You have a good head on your shoulders and you're down-to-earth? Also, you may be too mature to deal with younger women who don't meet your level of mental maturity.

Do you see this attraction as a positive thing?

It's always positive anytime someone finds you attractive.

Nope! No sir!! It depends on what they look like!!!

Ok. You have ZERO room to talk here. I don't find you attractive in the least bit and that's rare for a Leo. Take your dramatic ass off my post you arrogant (for no reason) bull.

Please block me like you promised month ago

So leos find almost every woman attractive?

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There's always an attractive feature on a woman. Unless you have the personality of an ugly ass Honey Badger to destroy even that

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@clippityclop
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Who even knows. Older ladies could just think you're cute and younger. And women your age could just be shy? I dont know. But at 39 most ladies wouldn't be so shy. So hmmmm....

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@Parkourler
10 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by AriesLove
Most women age better then men. And even if they don't, there are ways they can correct problems that come with aging. So older women tend to go for guys that look comparable to them in looks which would probably be a guy a few years younger then them.

What— What makes you think that? Please tell me, because I am horrified of the idea that the love of my life will get uglier over time.

Woman loose their youthful beauty in the 30s/40s + having children + not exercising—

I think its vice versa, men dont have filigrane facefeatures, so when we get older, we can look hotter with beard and white hair.

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@Sssupes
10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by Arielle83
How old is old if you're 39?

I see heaps of fit older women around. There's 24 hour gyms all around in fremantle.

It's a coastal city so we all are at the beach every wkd or night for sunset drinks.

I think the beach life style promotes good looking ppl.

Plus heaps of these older women are out socializing and the pubs are packed with good looking men.

I think guys in late 30s to 45 are pretty hot. Long hair is big down here. Surfing culture etcetera.

Everyone's got sunscreen on anyways.

Plus freo has a big Italian population so these men are tanned.

Let's just say 42-47

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@AbbyNormal
13 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by Arielle83
How old is old if you're 39?

I see heaps of fit older women around. There's 24 hour gyms all around in fremantle.

It's a coastal city so we all are at the beach every wkd or night for sunset drinks.

I think the beach life style promotes good looking ppl.

Plus heaps of these older women are out socializing and the pubs are packed with good looking men.

I think guys in late 30s to 45 are pretty hot. Long hair is big down here. Surfing culture etcetera.

Everyone's got sunscreen on anyways.

Plus freo has a big Italian population so these men are tanned.

you re starting to make a case for my relocation lol

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@crabRiot
11 Years1,000+ Posts

I wouldn't complain if I were you, I'd show those old birds how its done, Like come ere you..

Get naked

Slap slap on that ass with some leather...any damn leather you can find just make it work.

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@Sssupes
10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

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Posted by LillyPetal

Posted by Sssupes
Why do I always attract older women?

I've only had 1 serious relationship when she was younger than me.

Any guesses?

You have a good head on your shoulders and you're down-to-earth? Also, you may be too mature to deal with younger women who don't meet your level of mental maturity.

Do you see this attraction as a positive thing?

It's always positive anytime someone finds you attractive.

Nope! No sir!! It depends on what they look like!!!

Ok. You have ZERO room to talk here. I don't find you attractive in the least bit and that's rare for a Leo. Take your dramatic ass off my post you arrogant (for no reason) bull.

Please block me like you promised month ago

So leos find almost every woman attractive?

There's always an attractive feature on a woman. Unless you have the personality of an ugly ass Honey Badger to destroy even that

Urfff men are so easy. Or is this a Leo thing

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Idk. I'm kinda picky

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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Sssupes

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Posted by Arielle83

Maybe age difference is a grey area around those ages and yours.

This. ^^^^^^

@Sssupes

Let's see the chart... could you put it up, please?

For you, yes

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Thanks, Sssupes. 🙂

You have Saturn conjunct your Ascendant, at a little

under four degrees... legit question for you.

You DO attract older women, likely because you give

off an air of (authentic) seriousness and responsibility,

at first glance (interaction, really).

Your Sun follows soon after in a wider conjunction of

about 8 degrees, so it is loosely fused to your personality.

But you're still a LEO... and a 1st house LEO, at that.

THANK GOD... at 29°, you cut it pretty close.

o.O

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