Scorpio woman falling hard for Leo man

Alright..
I met this man on an online dating site the first of October. He was seemingly taken by me from the start.
We were up late one night chatting... and it was amazing.
Things have been a little complicated and we just met face to face for the first time on Monday (December 7th).

I booked a hotel room, snd said i was going to be there drinking by myself, or he could join me.
Initially he said he wasnt leaving the house, and later told me thst he had turned down several offers to hang out.
That I was the only one who could drag him out of the house.

We spent the night in a hotel, had some drinks, watched a movie.
He snuggled up so close and kept kissing my head, hand, arms, etc.
We started to make out, and he told me to slow it down a little. I did!!
He said he had been celibate for a year, and wanted to make sure I was going to be worthe giving that up for.
We had sex... several times..
He asked of I was going to treat him well.. I said of course...

He wanted to know if I wanted him to "be my ol' man" (I should mention, I'm 22, he is 37). I told him I did. He t ol d me he would stop talking to everyone else (he showed his phome, and all the women waiting for a reply) and requested that I do the same.

The next morning he was supposed to leave around 5, and ended up staying until 7:15.
He said now thst we had met he wouldn't feel like a creeper visiting me at work, and that the next time, the hotel was on him (we both live with others).

Since our amazing night together, he seems to be pulling back... not much flirting going on, and less conversation than normal... I miss him, so much, but it goes against my nature to grovel.
I call him handsome and baby, and he calls me sweetie, and says "awwww, you're sweet" to a lot of what I say.

What do I do?!?!? I want him to reach out and show me the same interest that I'm showing him, but his signals are all over the place and I don't want to fall any harder if I'm being played.

It's my nature to be suspicious and think of all the possibilities. I just really don't want to stand in my own way!!! Help!!!!

Leo and Scorpio sex is amazing... but that is all to it.

You don't describe yourself as being taken, you don't describe feelings toward him at all ... you merely make statements like, "I'm falling for him"

There are no fond words of endearment for him whatsoever .... the only words you use are ones to describe how you've snagged him, and how you want to find a way to keep him giving you attention.


For the record: Scorpios are so weak that they fall for everything, then backpedal once they realize this weakness shows

I'm pretty guarded about my feelings, but I've made it very clear to him that I've been interested and falling for a hot minute.
I recently got out of a pretty nasty relationship, and I don't want to let myself believe everything a man says.

I don't think that me describing how incrediblet I believe he is is going to help anyone help me.

I am weak, weak in the knees for this man.

He has flat out said he is taking me with him when he moves out of the state next year.

I just find it so hard to let myself go and "bask in his glory" as he puts it.
It isn't easy to be the incredibly loving person I am, have such strong feelings for him, only to try and restrain myself so I don't make him run.

What are your feelings for him based on, exactly? You're both still in a phase of infatuation.. just saying, enjoy it for what it is now but don't get ahead of things

My feelings for him are based on all of the conversations we have had. I enjoy how he carries himself, how knowledgeable he is about world affairs. I genuinely adore who he is as a person.

I was very iffy until we spent time together. When we were around one another we both agreed that we felt like we had known the other for a far greater time span than a few months. We connected, and it felt like we just fit. I don't know how to describe it...

Posted by enfant_terrible
What are your feelings for him based on, exactly? You're both still in a phase of infatuation.. just saying, enjoy it for what it is now but don't get ahead of things

This is quite true, you shouldn't ignore this advice.

I let everything ride today. I waited for him to make the moves, I was pleasantly surprised.

I'm giving everything space and letting ot flow where it may.

Posted by Fatalflaw11
Alright..
I met this man on an online dating site the first of October. He was seemingly taken by me from the start.
We were up late one night chatting... and it was amazing.
Things have been a little complicated and we just met face to face for the first time on Monday (December 7th).

I booked a hotel room, snd said i was going to be there drinking by myself, or he could join me.
Initially he said he wasnt leaving the house, and later told me thst he had turned down several offers to hang out.
That I was the only one who could drag him out of the house.

We spent the night in a hotel, had some drinks, watched a movie.
He snuggled up so close and kept kissing my head, hand, arms, etc.
We started to make out, and he told me to slow it down a little. I did!!
He said he had been celibate for a year, and wanted to make sure I was going to be worthe giving that up for.
We had sex... several times..
He asked of I was going to treat him well.. I said of course...

He wanted to know if I wanted him to "be my ol' man" (I should mention, I'm 22, he is 37). I told him I did. He t ol d me he would stop talking to everyone else (he showed his phome, and all the women waiting for a reply) and requested that I do the same.

The next morning he was supposed to leave around 5, and ended up staying until 7:15.
He said now thst we had met he wouldn't feel like a creeper visiting me at work, and that the next time, the hotel was on him (we both live with others).

Since our amazing night together, he seems to be pulling back... not much flirting going on, and less conversation than normal... I miss him, so much, but it goes against my nature to grovel.
I call him handsome and baby, and he calls me sweetie, and says "awwww, you're sweet" to a lot of what I say.

What do I do?!?!? I want him to reach out and show me the same interest that I'm showing him, but his signals are all over the place and I don't want to fall any harder if I'm being played.

It's my nature to be suspicious and think of all the possibilities. I just really don't want to stand in my own way!!! Help!!!!

^^^^reason# 5,757,423 reason why people should never assume all Scorpio's think and act the same way. 😐

Holy age gap. o___O

There is an age gap, but, in all honesty, why does it matter so much?
If I can see him, and feel like I'm finally home wrapped in his arms, what difference does age make?

Things are going wonderfully. We are learning to accept and deal with one another's personalities...
I'm doing a bit more ego stroking, and he's helping me through my insecurities and tendency to overthink everything.
I care about this man deeply, and I'm beggining to relax, and take things at face value.

Posted by Fatalflaw11
There is an age gap, but, in all honesty, why does it matter so much?
If I can see him, and feel like I'm finally home wrapped in his arms, what difference does age make?

Things are going wonderfully. We are learning to accept and deal with one another's personalities...
I'm doing a bit more ego stroking, and he's helping me through my insecurities and tendency to overthink everything.
I care about this man deeply, and I'm beggining to relax, and take things at face value.

Don't be too insecure around him, to the point you're irritating about it, your leo will get tired of your whining.