Who would you pick?

Ladies, which 1 would you pick (you can only choose ONE & saying "neither" is not an option! ha!):

1. The guy who is physically unnattractive (according to YOUR standards), has 5 kids (that he DOES take care of), doesn't make that much money (according to YOUR standards), doesn't get along with any of your family/friends & is horrible in the bedroom sexually, BUT YET treats you like a queen (according to YOUR standards) in all other areas?

OR

2. The guy who is smoking hot (physically), has no kids, makes a shxt ton of money & is great in bed sexually, BUT YET treats you like crap, abuses you or cheats on you?

Guys:
1. The girl who is physically unnattractive, is very intelligent (brains but no beauty), is the girl all your buddies/family members crack on, is just "ok" in bed/sexually, BUT YET treats you like a King, is always there for you, always supports you & fully understands you?

OR

2. The girl who is smoking hot (physically), is the bomb in bed, has no kids & is dumber than a door knob, BUT YET always nags & is super clingy

Oh this oughta be interesting =)

I cannot answer this objectively according to those choices. My choice is someone attractive to me ( everyone else can piss up a rope and hum on the wet end..my eyeballs in my head .. ) their appetites in all arenas match up. Sex is important, very much so. Treats me well, is proud of me. Good conversation, good sense of humor. Could give two toots less about shit tons of money, if he's abusive I'll slap him upside the head with a ball peen hammer, and if he has kiddos? Bring it the hell ON. Been a mum for 20 years, I will NOT be seeing anything new, I love kids.

Awwwww man! You guys are no fun!! 😢

I'd stay single! 😉

Posted by krysrenee7
Ladies, which 1 would you pick (you can only choose ONE & saying "neither" is not an option! ha!):

1. The guy who is physically unnattractive (according to YOUR standards), has 5 kids (that he DOES take care of), doesn't make that much money (according to YOUR standards), doesn't get along with any of your family/friends & is horrible in the bedroom sexually, BUT YET treats you like a queen (according to YOUR standards) in all other areas?

OR

2. The guy who is smoking hot (physically), has no kids, makes a shxt ton of money & is great in bed sexually, BUT YET treats you like crap, abuses you or cheats on you?

Guys:
1. The girl who is physically unnattractive, is very intelligent (brains but no beauty), is the girl all your buddies/family members crack on, is just "ok" in bed/sexually, BUT YET treats you like a King, is always there for you, always supports you & fully understands you?

OR

2. The girl who is smoking hot (physically), is the bomb in bed, has no kids & is dumber than a door knob, BUT YET always nags & is super clingy

Oh this oughta be interesting =)

would we get along personality wise with guy no. 1?

Not enough information so I got a couple questions:

-Is #1 a cheater?
-Is #1 in delusional mode & thinks she's hot shit or does she know she's unattractive & wants to work on it/get some work done?
-How is #1 unattractive? Like is she too fat/skinny, does she have a unibrow, is her nose huge?
-How would I know #1 is just OK in the sack if she's that unattractive?
-What's #1's sign?

-Is #2 a cheater?
-Has #2 boned any of my friends?
-Does #2 & I share a lot of interests?
-Despite her lack of intelligence, do me & #2 share a mental connection?
-What's #2's sign?

Posted by UrsaMediocre
Not enough information so I got a couple questions:

-Is #1 a cheater?
-Is #1 in delusional mode & thinks she's hot shit or does she know she's unattractive & wants to work on it/get some work done?
-How is #1 unattractive? Like is she too fat/skinny, does she have a unibrow, is her nose huge?
-How would I know #1 is just OK in the sack if she's that unattractive?
-What's #1's sign?

-Is #2 a cheater?
-Has #2 boned any of my friends?
-Does #2 & I share a lot of interests?
-Despite her lack of intelligence, do me & #2 share a mental connection?
-What's #2's sign?

That's why I said according to YOUR standards. Everyone's definition of what attractive is is different, but yet we all have our OWN little standards for which we measure someone attractive, smart, successful, etc.

Just assume that the bad/negative traits I've mentioned are the ONLY negative things about them. It wouldn't be fair to add in 1 million "what ifs" b/c the what ifs would never end!

Posted by krysrenee7

Posted by UrsaMediocre
Not enough information so I got a couple questions:

-Is #1 a cheater?
-Is #1 in delusional mode & thinks she's hot shit or does she know she's unattractive & wants to work on it/get some work done?
-How is #1 unattractive? Like is she too fat/skinny, does she have a unibrow, is her nose huge?
-How would I know #1 is just OK in the sack if she's that unattractive?
-What's #1's sign?

-Is #2 a cheater?
-Has #2 boned any of my friends?
-Does #2 & I share a lot of interests?
-Despite her lack of intelligence, do me & #2 share a mental connection?
-What's #2's sign?

That's why I said according to YOUR standards. Everyone's definition of what attractive is is different, but yet we all have our OWN little standards for which we measure someone attractive, smart, successful, etc.

Just assume that the bad/negative traits I've mentioned are the ONLY negative things about them. It wouldn't be fair to add in 1 million "what ifs" b/c the what ifs would never end!

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Hmmmm, so neither of them are damn floozies? Ideally, I'd say #2 only if we have a mental connection but I'd probably end up w/ #1 since that's usually the case w/ me (someone I don't really find attractive but treats me like a king). If #2's a water sign (which I take from the clingy-ness lol), I'd say no only because I've only dated water signs & I'd want to change it up. I think it depends on who really loves me #awww

This is my picky ass Virgo Venus talking lol