Advice

So,I have a question. I just started dating another Sagittarius and I slept with him on my second date. So I was wondering if Sagittarius men thought like Sagittarius woman.I mean I don't normally sleep with every guy I date and definitely don't sleep with everyone on the second date, but when it feels right it feels right. I'm just hoping he doesn't lose respect for me, because in all honesty I feel like we are both adults are not in HS I mean he is 36 I am 34, so if it felt right to have sex why not do it? I decided not spend a night, although he did ask me to, but I decided to leave because I'm weird about staying over etc... I mean we hung out all night we had sex continued hanging out then I got tired, so went home. When he walked me out he said hey give me a kiss, I mean I didn't even think about giving him a kiss,I have him a kiss and left. I'm not very observant, so was just thinking I'm tired I want to go home it wasn't like I didn't want to kiss him or anything. Anyhow a day has passed now and he hasn't text me or anything, i text him and he responded, but it wasn't a response like lets hang out or anything like that, but the text I sent wouldn't have prompted for that type of response. I'm just so new to this dating thing, I haven't been single in 4 years, so am just confused and was wondering if I totally made a mistake or are Sag mean as easy going as a Sagittarius woman, or did I just blow this whole thing. I mean I only text him because one of my GF (Libra) told me I could have gave the impression that I'm not interested, but I am he is very intriguing. I appreciate the feedback/ advice.

So,I have a question. I just started dating another Sagittarius and I slept with him on my second date. So I was wondering if Sagittarius men thought like Sagittarius woman.I mean I don't normally sleep with every guy I date and definitely don't sleep with everyone on the second date, but when it feels right it feels right. I'm just hoping he doesn't lose respect for me, because in all honesty I feel like we are both adults are not in HS I mean he is 36 I am 34, so if it felt right to have sex why not do it? I decided not spend a night, although he did ask me to, but I decided to leave because I'm weird about staying over etc... I mean we hung out all night we had sex continued hanging out then I got tired, so went home. When he walked me out he said hey give me a kiss, I mean I didn't even think about giving him a kiss,I have him a kiss and left. I'm not very observant, so was just thinking I'm tired I want to go home it wasn't like I didn't want to kiss him or anything. Anyhow a day has passed now and he hasn't text me or anything, i text him and he responded, but it wasn't a response like lets hang out or anything like that, but the text I sent wouldn't have prompted for that type of response. I'm just so new to this dating thing, I haven't been single in 4 years, so am just confused and was wondering if I totally made a mistake or are Sag mean as easy going as a Sagittarius woman, or did I just blow this whole thing. I mean I only text him because one of my GF (Libra) told me I could have gave the impression that I'm not interested, but I am he is very intriguing. I appreciate the feedback/ advice.

Is he into you? We do not know.
Is he not into you cause you did not stay there? we do not know.
Is he disrespecting you for a second date sex? we do not know.
Is he taking you for granted? we do not know.
Are you blaming yourself for mistakes you may have made? maybe.

There are 1000s reasons why a dating story ends unhappily.
Example : Sag is looking for advantures. Another Sag means nothing new. So dump it.

Stop talking like a cat in the rain. Be patient. Wait your turn. Do you. And ask yourself how much do you know about him. Why would you want to continue dating him (but I don't wanna know it).

No offense DwellingonMove, but you a by far the rudest person. Obviously,someone is asking for advice and this is an open forum, which means anyone can write what they'd like. If you prefer not to read my post, then skip it, but why put the energy into saying unneeded comments. It just seems like a very negative tactic and waste of energy. Anyway, please save your rude opinions for someone else.

I think we both have similar style s and needs in love. Both enjoy someone who is fun-loving, funny and positive. But if you both had a good time, why beat yourself up? The worst thing you can do is start to panic and/or question yourself. I know it's much easier said than done, but you should relax and stay busy. Remember, Sags are also freedom lovers. Don't worry about if you came across as not interested. He's a hunter, trust, if he had a good time, he will contact you.

But really, I think the question is what to do want out it?

Posted by YellowSubmarine
P.S. maybe it's because I love the directness and no-sugarcoating aspect of Sag's personality, but I don't think DwellingonMove was trying to be rude.. just keepin' it real. I agree with what she said overall as well.

ditto

Um no, I did not make another thread, I don't care that much. I was just curious about my particular situation, after hearing what my friend said. As far as the directness of sagittarius, I to am a sagittarius 12/7, but also have manners and tact, which is something I think comes with age. I respect honesty and the truth, but peoples delivery could also improve.

Now, you know saggies dont know the meaning of delivery.