after break up....do you——?

if a saggit breaks up with someone that still loves them do you ever regred it?
i guess what im asking is when you break someones heart who didnt deserved it how do you deal with it?

I always feel really bad breaking up with anyone. Sometimes I do it just so I don't get hurt. Sometimes if I start getting too close to someone I get scared on the inside and back away. I may even say things to that person so they will hate me so this way I leave them mad at me and not heartbroken. I guess it's easier for me to get over someone if I'm upset then it is if I'm hurt so, I think alot of people are the same way but, in reality I know they are not. It sucks breaking up with anyone or being dumped. If you betrayed her at all or seriously lied to her or make her feel like a fool for caring about you then she will be done with you. Sorry for your pain. Good Luck!

WOOOW Archer you have taught me ALOT on the guy I was/am kinda/sorta dealing with lol. When is your birthday?

LOL he is December 20th....hard to deal...we are both fire so its a "HOT" mess if you feel me lol

And I think he is ALOT like you also

REALLY? (ok you don't messed up you are officially my advisor on what to do with this man) lol

WE BOTH HAVE HOT TEMPERS...but he CANNOT be reasoned with... he tends to get very immature too which i cannot stomach... like little silly things get him angry. Some examples:

1) He advised me to get a new car as opposed to a used one some while back...I was hesitant and said ummm I dont know, don't feel like paying a car note in addition to insurance, can't really afford it. MONTHS LATER I had a conversation with my homeboy and he broke it down to me nicely why it would be in my best interest to get a new car (unlike my sag's authoritative I KNOW BEST attitude) and I began to now sway in my thinking like mmm maybe it is best. So i regular conversation i say to my Sag, "Im confused now my homeboy has be thinking i should in fact get a new car" (most of us know when 1 person says something you think about it, but when more than 1 person reinforce the same idea you are likely to think the majority is right). He has a FIT, "oh when i told you it was hell no and now your "homeboy says", then everything after that I ask him about the situation he says "ask your homeboy" it DISGUSTS ME, VERY immature.

2) We are supposed to move together. I let him know that being we are changing states (and being the independent leo that i am) I feel alot more comfortable if I am working right away when we move also. HE already has a job lined up in the state we are moving too. Which is WONDERFUL but being we've only been together a year and a half I am afraid to make a move like that unemployed depending on him. ANOTHER TIZZY FIT...."you're the one always promoting teamwork, what is the problem".. it wouldnt be so bad if he were not HOLLERING all the damn time, and mind you I have a HELLA temper..but I am trying to control it. and this is the kicker, when he finally gets me there and I BLOW my lions top, he says it turns him on.......HOW SICK IS THAT?

What is wrong with you guys? lol please advise.. We argue all the time and he acts like it doesnt bother him at all but it certainly does me. I dont see how we can survive bickering every day over sillyness. he says that he knows im the one and that every couple argues. but ALL THE TIME? Anyhoo, I havent spoken to him in a few days I told him i am DONE (told him that several times) but this time I say I am serious. I still love him ofcourse but Id like him to come to me and make a conscious effort to adjust his crazines

You are right about alot of what you say. For one (as a leo) I have already acknowledged that we both have control issues and it is truly a power struggle. But I feel he is way worst. I try to persuade while he tries to strong arm and that is NOT HAPPENING WITH A LEO, as I am sure its not happening with a Sag (again, my best friend also is a Sag). I just don't understand how he can know how I am and still try to be so domineering KNOWING he will not get anywhere. THAT pisses me off...I don't know archer....So tell me, if he really thinks "I am the one for him" as he claims you think there's any chance he will try to make amends or come to me? (because he is childish) I am tired of extending the olive branch and him STILL not changing what he has already said are issues of his with communication...so why not try to change it instead of always talking about changing it? The same day we argued he tried to clean up real quick but I wasnt having it, I ignored his ass... what do you think? its been 5 days..lol