Any Sagittarius men here can tell me if you can find a sexy girl that really attracted to you and you guys are really hot to each other when having sex, will you fall in love with her later eventhough you maybe dont wanna say that to her cuz i did research and know that Sag never show their feeling and scare of commitments. Me and my Sag have been dating for 2 months. At first couple weeks it was like friendship, we hang out just 3 times just eating and movie. But im the one later try to seduce him first and start to talk dirty even send my nude pix to him, he turns to be very excited and surprised about me, said that" i didnt know my girl is freaky like this". since i enjoy to talk dirty to him, he text me every day and honestly its enough to turn me on and the dirty talk make me just wanna jump onto him right away Lmao..., so we always end up having sex and the sex were always amazing. Since the beginning, he is always the one who text me first cuz I read on a website that never contact a Sag first cuz he love the thrill of chase. Sometimes he told me text him and kinda complained why i dont text him but i still never text him first. But everytime i replied asked him what he doin he was always with his friends drinking( this guy really alcoholic), also he sometimes asked me hang out but then never keep the promise cuz i feel like he prefer have fun with friends more than eating or movie with a girl. But i just played cool never complained about that. I just let he do what he want. Recently, since i always want outdoor sex and dirty talk with him, he is willing to ditch his friends to come to me like 3 times a week when i said im horny and want him. He always call me babe, hunnie, and said im always amazed him, or " i have no words to say" when i said "you'll be my toy from now" lol. Im a Capricorn 30 years old, he Sag 22 years old (Dec 10). I know we are not a match compatibility because of our signs, but we are really hot and steamy when having sex lol. So im wondering if a great sex can make you guys fall in love with your partner later and really it can make you leave your friends behind like my Sag? Are you guys cheating eventhough you have a great sex partner?
Any Sag guys can help?

I agree. He's only 22, so all he wants is just fun, and having sex with as many girls as he can. Younger Sags cannot commit to just one women, they're always looking for something new and challenging.
You will only end up being hurt. I'm a Sag male, and I tell you at that age it's almost impossible for him to give you something more, plus, there is really no compatibility between those signs, so I assume that he will get bored after 3-4 months.
Don't be surprised if he leave you for some other chick. Mature Sags are better for something long term. He should be at least your age, or older to wish to settle down, but probably at least 35 imho.
You will only end up being hurt. I'm a Sag male, and I tell you at that age it's almost impossible for him to give you something more, plus, there is really no compatibility between those signs, so I assume that he will get bored after 3-4 months.
Don't be surprised if he leave you for some other chick. Mature Sags are better for something long term. He should be at least your age, or older to wish to settle down, but probably at least 35 imho.
Thanks guys. This much help.

Not to be mean OP but let's be honest...you flipped the script. You started by initiating and texting(and sexting) 🙂 and for some reason it ceased...and he noticed.
You slept with him without asking for a commitment, then by cutting communication and making him contact you first...you tried to make him chase you in order to give you that which you should've made clear you wanted in the first place...a commitment. Therefore, the Sag doesn't take you seriously.
We like our women to be uofront and honest about what they want. Trying to "withdraw" in order to make chase and commit never works. If you wanted that...simply ask. He took the fact that you slept with him and didn't say anything as you not wanting to be serious. To us, you make our company seem "optional" and therefore we(the young ones) respond in kind. It's why he'd make plans then flake.
So, take the traditional route. If you want sonething long term, say that in the beginning so neither of you will waste your time.
You slept with him without asking for a commitment, then by cutting communication and making him contact you first...you tried to make him chase you in order to give you that which you should've made clear you wanted in the first place...a commitment. Therefore, the Sag doesn't take you seriously.
We like our women to be uofront and honest about what they want. Trying to "withdraw" in order to make chase and commit never works. If you wanted that...simply ask. He took the fact that you slept with him and didn't say anything as you not wanting to be serious. To us, you make our company seem "optional" and therefore we(the young ones) respond in kind. It's why he'd make plans then flake.
So, take the traditional route. If you want sonething long term, say that in the beginning so neither of you will waste your time.

Posted by dontgetmewrongThank you dear for the compliment! You're evolved too 🙂
Beautifulsoul 74 is an evolved Sag male, he might be able to give you some input on how he was at that age compared to how he is now, there's other Sag males on here as well, I think in 20s.. perhaps they can provide some insight too.
I'm a female Sag. Obviously different..but can understand them.

Posted by busyeyes88+1. A man, Sag or not, will then either step up to the plate or not.
B74. Is correct .
@OP. A woman should ALWAYS stipulate what she wants from the get go and STICK to it !!! That way there is no confusion and if both parties are on different pages, either party can walk away and no one gets hurt!
Even if the OP wanted FWB at first and then changed her mind, should've just said so. Manipulation is THE fastest way to lose us.

Don't waste your time. As a cap you wont get what you want. doesn't matter if hes 51 or 22, they never change. they eternal game players. caps don't have time for the BS. Do yourself a favor and get a real man and not a mouse. i dated one for years. it was constant BS. Hes pays his bills on time which is about it.

Posted by busyeyes88yep their a waste of time.
I am not a sag, but it does not take a rocket scientist to tell you what you already know.... You and the young sag are just fuck buddies. Why would you want him to "leave his friends behind". This sag is probably having sex with many women as you are just a fuck buddy. If you want a relationship in every sense of the word, then get a guy neater to your age group and not a sag. Sags are very good at separating sex from emotions. In fact sex to them is more than likely just a sport.

Posted by ozzzyHaha mature at 35. the one i know is a kid at 51, cant commit, constant game player. cant talk about emotions or anything. they think they are so "fun" and "spontaneous" blah blah ha! pathetic. *epic eye roll*
I agree. He's only 22, so all he wants is just fun, and having sex with as many girls as he can. Younger Sags cannot commit to just one women, they're always looking for something new and challenging.
You will only end up being hurt. I'm a Sag male, and I tell you at that age it's almost impossible for him to give you something more, plus, there is really no compatibility between those signs, so I assume that he will get bored after 3-4 months.
Don't be surprised if he leave you for some other chick. Mature Sags are better for something long term. He should be at least your age, or older to wish to settle down, but probably at least 35 imho.

Posted by KittenLaRougeWith you constantly busting his balls, no wonder he didn't commit. Second, you call him a child but yet you can't even take personal responsibility for having him in your life as if he put a gun to your head. The blame lies with you, not him. People are who they are and if you choose to continue to mistreat you...then it's on you. Fundamental principle.Posted by ozzzyHaha mature at 35. the one i know is a kid at 51, cant commit, constant game player. cant talk about emotions or anything. they think they are so "fun" and "spontaneous" blah blah ha! pathetic. *epic eye roll*
I agree. He's only 22, so all he wants is just fun, and having sex with as many girls as he can. Younger Sags cannot commit to just one women, they're always looking for something new and challenging.
You will only end up being hurt. I'm a Sag male, and I tell you at that age it's almost impossible for him to give you something more, plus, there is really no compatibility between those signs, so I assume that he will get bored after 3-4 months.
Don't be surprised if he leave you for some other chick. Mature Sags are better for something long term. He should be at least your age, or older to wish to settle down, but probably at least 35 imho.click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88i was 16 and didnt know any better lolPosted by KittenLaRougeBut also don't forget !! You put up with his behaviour to 10 years! If he was so shit why put up with his bs for long?
Don't waste your time. As a cap you wont get what you want. doesn't matter if hes 51 or 22, they never change. they eternal game players. caps don't have time for the BS. Do yourself a favor and get a real man and not a mouse. i dated one for years. it was constant BS. Hes pays his bills on time which is about it.click to expand

Posted by beautifulsoul74LMAO! i thought sags were all about honesty? when i catch him lying about going out of town, lying about his phone breaking, lying about sexting girls you want me to smile and lie down and play dead? hell naw damn right im going to bust his balls. Im not a fool. Hes 51, hes a man. Hes supposed to be the leader of the household and set an example yet he conducts himself as a child. And hes not mistreating me anymore because I blocked him. No one has time for fools.Posted by KittenLaRougeWith you constantly busting his balls, no wonder he didn't commit. Second, you call him a child but yet you can't even take personal responsibility for having him in your life as if he put a gun to your head. The blame lies with you, not him. People are who they are and if you choose to continue to mistreat you...then it's on you. Fundamental principle.Posted by ozzzyHaha mature at 35. the one i know is a kid at 51, cant commit, constant game player. cant talk about emotions or anything. they think they are so "fun" and "spontaneous" blah blah ha! pathetic. *epic eye roll*
I agree. He's only 22, so all he wants is just fun, and having sex with as many girls as he can. Younger Sags cannot commit to just one women, they're always looking for something new and challenging.
You will only end up being hurt. I'm a Sag male, and I tell you at that age it's almost impossible for him to give you something more, plus, there is really no compatibility between those signs, so I assume that he will get bored after 3-4 months.
Don't be surprised if he leave you for some other chick. Mature Sags are better for something long term. He should be at least your age, or older to wish to settle down, but probably at least 35 imho.click to expand

And trust me, no one on this end wants him to commit any longer. If he has 20 girls idgaf. and when a Capricorn doesn't gaf, you can take it to the bank.

Cap and Sag are not a good match, so why you chose him? Go with some Taurus, or Virgo, they will understand you just fine, and you will be happy. Also, why are you chasing so much older men than you? He's 51, and you're 23...lol. Are you looking for a father, or what? 😄

Posted by KittenLaRougeKitten, how about you be the Cardinal sign that you're supposed to be and you lead instead of looking for some man to provide what you should be providing yourself. You're simply looking for a man to be responsible for you...good luck with that. Second, sitting here being critical whePosted by beautifulsoul74LMAO! i thought sags were all about honesty? when i catch him lying about going out of town, lying about his phone breaking, lying about sexting girls you want me to smile and lie down and play dead? hell naw damn right im going to bust his balls. Im not a fool. Hes 51, hes a man. Hes supposed to be the leader of the household and set an example yet he conducts himself as a child. And hes not mistreating me anymore because I blocked him. No one has time for fools.Posted by KittenLaRougeWith you constantly busting his balls, no wonder he didn't commit. Second, you call him a child but yet you can't even take personal responsibility for having him in your life as if he put a gun to your head. The blame lies with you, not him. People are who they are and if you choose to continue to mistreat you...then it's on you. Fundamental principle.Posted by ozzzyHaha mature at 35. the one i know is a kid at 51, cant commit, constant game player. cant talk about emotions or anything. they think they are so "fun" and "spontaneous" blah blah ha! pathetic. *epic eye roll*
I agree. He's only 22, so all he wants is just fun, and having sex with as many girls as he can. Younger Sags cannot commit to just one women, they're always looking for something new and challenging.
You will only end up being hurt. I'm a Sag male, and I tell you at that age it's almost impossible for him to give you something more, plus, there is really no compatibility between those signs, so I assume that he will get bored after 3-4 months.
Don't be surprised if he leave you for some other chick. Mature Sags are better for something long term. He should be at least your age, or older to wish to settle down, but probably at least 35 imho.click to expand

^^^sitting here being critical when you're really mad at yourself.

Posted by ozzzyim 26 now and we were together 10 years. we are both sag cap cusp, im dec 23 and he dec 21. we were like 2 peas in a pod..... inseparable. the problem now is he came back after a break up to work things out and hes in a different state now. the reason we broke up is because he cheated and now i dont trust him especially in a different state. im not chasing anyone he came back to me. but he is so deep in the porn thing now that he cannot funciton with a real woman. he cant even kiss or hug. we used to have deep intimacy and he is so far gone now i cant reach him.
Cap and Sag are not a good match, so why you chose him? Go with some Taurus, or Virgo, they will understand you just fine, and you will be happy. Also, why are you chasing so much older men than you? He's 51, and you're 23...lol. Are you looking for a father, or what? 😄

Posted by beautifulsoul74Posted by KittenLaRougeKitten, how about you be the Cardinal sign that you're supposed to be and you lead instead of looking for some man to provide what you should be providing yourself. You'rePosted by beautifulsoul74LMAO! i thought sags were all about honesty? when i catch him lying about going out of town, lying about his phone breaking, lying about sexting girls you want me to smile and lie down and play dead? hell naw damn right im going to bust his balls. Im not a fool. Hes 51, hes a man. Hes supposed to be the leader of the household and set an example yet he conducts himself as a child. And hes not mistreating me anymore because I blocked him. No one has time for fools.Posted by KittenLaRougeWith you constantly busting his balls, no wonder he didn't commit. Second, you call him a child but yet you can't even take personal responsibility for having him in your life as if he put a gun to your head. The blame lies with you, not him. People are who they are and if you choose to continue to mistreat you...then it's on you. Fundamental principle.Posted by ozzzyHaha mature at 35. the one i know is a kid at 51, cant commit, constant game player. cant talk about emotions or anything. they think they are so "fun" and "spontaneous" blah blah ha! pathetic. *epic eye roll*
I agree. He's only 22, so all he wants is just fun, and having sex with as many girls as he can. Younger Sags cannot commit to just one women, they're always looking for something new and challenging.
You will only end up being hurt. I'm a Sag male, and I tell you at that age it's almost impossible for him to give you something more, plus, there is really no compatibility between those signs, so I assume that he will get bored after 3-4 months.
Don't be surprised if he leave you for some other chick. Mature Sags are better for something long term. He should be at least your age, or older to wish to settle down, but probably at least 35 imho.click to expand

Posted by beautifulsoul74LULZ! i am completely self sufficient im not looking for a man for anything. haha! i meant lead by actions in a christian sense, not finanically. God calls men to be leaders to lead by example.
^^^sitting here being critical when you're really mad at yourself.

Posted by KittenLaRougeI'm not even getting into that discussionPosted by beautifulsoul74LULZ! i am completely self sufficient im not looking for a man for anything. haha! i meant lead by actions in a christian sense, not finanically. God calls men to be leaders to lead by example.
^^^sitting here being critical when you're really mad at yourself.click to expand

Posted by ozzzyyep the virgo i dated was a gem. i have so much respect for him but i was with the sag the longest. we made in longer that most married couples. but i have no respect for him now so thus i cant be with him.
Cap and Sag are not a good match, so why you chose him? Go with some Taurus, or Virgo, they will understand you just fine, and you will be happy. Also, why are you chasing so much older men than you? He's 51, and you're 23...lol. Are you looking for a father, or what? 😄

Posted by beautifulsoul74thats fine. if you arent a christian you wouldnt understand. Ice cube is a man i would consider a leader of his house. i have so much respect for him. he doesnt mess around. this is what a cap girl needs, someone they can respect, not a little boyPosted by KittenLaRougeI'm not even getting into that discussionPosted by beautifulsoul74LULZ! i am completely self sufficient im not looking for a man for anything. haha! i meant lead by actions in a christian sense, not finanically. God calls men to be leaders to lead by example.
^^^sitting here being critical when you're really mad at yourself.click to expand

Posted by exowhats wrong with that ? i love him and dre. theyve both been married like 20 years and they about they business. you dont see them acting a fool.
ice cube, lol.
thats the type of man i can respect. these commitment phobes need to take a a seat, in fact take many seats lol

Exactly what I wanted to wrote now. 🙂 Jeez, at 16 years old, you were attracted to so much older men. Is that some problem from a childhood, or what? Do you have a father? Did he treated you well? Mostly girls who don't have a father are looking for so much older men. That's a BIG difference in everything, especially when you were in your teen years. Not normal at all.

Posted by busyeyes88Lol...it's her fault too. And why are you only in a Sag forum? You say you're not obsessed with us, but are only lurking here, and bashing Sag males. It still bothers you, lol. You don't even have to admit, cause Sag can see through the bs. Leave your frustrations behind, and move on.Posted by ozzzyI have noticed that sag men tend to prey on much younger women... it is something really kind of perverted about them. At 16 years of age she would have been vulnerable it is the AGED sag you should be asking why prey on a very young woman....
Exactly what I wanted to wrote now. 🙂 Jeez, at 16 years old, you were attracted to so much older men. Is that some problem from a childhood, or what? Do you have a father? Did he treated you well? Mostly girls who don't have a father are looking for so much older men. That's a BIG difference in everything, especially when you were in your teen years. Not normal at all.click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88And did he put a gun at her head, and make her to be with him? At that age you can't be THAT stupid for that, so no excuse for her too! She's even worse than him because she let it happen. How other girls don't have problem with that? Because they refuse the offer, and ignore them, so stop bs.Posted by ozzzyI'm just saying what I have noticed!!! You don't have to be defensive. She was only 16!!!! I'm not bashing. It's Free forum. If it's An obsession then you might as well say Im also obsessed with leo, libra, taurus scorpio.... Sag will see what they want. If you think there is no harm in a 44 year old man having sex with at 16 then something is wrong with you and that has nothing to do with sun sign. We have it also in the taurus board and I say the same thing... So trust me I am not obsessed was just an observation and pointing it out... Thank you.Posted by busyeyes88Lol...it's her fault too. And why are you only in a Sag forum? You say you're not obsessed with us, but are only lurking here, and bashing Sag males. It still bothers you, lol. You don't even have to admit, cause Sag can see through the bs. Leave your frustrations behind, and move on.Posted by ozzzyI have noticed that sag men tend to prey on much younger women... it is something really kind of perverted about them. At 16 years of age she would have been vulnerable it is the AGED sag you should be asking why prey on a very young woman....
Exactly what I wanted to wrote now. 🙂 Jeez, at 16 years old, you were attracted to so much older men. Is that some problem from a childhood, or what? Do you have a father? Did he treated you well? Mostly girls who don't have a father are looking for so much older men. That's a BIG difference in everything, especially when you were in your teen years. Not normal at all.click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88Busy, is this an act or something? Are you purposely trying to be annoying with your comments? All of your posts about saggis has to either be out of boredom or you're just just plain obsessed.Posted by ozzzyI'm just saying what I have noticed!!! You don't have to be defensive. She was only 16!!!! I'm not bashing. It's Free forum. If it's An obsession then you might as well say Im also obsessed with leo, libra, taurus scorpio.... Sag will see what they want. If you think there is no harm in a 44 year old man having sex with at 16 then something is wrong with you and that has nothing to do with sun sign. We have it also in the taurus board and I say the same thing... So trust me I am not obsessed was just an observation and pointing it out... Thank you.Posted by busyeyes88Lol...it's her fault too. And why are you only in a Sag forum? You say you're not obsessed with us, but are only lurking here, and bashing Sag males. It still bothers you, lol. You don't even have to admit, cause Sag can see through the bs. Leave your frustrations behind, and move on.Posted by ozzzyI have noticed that sag men tend to prey on much younger women... it is something really kind of perverted about them. At 16 years of age she would have been vulnerable it is the AGED sag you should be asking why prey on a very young woman....
Exactly what I wanted to wrote now. 🙂 Jeez, at 16 years old, you were attracted to so much older men. Is that some problem from a childhood, or what? Do you have a father? Did he treated you well? Mostly girls who don't have a father are looking for so much older men. That's a BIG difference in everything, especially when you were in your teen years. Not normal at all.click to expand
Posting out of sheer boredom to have anf audience is the Leo Moon way. Id accept this answer if its the case.
however if its not, gurl, every sag is not your ex sag who you obviously still have feelings for. Either call that mofo or move on.

*any audience.
lol. Jeez. Any audience to a leo moon is still an audience. Kind of like any kind of attention is still attention at the end of the day.
I for one, could never be this bored.
lol. Jeez. Any audience to a leo moon is still an audience. Kind of like any kind of attention is still attention at the end of the day.
I for one, could never be this bored.

Posted by DMVPosted by busyeyes88Busy, is this an act or something? Are you purposely trying to be annoying with your comments? All of your posts about saggis has to either be out of boredom or you're just just plain obsessed.Posted by ozzzyI'm just saying what I have noticed!!! You don't have to be defensive. She was only 16!!!! I'm not bashing. It's Free forum. If it's An obsession then you might as well say Im also obsessed with leo, libra, taurus scorpio.... Sag will see what they want. If you think there is no harm in a 44 year old man having sex with at 16 then something is wrong with you and that has nothing to do with sun sign. We have it also in the taurus board and I say the same thing... So trust me I am not obsessed was just an observation and pointing it out... Thank you.Posted by busyeyes88Lol...it's her fault too. And why are you only in a Sag forum? You say you're not obsessed with us, but are only lurking here, and bashing Sag males. It still bothers you, lol. You don't even have to admit, cause Sag can see through the bs. Leave your frustrations behind, and move on.Posted by ozzzyI have noticed that sag men tend to prey on much younger women... it is something really kind of perverted about them. At 16 years of age she would have been vulnerable it is the AGED sag you should be asking why prey on a very young woman....
Exactly what I wanted to wrote now. 🙂 Jeez, at 16 years old, you were attracted to so much older men. Is that some problem from a childhood, or what? Do you have a father? Did he treated you well? Mostly girls who don't have a father are looking for so much older men. That's a BIG difference in everything, especially when you were in your teen years. Not normal at all.click to expand
Posting out of sheer boredom to have anf audience is the Leo Moon way. Id accept this answer if its the case.
however if its not, gurl, every sag is not your ex sag who you obviously still have feelings for. Either call that mofo

^^^+1

Posted by beautifulsoul74You clearly know Intel, no one else is privy to.Posted by KittenLaRougeWith you constantly busting his balls, no wonder he didn't commit. Second, you call him a child but yet you can't even take personal responsibility for having him in your life as if he put a gun to your head. The blame lies with you, not him. People are who they are and if you choose to continue to mistreat you...then it's on you. Fundamental principle.Posted by ozzzyHaha mature at 35. the one i know is a kid at 51, cant commit, constant game player. cant talk about emotions or anything. they think they are so "fun" and "spontaneous" blah blah ha! pathetic. *epic eye roll*
I agree. He's only 22, so all he wants is just fun, and having sex with as many girls as he can. Younger Sags cannot commit to just one women, they're always looking for something new and challenging.
You will only end up being hurt. I'm a Sag male, and I tell you at that age it's almost impossible for him to give you something more, plus, there is really no compatibility between those signs, so I assume that he will get bored after 3-4 months.
Don't be surprised if he leave you for some other chick. Mature Sags are better for something long term. He should be at least your age, or older to wish to settle down, but probably at least 35 imho.click to expand
PS when the the hell did this thread become about this chick instead of he OP? Attention whoring at it's finest.

Posted by PhoenixRisingits called a conversation einstein.Posted by beautifulsoul74You clearly know Intel, no one else is privy to.Posted by KittenLaRougeWith you constantly busting his balls, no wonder he didn't commit. Second, you call him a child but yet you can't even take personal responsibility for having him in your life as if he put a gun to your head. The blame lies with you, not him. People are who they are and if you choose to continue to mistreat you...then it's on you. Fundamental principle.Posted by ozzzyHaha mature at 35. the one i know is a kid at 51, cant commit, constant game player. cant talk about emotions or anything. they think they are so "fun" and "spontaneous" blah blah ha! pathetic. *epic eye roll*
I agree. He's only 22, so all he wants is just fun, and having sex with as many girls as he can. Younger Sags cannot commit to just one women, they're always looking for something new and challenging.
You will only end up being hurt. I'm a Sag male, and I tell you at that age it's almost impossible for him to give you something more, plus, there is really no compatibility between those signs, so I assume that he will get bored after 3-4 months.
Don't be surprised if he leave you for some other chick. Mature Sags are better for something long term. He should be at least your age, or older to wish to settle down, but probably at least 35 imho.
PS when the the hell did this thread become about this chick instead of he OP? Attention whoring at it's finest.click to expand
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