Will my sag man forgive me

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Skyjer on Sunday, August 23, 2015 and has 15 replies.

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@Skyjer
10 Years

I was seeing this guy for 3 months. We grew very close but he has a girlfriend in another state. He told me he was going to break up with her and I felt like he was taking too long to do it. Well I sent her pics of him and I together and now he's mad at me and told me not to ever contact him again. We did everything together and now he's gone. I can't understand how he could just walk away like that? Will he ever forgive me and come back?

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@DwellingOnMove
17 Years10,000+ Posts

I don't know if you are serious or a troll, but I know I don't like your sagi guy.

realy bad person.

it was so correct from you to send the pictures. his gf has now the chance to see whom she is with.

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@Skyjer
10 Years

II was wrong for hurting the gf I used her to hurt him and it was just wrong. I appreciate the feedback. I will learn from this and move on. Thanks

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@DwellingOnMove
17 Years10,000+ Posts

in love, war and game everything can be expected.

she did what she could not avoid to do. and that is correct.

revenge is not for weaklings (do you find Scorpios are weak?). revenge is just one of variations how to respond to a hurt. or injustice

Also it does not matter anymore if the man can truly love OP. He is a mess anyway. A liar. An opportunist. If at all he must apology to both girls.

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@DwellingOnMove
17 Years10,000+ Posts

" am stuck, I try to practice forgiveness, I used to be revengeful and it hurts more than forgiving."

yes, that is correct too. you noticed for yourself that revenge was a worse response to such situations. so you modified your character.

whatever works!
woody allen

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@Wynter
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by DwellingOnMove
I don't know if you are serious or a troll, but I know I don't like your sagi guy.

realy bad person.

it was so correct from you to send the pictures. his gf has now the chance to see whom she is with.

+1

The Sag sucks, and this bimbo sucks.

Out of state gf is free to choose better.

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@Skyjer
10 Years

This was my first experience posting on a forum and it really helped a lot minus the name calling but hey I guess I deserved it. I enjoy reading all of the feedback good or bad.

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@DwellingOnMove
17 Years10,000+ Posts

"But with you getting low and underhanded like that it shows that you are maliciously deceptive, intruding, controlling and spiteful."

You might be right.
Only I never was in such a situation. When somebody was that bad I had realized it already through his actions towards the environment. So we have not taken off high enough that I could be big surprised.

Generally yes, I have a big problem to get along with such a character you described. On the other hand I can understand when people do crime cause they feel hurt. Maybe it's just my luck that I never saw such a person in my life. Not even the angry ones. Or did I forget them? Or drain them from my memory? IDK.

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@PhoenixRising
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I was seeing this guy for 3 months. We grew very close but he has a girlfriend in another state. He told me he was going to break up with her and I felt like he was taking too long to do it. Well I sent her pics of him and I together and now he's mad at me and told me not to ever contact him again. We did everything together and now he's gone. I can't understand how he could just walk away like that? Will he ever forgive me and come back?

Lol. You're joking right?

"I felt like he was taking too long...." Now you have all the time in the world to work on your impatience don't you.

Idk, maybe you should have left a man that was in a relationship, long distance or not, alone. No need to push an issue.