CONFUSING...SAGITTARIUS MAN..

Hi help needed, i am a leo, and met a sagg man about 11 months ago, got on great the chemistry was electric, and had such a good time... then after seeing each other for 3 months, i misinturpreted something he said, and just walked away. but a couple of days later i appologised by text, he was quite polite at the time,And arranged to meet the saturday after, but he cancelled saying he had family problems, and he would ring the day after to explain, he never did, so i left it at that.after a few more text at that time.

then for the next 2 months, just text him now and again, as he was having family problems, he was always flirty and polite. so i decided to not text anymore, then out of the blue got a text 2 weeks ago from him, just asking how i was, so i replied saying i was good, and how was he.
and then last night got a text asking if i wasnt seeing anyone...would i go for dinner with him saturday night, ive agreed, and a few other text that were flirty as they always was. i like this guy so much, but dont want to get hurt...so why now has he contacted me, is it just that he wants to stay friends, or looking for something more...must admit this guy confuses me.
As his actions never seem to agree with his words..as i know he likes me, but at the time we broke up he seemed more concerned with the amount of time we had know each other..saying we hadnt been seeeing each other that long...and that he had work family problems... which i just took as excuses, but now hes come back with wanting to meet...but honestly being a leo i want to stay cool, but really could cuddle and kiss him to death...lol.
buy the way we wasnt sleeping together.
hope your sagges can shed some light on this....x
should ass aslo were in our 40s

Hi help needed, i am a leo, and met a sagg man about 11 months ago, got on great the chemistry was electric, and had such a good time... then after seeing each other for 3 months, i misinturpreted something he said, and just walked away. but a couple of days later i appologised by text, he was quite polite at the time,And arranged to meet the saturday after, but he cancelled saying he had family problems, and he would ring the day after to explain, he never did, so i left it at that.after a few more text at that time.

then for the next 2 months, just text him now and again, as he was having family problems, he was always flirty and polite. so i decided to not text anymore, then out of the blue got a text 2 weeks ago from him, just asking how i was, so i replied saying i was good, and how was he.
and then last night got a text asking if i wasnt seeing anyone...would i go for dinner with him saturday night, ive agreed, and a few other text that were flirty as they always was. i like this guy so much, but dont want to get hurt...so why now has he contacted me, is it just that he wants to stay friends, or looking for something more...must admit this guy confuses me.
As his actions never seem to agree with his words..as i know he likes me, but at the time we broke up he seemed more concerned with the amount of time we had know each other..saying we hadnt been seeeing each other that long...and that he had work family problems... which i just took as excuses, but now hes come back with wanting to meet...but honestly being a leo i want to stay cool, but really could cuddle and kiss him to death...lol.
buy the way we wasnt sleeping together.
hope your sagges can shed some light on this....x
should ass aslo were in our 40s

You gave him the chance to miss your texting ass 🙂. let him chase you. Dont cling too hard.

lol... thank you, i will try...so best to stay cool but friendly then..

Posted by leolady290
lol... thank you, i will try...so best to stay cool but friendly then..

yeppers 🙂

I would suggest being his best friend. Leos and Sags have mutual love for one another, and it is usually strong...But it can burn out really fast, if you do not take your time. Sag men tend to go the long haul with females whom they consider to be their best friend. He is probably scared that you are not really that into him,causing this hot and cold behavior in him. Never discuss relationships, it should happen naturally...Trust me, he likes you. Probably alot. But is being cautious because you have the potential to hurt him..We Sags love Leos real hard...

One thing that is often not talked about with us is we are sensitive to being misunderstood...misinterpreted. While thats ok, I'd venture to say that you two had quite an argument over what he said and the leo pride caused you to walk away. He may have forgiven you, but as said by Easha, he probably saw you.as unreliable as we feel that even though you argued if you cared you wouldn't have left so easily.

Yes, he still likes you but he doesn't trust you and is letting you earn his trust by meeting him halfway in communication. Another thing is that we tend to solve our problems on our own and don't really talk about them. The reason why is that we don't want others to be troubled with our mess or something that needs to be taken care of.

Give it time 🙂

Thank you for your messages, and you insight into my problem,
there was not argument as such i just said goodnight, at the time, (like us leo's do) he did send me a text at time asking what hed said, but being leo, i just replied very short...and then thought about it for a couple of days, then sent apologies, and explained id misunderstood what hed said to me, but thats by the way now.

and think your right beautifulsoul,,leo pride..and at the time thought because he was very cool with me that he wasnt that bothered.as the weeks previous all he seemed to say was we havnt been seeing each other that long. but this man when he looks at me, its like hes looking at my soul, and its electric. and i get all mushy and just want to pour my heart out to him...which is unusual for me...im usually reserved and cool...lol.

and thank you easha, for your insignt, if nothing else think ill have to settle for friendship.

Im meeting him saturday, and so nervous, he text me last night to make sure it was still ok, and he was his usual flirty self saying he couldnt wait and was looking forward to seeing me, i just dont want to mess it up...so do i act as though nothing happened before...or mention it...

Please stop!!!LOL! you are making me nervous for you.You are a Leo, so put on your confidence, along with a classy, but sexy out fit, and work your magic..You would not be settling, once you enter a friendship with a Sag. Sag men have always told me that the best relationship that they had ever been in, was one that started off with friendship first...

Thankyou easha...I'll. Do my best, but so nervous, anyone would think i was a teenager going on a first date...lol.
Just hope all goes well....and he isn't messing with me...as he cancelled last time at last minute...

Posted by leolady290
Thankyou easha...I'll. Do my best, but so nervous, anyone would think i was a teenager going on a first date...lol.
Just hope all goes well....and he isn't messing with me...as he cancelled last time at last minute...

And if he cancels this time, put him on pause...But if he gives a buttery excuse, then delete permanently..Also try keeping your posts all in one thread; You are confusing us all...LOL!

Thanks easha, yes think your right, will let you know..
And sorry about post..New to this site. Just finding my way round.. lol

Hi...easha, well its happend.got a text about an hour ago cancelling...saying he had to work..and could we do lunch tomorrow..havnt replied as yet..this is confusing...and don't know whether to reply or not...as can't understand what he's playing at.

Hi...easha, well its happend.got a text about an hour ago cancelling...saying he had to work..and could we do lunch tomorrow..havnt replied as yet..this is confusing...and don't know whether to reply or not...as can't understand what he's playing at.

The worst thing leos do to a sag is ignore them. im a sag and when my leo does that stuff it makes me want to hit the road! if your angry say something!!!!!!!! all it takes is that upset me and i need some space to think... silence is terrible to a sag and only pushes us away IMO. if you care for this man give him the respect he deserves... just because he pissed you off in the moment doesnt take away all the other wonderful things im sure he does.

and......HEY EASHA!! How you doing girl!!

Posted by leolady290
Hi...easha, well its happend.got a text about an hour ago cancelling...saying he had to work..and could we do lunch tomorrow..havnt replied as yet..this is confusing...and don't know whether to reply or not...as can't understand what he's playing at.

Hes flaky or just not interested.

He has a pattern of canceling, that doesn't look too good.

yeah, he's trying to not be the bad guy. He's waiting for you to curse him and drop him.

Thanks for advice..
He said he had to cancell...due to work commitments.
So i sent message back...stating that, i wasn't being messed about.
And to forget it...since then have had a message from him everyday.saying that he isn't messing about
And wouldnt do that...but is really busy with this contract he's on.

Must admit...never come across this senario...and as explained do like this guy..
But just don't know what to do...
Do i just tell him to make time for me or forget it in a nice way.
Or do i continue with this waiting..
Is this usual behaviour for a sag man.
As at moment he's confusing the hell out of me..as he seems genuine..

Sag men like a challenge. Do not wait. Instead, focus on yourself, your goals, your hobbies, your ambitions. You've already told him how you felt, now it's his time to prove otherwise. Live your life, and if you want to go out with him, fine, but I wouldn't wait or put all of my eggs in that basket.