Even though I may call you crazy or bipolar. You sagittarius men have addictive personalities ( : : /.
Damn Sagittarius
Too bad it's a good and bad thing. But anything that's an addiction is more bad than anything. I just wished ya'll expressed your feelings like you would express everything else. I feel like love from you is silent. Just venting sorry.
Posted by 915queenits cool. vent away. 🙂
Too bad it's a good and bad thing. But anything that's an addiction is more bad than anything. I just wished ya'll expressed your feelings like you would express everything else. I feel like love from you is silent. Just venting sorry.
if he has water in his chart, give him time. IMO, sag men are the real men of the zodiac. I have the certain body type to attract Sag sun men. From the ones i met, either its my reluctance to reveal how i feel or what, but, they need plenty of time to feel at ease and then they clutch on for dear life. saggis are just vulnerable, more so than we let off.
always pick your battles. too many battles that they themselves didnt initiate, and i would just cut your losses.
Like he's 9yrs older than me. He say he wants to see me everyday but we haven't seen eachother in 1month 2 1/2 weeks.I met him through working as a receiving associate and he's a vendor/driver for a soda company. When we first met we got into a huge altercation over denying his order. But over the months we started to agree to disagree about what I will receive and deny. One day I denied his order and he was sooo calm I guess because I showed and explained the reasons. one conversation led to another and I saw a sparkle in his eye. Now I know that sound unreal but it was something about him. The next time he delivered he asked can he show me something outside so I agreed to go, we went outside and he stood infront of me and said he wanted to see me outside my job(I was in a relationship with a pisces which was really rocky and unhealthy). So I told him about my situation and he didn't care he was still interested. After that he left and ended coming right back saying he "accidentally" left the wrong pallet which never happened before. While I was checking in another vendor he stood beside me and kept complimenting me. Times after seeing him he would stay at my job after I checked him in and talk to me about life and curious about my life and telling me he wanted me to come to his country ( El Salvador) for what idk lol. We eventually exchanged numbers after my break up and been cool ever since. He asked me plenty of times to come see him but I was always busy. It's like he always asked at the wrong times. He asked can I love someone like him I said yes because he was so sweet and optimistic about life which is a turn on. I went over his house and by me not having sex in over a year I wanted it bad. After that he kind of been acting strange. Like he came to my job and out of nowhere he and said I didn't look good in my glasses to he don't like me anymore I guess because I didn't seem crazy about him after the sex. Then he would compliment me and tell his other co workers that came to my job he wanted me in his life. He confused me. One minute he want to be in my face next minute he's distant. I felt like I was being played so I told him to delete my number and he said okay delete mines too. Some days later he saw me and was very disrespectful calling me AYE YOU so I played it off as I didn't hear him. He texted me later that day and I acted as if I didn't know who he was. We talked and everything was good.
Back to being in my face being playful. Now that I have departed from my job we only talked once thats when he said he wanted to see me everyday. I told him I cant because I'm busy so he said well I want to see you as much as I can. I told him we can make that happen now it's been 2 1/2 weeks since we've talked. I feel lost.
Sounds like a power struggle or miscommunication of some sorts. I know virgos can be VERY apprehensive about people and proceed with caution.
the thing with the glasses comment. Here's how i took it. I take it to mean that he has spent considerable time looking at you and he probably prefers to make out with you without them. He probably wanted to kiss you but felt like your glasses could get in the way maybe?
with the hot n cold thing, distance then closeness, we saggis can get pretty distracted and go off and do other things. especially the men. they get distracted by life in general, but they would like a rock to go back to.
i dont think his greeting was disrespectful, i think it was rather playful.
the thing with the glasses comment. Here's how i took it. I take it to mean that he has spent considerable time looking at you and he probably prefers to make out with you without them. He probably wanted to kiss you but felt like your glasses could get in the way maybe?
with the hot n cold thing, distance then closeness, we saggis can get pretty distracted and go off and do other things. especially the men. they get distracted by life in general, but they would like a rock to go back to.
i dont think his greeting was disrespectful, i think it was rather playful.
Posted by 915queenit also sounds like you turn him down alot. after a while, hes going to take the "perceived" hint that you may not be interested.
Back to being in my face being playful. Now that I have departed from my job we only talked once thats when he said he wanted to see me everyday. I told him I cant because I'm busy so he said well I want to see you as much as I can. I told him we can make that happen now it's been 2 1/2 weeks since we've talked. I feel lost.
youre not lost, he is just off living....maybe give some more positive reinforcement? i do like how he is chasing the cat per se.
Posted by DMVPosted by 915queenit also sounds like you turn him down alot. after a while, hes going to take the "perceived" hint that you may not be interested.
Back to being in my face being playful. Now that I have departed from my job we only talked once thats when he said he wanted to see me everyday. I told him I cant because I'm busy so he said well I want to see you as much as I can. I told him we can make that happen now it's been 2 1/2 weeks since we've talked. I feel lost.click to expand
youre not lost, he is just off living....maybe give some more positive reinforcement? i do like how he is chasing the cat per se.
hmm men are such a contradiction they play power games after you have sex with them but then their whole purpose is to get you to have sex with them. Sounds like he just game playing to me and saw you as a challenge because you told him you had a bf when you met him.
Posted by Octoberbaby91
hmm men are such a contradiction they play power games after you have sex with them but then their whole purpose is to get you to have sex with them. Sounds like he just game playing to me and saw you as a challenge because you told him you had a bf when you met him.
Idk anymore imma throw in the towel
@915queen: if you really looked at it...we express our feelings by what we do for you more so than what we say...actions speak louder than words. Not in a critical way, but I find it puzzling that Virgos don't recognize this...isnt service your forte?
Posted by beautifulsoul74It is but he seems wishy washy. Im african american he's Salvadoran maybe there's a misunderstanding on how we communicate on things.
@915queen: if you really looked at it...we express our feelings by what we do for you more so than what we say...actions speak louder than words. Not in a critical way, but I find it puzzling that Virgos don't recognize this...isnt service your forte?
I love when he tells me he really like me alot staring at me when I walk towards him and smile looking down as if he's shy. I just don't know what to do. I hate texting first because I dont want to feel like I am interfering or bugging him.
this is sweet. he does like you. youre just being a super shy virgo who sounds like she needs a master to take the bull by the horns. you also sound like a virgo who likes to play cat n mouse games. remember youre mutable 2.
I have a virgo bestie. She does much better with men who just take charge so theres no confusion. She was with a aries, then scorpio, now leo. see the pattern?
sag may be toooo go with the flo. he following your flo cause he's mutable 2. unlike a leo, scorp or aries who just bark orders. but it works!
this is sweet. he does like you. youre just being a super shy virgo who sounds like she needs a master to take the bull by the horns. you also sound like a virgo who likes to play cat n mouse games. remember youre mutable 2.
I have a virgo bestie. She does much better with men who just take charge so theres no confusion. She was with a aries, then scorpio, now leo. see the pattern?
sag may be toooo go with the flo. he following your flo cause he's mutable 2. unlike a leo, scorp or aries who just bark orders. but it works!
Posted by 915queenhe's wishy washy 2 u because virgos prefer being told what to do.Posted by beautifulsoul74It is but he seems wishy washy. Im african american he's Salvadoran maybe there's a misunderstanding on how we communicate on things.
@915queen: if you really looked at it...we express our feelings by what we do for you more so than what we say...actions speak louder than words. Not in a critical way, but I find it puzzling that Virgos don't recognize this...isnt service your forte?click to expand
i think mutable on mutable works for gems, saggis, and pisces but not virgos.
Posted by DMVI never looked at it that way. I thought by him being older he would lead.
I love when he tells me he really like me alot staring at me when I walk towards him and smile looking down as if he's shy. I just don't know what to do. I hate texting first because I dont want to feel like I am interfering or bugging him.
this is sweet. he does like you. youre just being a super shy virgo who sounds like she needs a master to take the bull by the horns. you also sound like a virgo who likes to play cat n mouse games. remember youre mutable 2.
I have a virgo bestie. She does much better with men who just take charge so theres no confusion. She was with a aries, then scorpio, now leo. see the pattern?
sag may be toooo go with the flo. he following your flo cause he's mutable 2. unlike a leo, scorp or aries who just bark orders. but it works!
Posted by DMVDo yall think I should put my fears to the side and see how he's doing or let him live. Like I overthink too much what if he tells me we shouldn't associate anymore and to leave him alone.Posted by 915queenhe's wishy washy 2 u because virgos prefer being told what to do.Posted by beautifulsoul74It is but he seems wishy washy. Im african american he's Salvadoran maybe there's a misunderstanding on how we communicate on things.
@915queen: if you really looked at it...we express our feelings by what we do for you more so than what we say...actions speak louder than words. Not in a critical way, but I find it puzzling that Virgos don't recognize this...isnt service your forte?
i think mutable on mutable works for gems, saggis, and pisces but not virgos.click to expand
no, wait till he comes back around and give positive reinforcement. Suggest a round of mini golf or something.
Posted by DMVI hope he contacts me I miss his energy :/
no, wait till he comes back around and give positive reinforcement. Suggest a round of mini golf or something.
I pretty much agree with DMV. Let him come to you.
As for the Sag, perhaps you need one with aries, leo, or scorp placements...particularly moon and mars. Me and my Virgal both have leo moons. She has venus on leo and I have mars in scorp. At times, it's a power struggle but mostly I lead.
As for the Sag, perhaps you need one with aries, leo, or scorp placements...particularly moon and mars. Me and my Virgal both have leo moons. She has venus on leo and I have mars in scorp. At times, it's a power struggle but mostly I lead.
Posted by beautifulsoul74My moon is in Sag his is in Pisces
I pretty much agree with DMV. Let him come to you.
As for the Sag, perhaps you need one with aries, leo, or scorp placements...particularly moon and mars. Me and my Virgal both have leo moons. She has venus on leo and I have mars in scorp. At times, it's a power struggle but mostly I lead.
You're both mutables in sun and moon hmmmmm. Fear of rejection is an illusion if he says to leave him alone then he wasn't the one for you to begin with anyway look at it from that perspective versus seeming like you will bug him or bother him.
Posted by Octoberbaby91Yea you're right imma fall back
You're both mutables in sun and moon hmmmmm. Fear of rejection is an illusion if he says to leave him alone then he wasn't the one for you to begin with anyway look at it from that perspective versus seeming like you will bug him or bother him.
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