Do you think this match will work?

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keeloo
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These are our birth charts, first of all.

Me:
Sun 03??15' Cancer
Moon 06??25' Libra
Mercury 15??14' Gemini
Venus 12??59' Gemini
Mars 08??28' Gemini
Jupiter 14??03' Capricorn
Saturn 06??46' Aries
Uranus 03??48' Aquarius
Neptune 27??03' Capricorn
Pluto 00??40' Sagittarius

Him:
Sun 18??27' Sagittarius
Moon 09??38' Scorpio
Mercury 05??14' Sagittarius
Venus 09??27' Sagittarius
Mars 22??53' Sagittarius
Jupiter 06??04' Scorpio
Saturn 25??07' Aquarius
Uranus 20??26' Capricorn
Neptune 19??45' Capricorn
Pluto 26??09' Scorpio

I only recently started dealing with him in September. We get along great, every time we're together we talk about all sorts of things, I feel like we can talk to each other about anything. The only thing I've noticed is that he's not so talkative through texting. Our conversation are usually short and not as interesting as in person. Also, I'm not sure if he's seeing/having sex with other women and I'm not sure if I should ask him. But I'm not too worried right now.
Tips and advice on how to handle him is appreciated!
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DwellingOnMove
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I see two positive things for Long term:

your Saturn 06??46' Aries conj. his Venus 09??27' Sagittarius

your Sun 03??15' Cancer trine his Jupiter 06??04' Scorpio

your Jupiter 14??03' Capricorn conj. his Neptune 19??45' Capricorn

Saturn involvement gives comptibility in handling real life complications.
Jupiter involvement gives compatibility in idealistic orientations.
Neptune involvement gives compatibility in understanding each other.

Other aspects (even if several oppositions) make it a sexy relationship.
Like his Venus 09??27' Sagittarius op. your Mars 08??28' Gemini.
Or your Moon 06??25' Libra sextile his Venus 09??27' Sagittarius.

Why are you still talking? Maybe you're not his type, lookingwise. Or he's involved with another Girl. If so, that'll be a good test of how loyal he is whenever involved.
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keeloo
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
Posted by keeloo
As I said, his texting is boring ...

If you ask me we Sags together with Libras we are boring as hell. Aqua and Gemini, they are the ultimate fun. Then Scorpio of course (the bright side ones). And Leo and Aries. Then Cancers and Virgo. Then Taurus and Cap.
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I'll take this in mind.. I'll see if the texting ever improves but maybe I should put more effort in since I don't really. I think that's my downfall with a lot of people. I barely put effort into that so I should work on it since he does make an effort to text me at least
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DwellingOnMove
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"put effort in with a Sag" : charming with ideas and suggestions. Or your activities in your own life and let him know directly or indirectly.

Please no texting about heavy emotional claims. Pay attention to this:

"Stay fun, non-emotional, honest, and try not to worry too much about what he's doing."

Never say "didn't you miss me?". that seems retarded to us. Of course everybody misses the loved ones and their friends. Why talk about the obvious. Just an example.
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DwellingOnMove
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Posted by keeloo
Oh and I left out a bit, I didn't really want to go into detail with everything. The part where you said I may not be his type.. I don't know. He's said "I want you" and also asked if he had a chance with me before and has also complimented me on my looks numerous times so that's an indication that he's attracted lol

well, then....... good luck anyway.

I really like your Saturn and Jupiter aspects. Let me know in one year.

Look, we Sags may not be open to Cancer's clinginess when we are 23 years old. But after 30 we are thankful. Cause other signs give up soon on us. And we accept it. But with Cancers it is like this text from Nelly Furtado (Sag woman):

Then I see you standing there
Wanting more from me
And all I can do is try
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keeloo
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
"put effort in with a Sag" : charming with ideas and suggestions. Or your activities in your own life and let him know directly or indirectly.

Please no texting about heavy emotional claims. Pay attention to this:

"Stay fun, non-emotional, honest, and try not to worry too much about what he's doing."

Never say "didn't you miss me?". that seems retarded to us. Of course everybody misses the loved ones and their friends. Why talk about the obvious. Just an example.



Posted by DwellingOnMove
well, then....... good luck anyway.

I really like your Saturn and Jupiter aspects. Let me know in one year.

Look, we Sags may not be open to Cancer's clinginess when we are 23 years old. But after 30 we are thankful. Cause other signs give up soon on us. And we accept it. But with Cancers it is like this text from Nelly Furtado (Sag woman):

Then I see you standing there
Wanting more from me
And all I can do is try
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I actually don't like speaking about deep/emotional issues over text, I think that's something that should be done in person since texting is so detached. Never said "missed me?" or anything along those lines.. They're corny to me.
I will let you know also. I've worked on my cling over the years from past relationships and also family relationships. I've learned to cling to myself in a way so that's one Cancer trait I'm not really worried about. Thank you for the advice though, appreciated!