my gemini on mute

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by masa123 on Wednesday, October 22, 2014 and has 11 replies.

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@masa123
11 Years

I know my gemini before 2 days and yesterday she didnt talk in the bbm alot just few answers then i called her 2 time in the evening she didnt answer .today in the morning she just said hi and when i asked here where have u been yesterday she said i slept early until the morning and now she is in the mute just feeew words from her .. should i ignore her or try to talk with her and y she dont talk

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Posted by masa123
I know my gemini before 2 days and yesterday she didnt talk in the bbm alot just few answers then i called her 2 time in the evening she didnt answer .today in the morning she just said hi and when i asked here where have u been yesterday she said i slept early until the morning and now she is in the mute just feeew words from her .. should i ignore her or try to talk with her and y she dont talk

I get really quiet when something is bothering me or I have been in contact/or around someone too much. I always have to have a break or some distance. Like my guy friend and I will talk on the phone for hours and then I need a couple of days to recover. Stuff doesn't go back to the norm for a bit. Maybe that is my way of keeping it exciting, or not getting exhausted.

Try to flow with it and ask some questions to see if the person is ok. Let them know you noticed, you can mention that they are being kind of different or short.

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Posted by WateryGem
Posted by masa123
I know my gemini before 2 days and yesterday she didnt talk in the bbm alot just few answers then i called her 2 time in the evening she didnt answer .today in the morning she just said hi and when i asked here where have u been yesterday she said i slept early until the morning and now she is in the mute just feeew words from her .. should i ignore her or try to talk with her and y she dont talk

I get really quiet when something is bothering me or I have been in contact/or around someone too much. I always have to have a break or some distance. Like my guy friend and I will talk on the phone for hours and then I need a couple of days to recover. Stuff doesn't go back to the norm for a bit. Maybe that is my way of keeping it exciting, or not getting exhausted.

Try to flow with it and ask some questions to see if the person is ok. Let them know you noticed, you can mention that they are being kind of different or short.

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Same here.... Takes me some time to mull over a solution.... I have to take breaks from certain ppl, as well... Especially if they are loaded with too much drama.

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@masa123
11 Years

Ahaaaa i see but it was the third day knowing her she dosent saw my drama yet we are not talking to much hhhhhh but yeah it seems that she is mooooody and leos hate moooodies

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@Whimsy
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This is kind of weird. You have known her for three days? Why are you calling her so much, asking where she's been, and referring to her as "my Gemini?" You are probably creeping her out by being so forward and she's trying to politely put you off and carry on with her business.

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@masa123
11 Years

Just 2 times and i asked her because i just wanna know why by answering my q i will know if because of me or shes really sleep +i said my gemini to grab Your attention + i am not talking to her to much and i am fine now she is calling not me it seems that day she wasnt in the mood because now we r fine .. i want to be careful this time because i dont want to hurt my self with any one

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Ok. Just know that it is unwise to focus too much on a Gemini girl in the beginning. If you overdo it with the attention, she will feel suffocated and will run. SHE decides when (and if) the relationship progresses, and trying to make it happen sooner will backfire.

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12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Whimsy
Ok. Just know that it is unwise to focus too much on a Gemini girl in the beginning. If you overdo it with the attention, she will feel suffocated and will run. SHE decides when (and if) the relationship progresses, and trying to make it happen sooner will backfire.

This is true!!! I get a bit freaked out when someone comes on too strong before I even know if I am into them or not.