Does Sag. Man Really want to be with me?

Okay so I am a Taurus female dating a Sagittarius male. Things are going a little rocky but I don't want to give up on us just yet.

Things didn't start turning sour till about 2 weeks ago. He suddenly acts like I'm not really a priority in his life anymore. He doesn't text me or call me, and when I do conversations are short and effortless from his end. I try everything in my power to understand him and his Sagittarius self by giving him space and letting him reach out to me now, and to stay positive. But suppressing my emotions will catch up to me soon. He doesn't even know How I feel, with me crying everyday and night wondering if he still cares.

But it wasn't always like this. Before he started to act this way, he always treated me like a princess and gave me the world. he always made sure that I had everything and was never down or sad.

Its like when I tell him how I feel now he is emotionless and doesn't really care. I read a lot of articles that Sagittarius men can be like that but it really does hurt and I don't know what I should do. But when I tried breaking up with him from an argument we had about a week and a half ago he than started to act scared to lose me and almost about to cry and apologized for what had happened. and then I took him back as if he where going to change but went right back to his careless attitude.

So I had confronted him again almost 4 days ago asking if I am what he really wants and he said yes he doesn't want to break up but he still acts as if this relationship is like nothing. I'm so confused. Can someone please try to make me understand because I am almost on the brink of being done with him and god knows I don't want that to happen because I really do care about him so much.

*Sigh* Bullettes are so darn patient! I say, stop wasting your time with him. Who knows, this might be his way of being in a relationship (sounds more like an Aqua or a Gem, though). But, if it doesn't make you happy and doesn't satisfy your needs, then you should move on and find someone who does satisfy your needs. It sort of sounds like you two are incompatible :/

My sis is a Sag and has been married to a Taurus for nearly 10 years, so it could work, but...

I kinda agree with JohnTheBaptist100, it sounds like he's emotionally checked out. The more you push him the more he's going to retreat. Fall back, don't contact him, and when you respond to him, take your time responding and you be short too. Maybe the that might reignite the spark. Keep your options open.

I dated a Taurus man for 4 years and he was and still is the love of my life.i know that combination is meant to be difficult but for us it worked. (We only broke up because neither of us wanted to move countries-yes i met him while travelling,typical sag! ). I feel like I'm a very typical sag, and i really disagree with what johnthebaptist wrote that sag don't admire the taurean qualities of loyalty fidelity and integrity.sag value honesty and all those qualities = honesty. Those were things i really admired in my taurus.

I'm not sure about your guy,but i think for me how i act in a relationship i guess i get very quickly bored with all the early phases of it like the constant lovey dovey texting and long phone calls pining. I enjoy it for a short time but then I'm bored of it and want something more real.i also have a gazillion fun things to do and friends to hang out with so i don't want to be wasting my time on soppy mush. (Totally why it isn't working with my cancer guy right now). I don't know if your bf is the same but I'd suggest maybe just try to back up a little and act more like a pal. If he's like me he wants fun and adventure-so give him that.he doesn't want to be bogged down in endless sentiment and your worries that he doesn't care,he just wants excitement. So maybe try plan some really fun activities and then have some passionate bedroom time. Maybe instead of texting him too much soppy stuff; make him laugh. My taurus used to write me the most hilarious random things and i loved hearing from him because it was always light and made me laugh. Maybe see if you can give that a go.

Good luck! I wish every day that i still had my taurus.

Also to add to that, from recent experiences I've realised that I really loath having to try and justify my feelings for someone and prove that i love them. It irks me so much and makes me so disagreeable and turns me off. So if possible, I'd avoid trying to ask him if he really does feel for you. Sag hate being called liars and having our integrity doubted.

The more I think about this combination, the more I feel now from what I've noticed that Sag women can do very well with Taurus men... But a Sag man and Taurus woman will have a very complicated and rollercoaster type of relationship...I mean it could happen, like any signs, but from what I observed more recently, it seems to be difficult.

I don't think you two are compatible from what you have described either. I see so many of my Taurus friends (women) stay with men that DO NOT fulfill them, but they want it so bad that they suppress their feelings and make it seem like everything is great to the outside world, but at home there is constant arguing because you two just cannot get along. But they stay with these men that do not understand them... I know you all don't like to just let something go... But if it's already bad now, imagine how it will be if you stay with him for years?.. Maybe even marry? There will be YEARS of unhappiness..

And the other thing is, you already threatened to break up with him or did. Sag men I feel are the last sign that will deal with that.. (Maybe along side an Aqua) they will just let it go and move on.... Like someone stated and from my own Sag man's mouth, the one thing they hate the most is being called a liar and having their integrity doubted.

Maybe this is one you should let go of, so that you can find someone more compatible?

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And the other thing is, you already threatened to break up with him or did. Sag men I feel are the last sign that will deal with that.. (Maybe along side an Aqua) they will just let it go and move on.... Like someone stated and from my own Sag man's mouth, the one thing they hate the most is being called a liar and having their integrity doubted.

This is so true. I've been having a disaster of relationship with a cancer and for me the problems all started because he doubted my integrity-he didn't believe that my feelings for him were real and that i was committed to the relationship. I tried so hard to not follow my first sag instinct and just up and leave the minute he doubted me, because I'd read about the issues with sag and cancer and was determined not to become another statistic. But ultimately it didn't work. If you doubt the integrity of a sag,you've already lost them.

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Posted by jane84


And the other thing is, you already threatened to break up with him or did. Sag men I feel are the last sign that will deal with that.. (Maybe along side an Aqua) they will just let it go and move on.... Like someone stated and from my own Sag man's mouth, the one thing they hate the most is being called a liar and having their integrity doubted.

This is so true. I've been having a disaster of relationship with a cancer and for me the problems all started because he doubted my integrity-he didn't believe that my feelings for him were real and that i was committed to the relationship. I tried so hard to not follow my first sag instinct and just up and leave the minute he doubted me, because I'd read about the issues with sag and cancer and was determined not to become another statistic. But ultimately it didn't work. If you doubt the integrity of a sag,you've already lost them.

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I can relate to that even though I'm a libra.. My ex was a Taurus and he doubted me soooo much. It drove me nuts, but being a Libra I stayed..for a very long time. But when I discussed this with my Sag, he said he'd really hate it. It would make him not even want to be in the relationship. I agreed, so we don't do that to each other.

It's pretty much like you said, once you say it, you've basically already lost them..

Some people just have needs that one person may never be able to fulfill, whereas another may be able to. Hopefully OP finds someone who will make her feel more comfortable in a relationship.

And you with someone who doesn't accuse you, when you are truly committed. ?

Yes sag female, male bull works alot better.

I love taurus men. So hedonistic