Flowers after a second date with a Sagicorn

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Andre
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Calling all sag girls, others also welcome to comment!



Long story short: I've started to talk with this sagicorn girl about a month a half ago. We went on two dates, the last this past Saturday. All seems to be going well, there's plenty of texting hours and a good level of intimacy and share. Although still too soon to tell anything. She's travelling from this weekend for a week and we talked about seeing each other after. After a slow start I'm liking her quite a lot, even starting to care for her. She's very outgoing and expressive.

She was born right on the sag-cap cusp (just three hours before capricorn starts). She has an aries moon (also on the cusp with taurus), sag merc and venus, scorpio mars.

Yesterday she was feeling really down. She has been with sciatica since Sunday, had a cold and (above all) she's going through a difficult phase with her father. They had an argument last week. I thought I could send her a small plant to cheer her up. Just a small plant with a short note. I would send this to her office. She has her own company where it's only her and a younger assistant that she loves. She likes attention, it's actually her main complaint from her last two bfs. That they were too selfish and not paying enough attention.

Question: is it too much, too pushy given that we only had two dates? Or is it appropriate because we are getting into a good level of intimacy and it shows a step forward of care from me? Honestly my gemini moon and pisces chart can see valid reasons for both arguments.

Thanks!
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Andre
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Posted by Rindaroo
I'm a Sagicorn too and flowers on a first or second date rubs me the wrong way. I guess because it feels like they are trying to impress me & it's not necessary. Just be yourself! However, this is a little different I'd say. I think it is a sweet gesture šŸ™‚
To be myself I would send them. But the last thing I want is too spoil something good by trying too much! It's not coming out of the blue however, hence I had thought about it.

Thanks!
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Flowers delivered and received. She loved it. Sent me multiple texts saying that she loved the surprise, that the flowers were beautiful and I had really good taste, that she LOVES flowers. There were a few smiley kisses in the messages (never sent by her). Before that I had to half-spoil the surprise. There was no one in her office this morning, so the courier couldn't deliver and I had to talk with her about it. Fortunately communication is good between us and it seems easy to talk about anything. I like this girl.
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Posted by Rindaroo
I'm a Sagicorn too and flowers on a first or second date rubs me the wrong way. I guess because it feels like they are trying to impress me & it's not necessary. Just be yourself! However, this is a little different I'd say. I think it is a sweet gesture šŸ™‚
To be myself I would send them. But the last thing I want is too spoil something good by trying too much! It's not coming out of the blue however, hence I had thought about it.

Thanks!
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Andre
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Posted by Rindaroo
I'm a Sagicorn too and flowers on a first or second date rubs me the wrong way. I guess because it feels like they are trying to impress me & it's not necessary. Just be yourself! However, this is a little different I'd say. I think it is a sweet gesture šŸ™‚
To be myself I would send them. But the last thing I want is too spoil something good by trying too much! It's not coming out of the blue however, hence I had thought about it.

Thanks!
You see? You don't need OUR input; just do what you want to do!

šŸ¤— cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Andre
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Calling all sag girls, others also welcome to comment!



Long story short: I've started to talk with this sagicorn girl about a month a half ago. We went on two dates, the last this past Saturday. All seems to be going well, there's plenty of texting hours and a good level of intimacy and share. Although still too soon to tell anything. She's travelling from this weekend for a week and we talked about seeing each other after. After a slow start I'm liking her quite a lot, even starting to care for her. She's very outgoing and expressive.

She was born right on the sag-cap cusp (just three hours before capricorn starts). She has an aries moon (also on the cusp with taurus), sag merc and venus, scorpio mars.

Yesterday she was feeling really down. She has been with sciatica since Sunday, had a cold and (above all) she's going through a difficult phase with her father. They had an argument last week. I thought I could send her a small plant to cheer her up. Just a small plant with a short note. I would send this to her office. She has her own company where it's only her and a younger assistant that she loves. She likes attention, it's actually her main complaint from her last two bfs. That they were too selfish and not paying enough attention.

Question: is it too much, too pushy given that we only had two dates? Or is it appropriate because we are getting into a good level of intimacy and it shows a step forward of care from me? Honestly my gemini moon and pisces chart can see valid reasons for both arguments.

Thanks!


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I will thanks! Her response seemed genuine, not just a simple thank you. At some point I was forwarding one of her responses to my best girl friend virgo and end up doing to the same chat. I then wrote god damn it. And she got nervous saying she didn't mean to offend me with anything and that she really liked the surprise.