@sagittariusxo
9 YearsSagittarius
why are we labed at cheaters or always assume to be cheating?
Why Are Sagittarians Often Labeled as Cheaters
Sagittarius individuals are often misunderstood due to their love for freedom and honesty. They value independence and may flirt or pursue new experiences without intending to hurt others. Their non-committal nature and desire for growth can be mistaken for cheating, but they prioritize honesty and personal fulfillment over deceit.
Because it's a wild sign and perceived as carefree. All fire signs for the most part are carefree and live in the moment, and so they are perceived to have all the attributes associated with such a person/personality.
Honestly I didn't think Sagittarius was a cheating sign until I realized how many I actually know and how they currently or in their past been on some gaming shit. I'm currently dealing with a sag woman and she has a man. I don't think she's a bad person or hoe for it but it's in her nature to have a lot of feelings and share them. It's better when ur just up front with everyone ur interested in.
Reposting what I said earlier:
Because it's easier to blame an astrological placement than to take accountability for fucked up behavior.
Some people will look for the smallest thing in a birth chart to explain away shit that has NOTHING to do with astrology. Lol
Nah, it's just because.
Posted by Orchidee
Because it's a wild sign and perceived as carefree. All fire signs for the most part are carefree and live in the moment, and so they are perceived to have all the attributes associated with such a person/personality.
We forget, in astrology, that we are all human. Therefore falling victim, or celebrating triumph. Being, "carefree" is a state of mind and once the moment passes it's easy to retreat into society norms.
Lol I have tons of sag friends (males).
Bluntly cheaters —?
If the shoe don't fit
We are cheaters though. From what I've seen, we do cheat.
Posted by AerialView
Lol I have tons of sag friends (males).Bluntly cheaters —?
Damn... that sucks.
Most of my Sag friends aren't.
The males I know are actually VERY family oriented/ traditional.
The females - one was a massive cheater, but I know about another 5 that aren't at all. But the one that cheated a lot was married and the rest are single.
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I don't even know where to start lol it's just too many.
Posted by AerialView
Lol I have tons of sag friends (males).Bluntly cheaters —?
Damn... that sucks.
Most of my Sag friends aren't.
The males I know are actually VERY family oriented/ traditional.
The females - one was a massive cheater, but I know about another 5 that aren't at all. But the one that cheated a lot was married and the rest are single.
I don't even know where to start lol it's just too many.
Lol... well, why don't you start at the beginning, and when you come to the end..............stop ?
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Nah.. Cheating may be their biggest flaws, aside that they're great friends and companions.
I've seen more Sags be promiscuous than cheating but we live in a society that automatically equates the two. No it's not right to do that but it's reality.
It is annoying at times because most of it comes from the fact that it's hard to tie a Sag down...and that person didn't fit the bill. So when their ego is bruised, we get called a hoe and a cheater.
What bothers me the most is that people never take into account how they come across or their actions towards us. They pull all these childish mind games that bore us and then get butthurt when they see us out with the next man/woman. "How can he/she do that? I'm great and a wonderful person and everybody wants me!" "You're a hoe/cheater!"
No, you're flighty and indecisive as fuck, play mind games and have no clue what loyalty is but expect us to hang around forever while you consciously do this shit and take advantage of our kindness then try to guilt trip us when our patience has finally worn thin and we decide to protect ourselves...only to use the convenient excuse that we must be a cheater because we find someone new that treats us right and not take responsibility for your actions...
That's just about every Sag's story 🙂 I'm just describing it in real terms.
whenever I hear people calling us ch...chea.....whatever that word is written it breaks my heart and it hurts my feelings deeply.........................deeply 😢
Posted by neves
Nah, it's just because.Someone is angry ..
Posted by neves
Nah, it's just because.Someone is angry ..
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You can say that again! 😅 The entire week was around 40 °C outside! 🤢amp;
WHO DOES THE SUN THINK HE IS?!! >😢
How do i bend that huge ball of fire to my will?! There just... has to be some temperature slider somewhere. And i don't mean air conditioner - that's unnatural and i don't wanna mess with my health. Sigh! there's so many inconveniences with this human vessels.
So fragile. 😭
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Oh you mean that quote? I wasn't angry when i wrote that (: around 3 AM the morning). Was just bored. Bored of astro-sign shaming topics - that some peps seem to take to seriously... -_-
You guys are labelled as cheaters 'cause it's more fun to generalize cheaters than to have an actual in-depth conversation about the psychology behind cheating. You guys, and tons of other signs really, are convenient scapegoats for people who've been cheated on. Really, I think every sign has been dubbed the 'cheating sign' on here at some point or another, typically by those who've been cheated on lol. Hurt people looking for convenient targets to take their anger out on and all that.
Posted by LePetitFisk
Nearly all mutables are stereotyped as being disloyal, hence cheaters. Perhaps they're a little more lenient with Virgos because they're earth. But Geminis, Sags and Pisces... Gem= mentally fickle, Pisces= emotionally fickle, Sags= just fickle, period.
Hilarious — there may be truth to that
sagg venus here..
never cheated because i love being single, if im not happy i'll just end it lol
Posted by neves
Nah, it's just because.Someone is angry ..
Posted by neves
Nah, it's just because.Someone is angry ..
You can say that again! 😅 The entire week was around 40 °C outside! 🤢amp;
WHO DOES THE SUN THINK HE IS?!! >😢
How do i bend that huge ball of fire to my will?! There just... has to be some temperature slider somewhere. And i don't mean air conditioner - that's unnatural and i don't wanna mess with my health. Sigh! there's so many inconveniences with this human vessels.
So fragile. 😭
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Oh you mean that quote? I wasn't angry when i wrote that (: around 3 AM the morning). Was just bored. Bored of astro-sign shaming topics - that some peps seem to take to seriously... -_-
Awwwwh 😢 I don't blame u....its so hot out side ??
I take shower every hour lol
Try to fo this...u will feel better (:
I was thinking that you are angry because the opposite crazy thing ??
Sometimes I ask myself..what if the opposite is the reall enemy for each other ?
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Fortunately, i don't remember having any problem with Sags - so can't say that i have any reason to be angry. (:
Astrologically and objectively speaking - that doesn't seem to be the case. Though, if you think to much about something - while baring that belief (all men/women are evil for example) - your thoughts can shape your reality. Even if objectively it's not true, you can convince yourself into believing that it is. And the more yo hold the belief - the stronger it gets (the more it feels like it's true for you). If it's harder to acknowledge that truth from a personal analysis (self-reflection) - that's ok - cause you can also see that in others. This topic for example. Some Sags might indeed fit this description to a T - while others do not (probably, even the majority). Kinda like holding the belief that - "all Chinese people know karate" - if you only know about this nation from Kung Fu movies (: where indeed most characters were portrayed as having some knowledge of Kung Fu).
It is annoying at times because most of it comes from the fact that it's hard to tie a Sag down...and that person didn't fit the bill. So when their ego is bruised, we get called a hoe and a cheater.
And I'm pretty certain such opinions have been circulating before the internet age. It's hard to believe that, after thousands of years of human civilisation, those interested in astrology have withheld any 'stereotypical' judgement on Sags (and other sun signs) until the last 25 years or so...
*smh*
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I tend to agree...simply because judgement, bias, and prejudice know no bounds and have been around since the beginning of time.
I won't lie I do know 3 Sag men who have cheated with the people they are with, but mostly did it for fun with no intentions of leaving the person they were with. Yes that unfortunately has made me fear the idea of dating a Sagittarius, which absolutely sucks because its one of my top 3 favorites.
I think maybe I could make an exception for a Sag woman, it's just I'm kinda controlling and the jealous type so I don't even try with them. Again it sucks because the best times I've ever had in life were by the company of a Sagittarius, and it's impossible to deny I have a lot to learn from them.
Posted by Soul
I won't lie I do know 3 Sag men who have cheated with the people they are with, but mostly did it for fun with no intentions of leaving the person they were with. Yes that unfortunately has made me fear the idea of dating a Sagittarius, which absolutely sucks because its one of my top 3 favorites.I think maybe I could make an exception for a Sag woman, it's just I'm kinda controlling and the jealous type so I don't even try with them. Again it sucks because the best times I've ever had in life were by the company of a Sagittarius, and it's impossible to deny I have a lot to learn from them.
Sagittarius woman are different from sag men "even tho sag men will not cheat if they truly love the person"
But I will never cheat on someone I really love, even when we break up, I will still waiting if I really love him.
Don't be judgmental, Soul 🙂
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I believe you. You never seemed like the type of person to do that.
Posted by neves
Nah, it's just because.Someone is angry ..
Posted by neves
Nah, it's just because.Someone is angry ..
You can say that again! 😅 The entire week was around 40 °C outside! 🤢amp;
WHO DOES THE SUN THINK HE IS?!! >😢
How do i bend that huge ball of fire to my will?! There just... has to be some temperature slider somewhere. And i don't mean air conditioner - that's unnatural and i don't wanna mess with my health. Sigh! there's so many inconveniences with this human vessels.
So fragile. 😭
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Oh you mean that quote? I wasn't angry when i wrote that (: around 3 AM the morning). Was just bored. Bored of astro-sign shaming topics - that some peps seem to take to seriously... -_-
Awwwwh 😢 I don't blame u....its so hot out side ??
I take shower every hour lol
Try to fo this...u will feel better (:
I was thinking that you are angry because the opposite crazy thing ??
Sometimes I ask myself..what if the opposite is the reall enemy for each other ?
Fortunately, i don't remember having any problem with Sags - so can't say that i have any reason to be angry. (:
Astrologically and objectively speaking - that doesn't seem to be the case. Though, if you think to much about something - while baring that belief (all men/women are evil for example) - your thoughts can shape your reality. Even if objectively it's not true, you can convince yourself into believing that it is. And the more yo hold the belief - the stronger it gets (the more it feels like it's true for you). If it's harder to acknowledge that truth from a personal analysis (self-reflection) - that's ok - cause you can also see that in others. This topic for example. Some Sags might indeed fit this description to a T - while others do not (probably, even the majority). Kinda like holding the belief that - "all Chinese people know karate" - if you only know about this nation from Kung Fu movies (: where indeed most characters were portrayed as having some knowledge of Kung Fu).
Yeah .. they think :" I have mars in sag, that's why I'm playful!" I have venus in sag that's why I always end up hurting people LOL
Even in real life, when my sister coach had cruch on me, she was like :" u sag people always steal other people's things!" Because she was into him, and when I go with her he ask for my number she gets very angry with me, she think its my fault cuz I'm sag. It's not fair.
Whatever, I always enjoy reading your comments neves ?
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Well... we all do what we can - with what we have and what we know. Thus far... That's what seems to differentiate us more than anything (what seems to define our individuality). Our individual understanding of this world (the way we see and view everything - on a personal level). One could say... we all live in on our own private Universe - which is part of another Universe - that we seem to share together. Even so, it's better this way. For multiple reasons. Diversity - for one thing. Or... being here (cause if we'd all think and act like one - we would have committed mass suicide by now / that's a given ?).
@Tiziana
Be realistic, no one had to care about what cheating means today, back then...
I am surprised that back then cheating mean something else? And no one cared? Like what? How?
Posted by Soul
I won't lie I do know 3 Sag men who have cheated with the people they are with, but mostly did it for fun with no intentions of leaving the person they were with. Yes that unfortunately has made me fear the idea of dating a Sagittarius, which absolutely sucks because its one of my top 3 favorites.I think maybe I could make an exception for a Sag woman, it's just I'm kinda controlling and the jealous type so I don't even try with them. Again it sucks because the best times I've ever had in life were by the company of a Sagittarius, and it's impossible to deny I have a lot to learn from them.
Sagittarius woman are different from sag men "even tho sag men will not cheat if they truly love the person"
But I will never cheat on someone I really love, even when we break up, I will still waiting if I really love him.
Don't be judgmental, Soul 🙂
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You can't truly love anybody!
Because you put 'I love you and I don't care about you' in the same centence!
Obsession with stars - isn't love!!!
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Sag girl here...
why are labeled as cheaters?
is it because we are free spirited? we do with makes us happen and hello, sex makes people happy.
is it because we don't take the "sleep around" insults personally because we don't care? I do what I want.
is it because we are non committal type so we can "sleep around" without feeling locked down.
because we are also very thoughtful people, we are honest without any malleus and all though we do what we want you never want to intentionally hurt anyone. and I think we have enough balls to tell someone we are over it then just go out and cheat. (speaking on most, all signs cheat but why are we the biggest cheaters)
is it because we get bored in relationships that aren't evolving with us and usually leave the relationship easily? or because we are interested in being non-committal.
is it because we flirt? I mean who doesn't though. To be flirty is fun, and to be flirty because we are bored with our relationship are 2 different things. and if we are bored and getting our flirt on, we might get the attention or land our attention on someone new. but I usually break up with my current in order to pursue my new. and thats were my "I don't want to intentionally hurt you, im just doing what I want for me" conversation comes in.
so tell me
why are we labeled as cheaters or did I just figure this out already?