Homebodies

I know someone already made a post similar to this, but this question is more for the Sagg that ar homebodies. If you are a homebodies would you have a problem if the person you are dating likes to go out a lot? If you get angry would you be better off not knowing when your gf/bf goes out?

I'm a homebody and an introvert. My idea of the perfect date is cooking a meal at home for my woman, sharing a bottle of wine, and so on ... 😉

Honestly, yes I would have a bit of a problem with going out a lot. Its good to go out once in a while, but if I'm with someone like that I would say something like "hey, I'm getting really exhausted from having to go out all the time.

That sense of adventure, exploring, and being on the move that is included in every description of Sag has never resonated with me. I want a strong and stable home to relax in, one that allows me to be lazy on Saturday nights.

Yeah what bassace said, I forgot to address that.

Lying to a Sag is the last thing that you will do.

That's just the thing, if I ever go out I tell him or I will ask him in advance if he wants to go. He always say's no he doesnt want to go out but then he will actually get an attitude when I go out and I know it becuase he thinks other guys will flirt and what not. I just txt him yesterday about going to vegas next month or in Feb and he replies he cant since he might go to the All Star game I replied Ok I remember you talking about that maybe I will just go to madri gras then and he replied you need to sit down and focus on us. I get so confused I ask you first there fore I am focus on our relationship. I can't help it I love to go out and travel and, for him I am trying to keep the going out to like once every two weeks.

I don't want to point fingers or anything, but you should ask yourself exactly how much you go out. You may not realize if it is actually too much.

In addition to this, he may just be lazy. You should ask yourself whether you genuinely want him to go out with you. If you do then tell him that. You should tell him that you do like to go out sometimes and you would really enjoy it if he came with you, but also tell him that you will try to keep the outings to a minimum (if it's too much).

Never, never lie to him about going. In fact, don't do that with any person.

Cilogy thanks for your male point of view, I have learn from past experience never to lie to him believe me. And he is just a lazy homebody plus he works a lot which is fine but I am going to go out sometimes.

Mz Sagg I get your point of view as well and I also can been a homebody I have taurus as my moon sign for god sake but it he was here with me I would always be in the house no question ask. When he is at work or with his kids and I am not doing anything I think it is perfectly fine to hang out with my friends but not in excess ofcourse and not when he want to just chill out at home which I also love. the funny thing to is also I have been meeting a lot of Sagg lately and they all are homebodies including a good friend of mine who bday is on the 14th so you guys are not alone with this.