How long does it take..................

for you to really lose your temper and I mean seriously lose it?

I try and give people the benefit of the doubt all the time. I observe their off-key behaviour and then when I 'know' I have 'evidence' I blow up like a mothertreetrunker. There's only so many strikes people get with me and then butter goes off and I can't hide how I feel.

I always try to consider my friends feelings before I say certain butter. I meticulously analyze their 'ways' (after the inital dig was made) their little digs directed at me just to confirm to myself that I'm not going mad, it gets to a point where I can't bear it any longer then I blow like a volcano.

Then............my famous lock off comes into play *Goodbye my friend. It was nice knowing you. Have a nice life*

How do you Sagis deal with confrontation and friends acting like the biggest douches in the world and 'friends' who clearly don't respect your level of friendship??

I have a suffered a personal loss (friend) recently and suffered many in the past so sorry to sound so serious.

I understand... it is very hard to control our temper as Sag 😢

I think it is better to make friends with those who can be "honest" as us, so they could understand us better, and they would be willing to "forgive" us when we make them mad by saying something truthfully 😉

As most honest people on the earth, Sags could be hurt deeply by those "dishonest" people...so get away from them!

It takes a lot for me to really lose my temper as well. You really have to be very close to me, and under my skin for me to break fool lol. I rarely allow people that close. But really a close person that won't stop pressing me, or keeps crossing lines I've already let them know I don't want crossed. Or if they ignore me lol. If a regular person pisses me off, I usually just say done snide, nasty, and sarcastic while looking them right in the eye. Grrr...

Well this girl is/was 'meant' to be my bestie (as she called herself) I literally done everything for this chick. I was emotionally there for her when her brother got karted off to jail, when her boyfriend of 4 years robbed a load of cash and done a runner never to be seen again (they lived together) Everything was fine and dandy when she left in the morning, she went to her brothers court case only to find her boyf had treetrunked off with a serious amount of cash, no note nothing!!!! Just vanished!

I introduced her to all 'my' real close girlfriends only for her to start butter stirring and creating drama which I was oblivious to might I add until I had a revelation over the New Year! I just couldn't believe the amount of butter stirring she had done even between me and my girls. She just isn't the girl I thought she was and feel like a douche because I brought her in so to speak and she is just loose!!

I never seem to learn from my mistakes, what's wrong with me *Sighs* LOL!!

I used to have a really bad problem with anger and aggression when I was a kid. It takes a while for people to set me off now. I'm really tolerant of a lot. I think I get annoyed much easier than anything, and when I get annoyed I will shut off and want to run away from the person. (Some people are so immature and annoying)
If they don't get the hint then I can get to that level of getting pissed, but I'll usually leave before I do anything I regret, or I'll act almost depressed like I just want to leave..get me the hell out of here.

When you do something like hurt my pets or ruin something that's expensive then I will usually snap. And I mean I go on a blind rage and my brain shuts off. I see blood

Lose it in a millionth of a nano second, everyone runs and hides, some friends giggle i have my rant and then its over, done forgot about.

I only feel like this with family and relationships really and strangers

Posted by Sag89
I only feel like this with family and relationships really and strangers

So everyone then? haha!!

Posted by happykitsune
I used to have a really bad problem with anger and aggression when I was a kid. It takes a while for people to set me off now. I'm really tolerant of a lot.

I think we lead parallel lives, lol!