Does this Sag guy like me or not?

There is a Sag guy that started flirting with me hardcore with sexy smiles, raising his eyebrow at me, making his voice deeper when talking to me, acting shy with me, shaking my hand, etc. and asked me if I was in a relationship. I was At the time and told him that, but he still continued to flirt with mE anyway. He even offered to take me to another division of our work to show me a work process, and he use to call me at work to talk about work things, but would continue to chat about personal stuff. Then he sent me an email saying "my love..call me". I didn't mention the email to him until a few months later, but after he sent it he was acting like he was all shy and embarrassed. Then when I finally asked him about it he acted shy and like he didn't know what I was talking about. Then he called me 10 minutes later and said he checked his email and discovered it the email wasn't for me. Why would he have to check his email? If he didn't like me why would he have to check his email...if I sent an email like that to someOne and they called me on it I would know right away it wasn't for that person if I didn't like them. Am I trippin? I still think that he did send it to me on purpose and was flirting but since we work together hes afraid of getting in troubLe I'm definitely seems like he's interested but shy. Im not in a relationship anymore but i think he found out from my facebook although im not certain. He acted shy than usual after he sent it. One minute he flirts with me hardcore and then when I call him he's serious, maybe because other coworkers are listening. But everytime he comes into my office I can feel the vibe and u can cut the tension with a knife that he likes me. He stares at me, he always wants to shake my hand and softly squeezes it hanging on for a few extra seconds. The other girls he does a bro shake with. Should I ask for his number or just wait for him? I'm attracted to him and want to kiss him so bad but I'm afraid if I make a move it will turn him off, and I'm afraid that it might just all be in my head that he doesn't really like me and is just teasing me. If he's just teasing me he's doing it good because I want him so bad. I'm a shy Aries if u can believe it, and he's Sag.

Help!!

Signed,
Horny & Confused

Idk sags make a lot of mistakes in sending the wrong msgs or a lot of typos cus we type up what we're thinking at the time. Our minds run very fast.

Why does it seem strange to you that he had to look back? If he hadn't of looked back then you would know he was just trying to cover his ass. But it seems as though he was legit confused and had to go back and look to see if he really did make the silly mistake.

Then again sags are bad with sharing emotions and we get shy sometimes I will admit. Kinda cute, but sucks when you're trying to get a straight answer from them regarding their emotions. You'll know if he really likes you if he gets physical with you like tries to touch you (not inappropriately) or acts playful toward you in a flirty way. Also if he puts most of his focus on you

Oh and don't go too fast if you do end up getting him. Sags like to chase so keep him on the run.

He sounds interested in you. The chase element...well you're an Aries. You don't need to hang about waiting for him to make a move. He might be reluctant because you're colleagues, or he might be unsure how you feel.

If you're too shy to ask him out yourself you could step the flirting up a notch and email him; Sags like to laugh so anything funny is a good look. If he's being too slow motion following that, girl, ask him out. Life's too short!

He definitely likes you. Don't make any moves, unless you normally take the first step or are normally proactive in relationships, just be yourself. I usually keep my hands to myself if I like someone, not sure about other sags, if I don't care I'll be touchy and flirty, if I do I'll be shy and reserved.

Yea I agreee

Omg I want him so bad and so so impatient. I'm too shy. I guess I'll keep flirting and wait for him and if nothing happens then I'll have to move on. 😢
I just want to take him in my bedroom and take advantage of him ALL NIGHT!! Ouch.

Sounds like he genuinely likes you. Dunno what the email butter was all about. Yes it's true Kits our minds run very fast. I trip over my thoughts all the time, it's hard work!

It's true Sagis do enjoy the chase. Although you want him bad, just think of all the sexual chemistry that's building up! The end result will be amazing so enjoy the build up.........

All of this sexual build up is driving me nuts. I need a cold shower.

Are you just looking for a casual one night deal? Cus sag males are good for that 😉

Lol
I'm not looking to jump into a quick relationship but I would like it to be more than just 1 night. If it's good why would I want just 1 night?? That's like saying here's the last piece of cake u can have for this quarter. That would suck. I just wanna go with the flow.

I don't think just Sag men are good for that...basically it's universal amog all men. Lol

I'll defo be continuing to follow up on this thread, I am eager to know what will become of this........

Okay I will keep u guys posted "if" anything interesting "ever" happens.

My patience is running out like an hour glass.

Posted by Chillgirl9001
My patience is running out like an hour glass.

LOL!!

Just say something I say......OR just get ridiculously close to him at work that he no longer will be able to resist you and your touch!!!!! lol

Tell me what else to do to— I'm going to try and do it all soon.

I'm going to see him tomorrow so I will have a chance to flirt with him. What's holding me back is other coworkers in our office. I get shy to flirt when they are watching.

Posted by happykitsune
Are you just looking for a casual one night deal? Cus sag males are good for that 😉

I refute this!!!

Posted by Chillgirl9001
Tell me what else to do to— I'm going to try and do it all soon.

Invite him for a drink after work? That's quite relaxed and it's outside of work, sure he'll be up for it 🙂

So I'm at work and waiting for him to come in the office. He might not even come in. I want to grab him.

Sort people. I can't do it. I think he might have lost interest in me or maybe he has a gf.

I meant sorry people, I just can't do it. I don't think he likes me.

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Posted by happykitsune
Are you just looking for a casual one night deal? Cus sag males are good for that 😉

I refute this!!!

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Been with two male sags. So far I have no complaints. What do you have against them?

i suggest u say something quick. if im dropping hints like that and its really getting no where, i get bored and move on. the chase can only go for so long with a sag like me and most of the sag men i know. if a girl/guy wants to play the waiting game with me or a sag guy, i take my ball to another playground with someone whose ready.

What do I say? It's hard b/c we work together. If he rejects me then I'll have to see his ass everyday.

thats the risk you run. men run that risk and face rejection more times than we do. be spontaneous.

Posted by DMV
i get bored and move on. the chase can only go for so long with a sag like me and most of the sag men i know. if a girl/guy wants to play the waiting game with me or a sag guy, i take my ball to another playground with someone whose ready.

OMG So true!!!!

Posted by Chillgirl9001
What do I say? It's hard b/c we work together. If he rejects me then I'll have to see his ass everyday.

I don't know what you could say to be honest. I find it difficult approaching somebody if I like them, but you work with him so just be like 'Fancy having a drink after work' so 'IF' he rejects you then it's not like you were saying 'Hey I fancy you, wana have a drink with me'. It would be less painful that way!! I do think you have nothing to worry about. I'm adamant he likes you!

Get him alone out of the office, casual drinks and let the good times roll-LOL!!

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by nimbue

Posted by happykitsune
Are you just looking for a casual one night deal? Cus sag males are good for that 😉

I refute this!!!

Been with two male sags. So far I have no complaints. What do you have against them?

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No, I meant I didn't agree with them being one-night deals! My boyfriend is a Sag and he's the best, husband material. My other sags have been long term too , it's funny I've never seen the 'love 'em and leave 'em' side to Sag men...

Or it could be when they know what they want they try to make it last. Slow burners v.s that quick flame of desire that peters out quickly.

I'm eagerly awaiting an update of some caliber 🙂

Hes been moping around the office like he's sad or something. Do these guys like to play hard to get? Hes not mean to me, just seems like he's sad. I still haven't put moves on him much. I'm too scared he will reject me. I did ask him what's wrong and he's not his usual self.

I'm in a somewhat similar situation, maybe I can help.
In short, I'm an Aries girl who is interested in this Sag guy MOSTLY because at first he seemed quite interested in me and I couldn't resist the temptation of trying to take it further. It started about 3 yrs ago when I first met him and he was super-charming to me, but I was in a relationship at the time so I didn't pursue it. Still, whenever we met, by accident or on the rare occasions when I called him to ask for his help, he always seemed VERY happy to see me and even somewhat shy... Fast forward to present time, I met him again some 2 weeks ago and he promised to help me with a bigger project I had on my hands, and was super helpful, humored me on mostly anything I asked for, even let me drive his car - which is a biggie for me, seeing how I LOVE to drive... Now, Monday evening he was at my place helping me - but the rest of my family was there too - and after he'd finished he asked me to come inside his car for a quick chat and to warm up (it was really cold outside). So we spoke a little, discussed our sexual preferences and history, spoke about some rather private things too, but he never made even the slightest attempt at touching me. Eventually I said something along the lines of how I always get intimidated when I'm with a man I like and he told me he needed to go home... Granted, it was half past one a.m. and he'd been at work since 6 a.m of the previous day... but it still felt a bit like rejection. Now I'm wondering whether he actually ever liked me at all, liked me in the beginning but got turned off when I laid MY cards on the table... OR there was some other issue there.
As far as your story is concerned, I'd say he does like you - or at least did - but maybe he likes LIKING you more than actually pursuing you and he's not sure how to react now that you've actually responded to his game. I'm really curious how your story turns out, there may be a hint as to what I am in for, lol. Anyway, best of luck and let me know how it goes 🙂

Well we ended up going out. He helped me on a project and then asked me out for a drink. He told me the whole night about how he's happy with his life now being single, and he doesn't want this and doesn't want that. We flirted the whole night and it's obvious he likes me, but at the and of the night he dropped me off and said, " well u have my number and can call me anytime." that was a real turn off because it's saying that he's not going to pursue me or show any interest but if I wanna chase him he will check his schedule book and see if he's avail. He said he wasn't seeing anyone but in my opinion, any man who doesn't want to kiss even on the 1st date is either 1) already seeing someone, or 2) has erectile dysfunction. Yes I said it, and it's a big possibility. All the signs are there, but something is holding him back, and that something can only be one of the two things mentioned above.

Well me being an Aries, I have run my course with this fellow and I'm over it. Too many games, too complicating, and I've been around the block too many times to not go for someone that will actually make me happy, and obviously this guy isn't making me happy. Guys like this come a dime a dozen. I'd rather be single and bold out for the right man who will give me all the attention I desire. And who knows, it may just be another Sag, just not this one.

So folks, hopefully the next time I post on here it will be a story with a happier (or steamier) ending than this one 🙂
I'm not giving up, and this is only the beginning!!

@ Rebecca83: there is obviously something he likes about u. He cares for u and likes being around u. But something is holding him back. And I'm convinced that it could be 1 of those 2 things!! Seriously! Whatever it is good luck, and live by the golden rule, don't put all your eggs in 1 basket until you've
Got a ring on your finger. Give us an update on what happens. Is he still your buddy at least?

@ chillgirl, LOVE your attitude, so 100% Aries. And I would know 😄
I still maintain this guy likes you, but he's just acting lazy, since he knows you're interested. Or he knew. Or you were. Interested 😛 I'll agree that it's not ok for him to expect you to pursue him. Been in a relationship with another Sag for 8 years, so I know what I'm talking about. What happens at the beginning of the potential relationship definitely sets the tone for the rest of it, at least with these guys! And, you know what? If you chose to pursue this guy, you could probably keep him dating you long enough for him to fall in love with you. BUT he'd never forget you were the one pursuing him and he'll make sure you never forget it either. Probably not worth it in the end 🙂
As far as the Sag I'm currently interested in .... He doesn't have another relationship, in fact he's been single for a few years now, but he did mention having had casual sex with a girl he didn't want a relationship with... and he admitted that, should that girl press him for more, he'd just cut her off. I'm not sure how long ago that happened, though. So option 1) is not valid. 2) Maybe. Not so much as a physical issue, but maybe psychological? He hasn't tried touching me in any way, but's given me some pretty obvious signs he wanted me to touch him...
I agree there must be something he likes about me, but maybe it's just talking to me. We're still buddies, maybe more than that, because he talks to me about private feelings like how helpless and hopeless he's feeling at the moment... You see, he's got a close family member with terminal cancer and.... I don't know. I just assume he doesn't go around telling anyone how that makes him feel, but he definitely told me and answered my questions and told me how he's bound to break down sooner rather than later...
I last saw him this Saturday, he was helping me out with something at my parents' home and then gave me a ride to my place... It was early evening by the time we got there, we'd been talking about his feelings, I was suggesting that, since he's the only one in the family without a SO he doesn't have anyone to lean on... Then once we got there, he didn't even stop the engine of the car, helped me take out my bike from the trunk and held the door open for me, then we said goodbye... and it was me who gave him the "you've got my number, call me when you want" line 🙂...

To wrap it up, seconds after the door closed behind me, it occurred to me I should have asked him in for a cup of something! DUH! I reached my apartment just in time to see his car disappearing and texted him on the spot to say that if he didn't have other plans and he had the time/was in the mood for it, we could grab a drink or something. He never replied, so now I'm stuck... If I were to keep playing by the rules, there's no way I could try to contact him again unless he does so first. But I know he's expecting some really important news by the 2nd of April, regarding a last hope for his sick sister, so I'm HUGELY tempted to call him and see how he's doing... how he's dealing... whether or not there's ANYTHING I can do to help...

Hey Chillgirl, Ah man I'm gutted to hear this Sag didn't please. He sound like a total douche! Ahh well, you live and you learn, lol! On to the next one. 😄

His bday is on Dec. 21. Is he even a Sag or a Cap? Rebecca if I were you I'd let him come around and call. Unless too much time goes by, then I would call and see how his sister is doing. I doubt he won't call u first though. But thank u so much for your advice. My guy is a weenie! I want to be pursued more than this. He texted me a week after we went put with a "hey" and that's it. I replied with a hey, but he hasn't called or texted after. What a dud. He totally wants me to chase him and I don't wanna. Lame. I'm dissapointed
though cuz he's so cute.

Chillgirl, my thoughts exactly! On both accounts!
As far as my guy is concerned, I'm determined to let him be for at least a few weeks - and then, provided he doesn't get in touch with me, call and ask about his sister. Unless, of course, I find out from other sources that she's passed away, because last time I talked to him the prognosis really was for only a few more weeks... 😢

As for your guy... I HOPE he's not a Cappy, I've got a sister who's a Cap and my father's wife is also a Cap and I have a few acquaintances who are Capricorns, so... I'd strongly advise staying away from them. They're manipulative and arrogant and cold... Keep in mind I love my sister and I think she's a wonderful person in a thousand ways, but difficult she is, and I blame it on her sun sign 🙂
And yes, your guy is acting like a lame weenie. You can't change that about him, or at least not by being straightforward and calling him up on it. What you can do is move on with your life and maybe make sure he knows about it. He likes you, no doubt about that, but not enough to be the one who does the chasing... so why not give him an incentive to change that? Since you work together, it wouldn't be very difficult for him to "overhear" you telling a friend how much fun you're having with this or that guy, how nicely he treats you, how he's always the perfect gentleman with you and does things that totally take your breath away... LOL, even if you have to make up this stuff, it's bound to work. I'm not saying you should make it clear you have a boyfriend and are no longer available, just let it be known you have other options too, and they're good options at that, men who recognize what you're worth and are willing to work for you...
As I said before, I was in a long term relationship with a Sag whom I'd chased in the beginning and who'd never let me forget it throughout the relationship. When I finally ended it, it took him a while, but after three months of only minimum contact he came to me apologizing for all the crap he'd given me, promising he was a different person, wishing with all his heart that we gave it another try... It didn't happen in the end, but his change of heart was genuine and was triggered once he finally realized I truly meant to end the relationship. So be strong, have fun, and see what gives 🙂

Lol horny and confused. Ahh aren't we all?

I should he told him to put out or get out! Lol

Rebecca
Keep us posted. I hope everything goes well for the both of you!!

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Posted by Chillgirl9001
There is a Sag guy that started flirting with me hardcore with sexy smiles

🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 😉 😉 😉 😉

I demand sex on the first date.

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HAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

Looks like I should have posted this on the Cap forum. I'm such an idiot! All thudding his bday was 12/22 which makes him a Cap. Damn it I wanted him to be a Sag!! What a waste of time! That explains why he's a douch!!

Looks like I should have posted this on the Cap forum. I'm such an idiot! All thudding his bday was 12/22 which makes him a Cap. Damn it I wanted him to be a Sag!! What a waste of time! That explains why he's a douch!!

I met a 12/22er once. He was not pleasant. 😢 He made rude seem nice.

Posted by Chillgirl9001
Looks like I should have posted this on the Cap forum. I'm such an idiot! All thudding his bday was 12/22 which makes him a Cap. Damn it I wanted him to be a Sag!! What a waste of time! That explains why he's a douch!!

LOL

golden words!

Update on my Sag (well, I don't know his birth date, so I'm going with Sag since that's what he told me 😄 ). Apparently the guy just doesn't do text messages! Anyway, here's what happened.
After that one text message in which I was inviting him to go out - to which he never replied - I had pretty much decided to let it go - at least for a while. Well, looks like "letting go" is not exactly what an Aries does best. One afternoon, when I'd just walked out of a waxing salon and was feeling extra-sexy I gave him a call, asking him whether he'd had any lunch and suggesting we could have a quick pizza somewhere. His reply was that, at that particular moment, he was feeling horrible and couldn't do it, but he truly regretted it. I shrugged it off and went out with a friend, thinking this time I was REALLY going to let him go. LOL. 3 weeks later, it was Easter and, while cruising through town on my bike (which is something I do a lot, since I LOVE it), I saw him and he looked so deep in thought, I couldn't resist the temptation of texting him again, just to say hope you're well and I wish you a quiet Easter...
Again, no reply. By this point, even my Aries stubbornness was almost exhausted. I had made it a point not to take his silence personally - knowing what I know about his situation - but still...
And then I found out where he lived - which just so happens to be in the same block of flats as my best-friend. And yesterday she needed a ride, so I drove to her place and passed by HIM - him being out with a few other guys. Even though I recognized him, I drove on, not sure how to react. BUT, while I was waiting for my friend, HE came to my car and started chatting... and then he said "I'll come by this Saturday, but I'll call you first." You see, there was something he started doing at my flat a while ago and never got around to finishing it. Apparently, now he wants to finish it. And I'll be all alone with him. That's tomorrow! And it might have been just wishful thinking, but there was something in the tone of his voice, in the way he was starring at me... that made me think maybe he means business 😄
I'm SOOOO nervous and excited and don't know what to do and how to get ready and my mind is reeling with images of fine, lacy underwear and hot stuff and I'm giddy with anticipation... 😄