I love my fiance, but my family hates him

I have been with my fiance for 10 months now. my family tells me I am ruining my live by being with him. I know I am young to get married, I'm only 18 and barely in college, but that doesn't give them the right to hate him. My fiance is hurt by the fact they don't like him. help me what should I do? Why do they hate him?

Just ask your parents why they don't like your fiance. But do it when you are calm and have an open mind. Don't fly off the handle, because chances are you might not like or agree with what they say. Now, if your parents and all your friends urge you not to marry him, then DON'T marry him. A lot of times other people have a more objective view than you possibly can yourself at this time. And if everyone says not to marry him, then they see something you either don't see or don't want to see that is not good for you.
I know what I'm talking about, I married a man my parents and all my friends asked me not to marry and it ended up being the biggest mistake of my life.
Also, just give yourself time. If the guy really loves you it shouldn't matter how soon or when you get married. You might have a hard time believing me right now, but a lifetime is VERY long. It means waking up next to that person every day, day after day, until you're old. And ask yourself if that is really the first thing you want to look at every morning when you wake up.
Good luck to you!

this is what i think if you really love each other then it shouldnt matter what other people say or think but i think if you really love each other then marriage can wait but dont do it to please others, over time i think your family will start to like him just show them his good side, i did the same thing with my boy my family hated him brother wanted to kick his ass, and so on but i just had him come over like every day and they got to know him for who he is and they love him and are expecting us to marry, but if its true love everything will work out and be ok.at least that what i believe but remember love is hard sometimes but can be the greatest thing when everything starts clicking in, hope i helped at least a bit.

Diana try 2 understand that ur they're baby and they don'yt want to loose u.Why don't u ask them?How old is he?do u usuallly have a good relationship with ur parents?

You're only 18. Maybe your parents wanted you to go to college and get a job first. Ask your parents WHY they hate him, and if your parents are the ones who are wrong in the end, marry him anyway - after you and your fiance settle any other problems that come along.

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