i met a pisces.

i met a pisces...and i am doomed. well, i feel like that anways. can't stop thinking about him. can't figure out why i am attracted to him cuz he is not my usual type. and i have no idea what to do at this point.

what are pisces like and how is the sag fem/pisces male interaction like? anyone know?

yeah but i don't ever make the first move...and i have NO idea if he is interested at all. this is strange for me. i guess i just don't know what to do.

okay so i wrote the pisces on monday on myspace cuz i added him after we met. and i asked him about baseball cuz we are both huge baseball fans...and for the same team. so i was like we should see them when they come here to play...in august.

and he read it like 2 seconds after i wrote it, but he didnt write me back until today. and he said that yeah we should check them out when they're in town in august...but then that was it. he ended it with "keep in touch 🙂"

what the heck!? so...i am taking that as, he is not interested in me, otherwise he would've said more...

...right?

i mean, i don't even know what to write back. keep in touch is something you say to someone when you don't really plan on hearing from them or want to hear from them right away...like, okay, let's keep in touch DOWN THE ROAD FAR AWAY FROM NOW....LEAVE ME ALONE...kinda thing.

ahhh! it sucks!

Sag from my experience with Pisces they play a lot of what we call mind games in actuality its just their way of being. So as others say, don't put to much thought into his behavior, my Pisces friend is a pain in the arse but I know he means no harm, he has a way of triggering annoyance in me but I ignore him and keep moving.

Pisces the one I know likes to keep people guessing, feeds off that WTF element, he never likes to be found out, when I found out how he was he literally ceased contact and then he came back and were cool. When I found out his game, guess what he did, changed his whole page around and started over, he literally re-invented himself LOL!! He didn't like that someone figured his ass out, it took the fun out of it, it took away from the illusion and so he had to switch it up.

Some love the energy that confusion brings, some like being a big ole enigma, good luck with that...for me it was a fun union but I don't have the patience for too many games like that.

Tiki,

One thing I don't get about this all. What do you expect? I mean you expect something different? What it is? Do you want him to land on your lap and say "OK, I'm here, I'm your slave now, do what you want now"? Do you percive this kind of response "no mind game" response?

Sometimes I just don't get people. They say Pisceans are mysterious and all..I don't get it where are we mysterious? Maybe people here even on this board do those things to me and my responses do seem like "mysterious" and so on....Excuse me, I do have reasons to act so...Do you think I should give all explainations to what I say and do to everyone? Would you do that yourself?

I am a Pisces and I was with a Sagittarius for 7 years...on and off for 9...He was my highschool sweetheart, my best friend, my family. We had an amazing connection but were too young to take care of and treasure. I can say he worshipped me and would have done anything for me, but we both played a lot of games. I think we were extremely compatible and had we met now as opposed to when we were 14, it would have been the most amazing union. We really had it all, we did everything together. Now we both are in other relationships. I actually was the first to move on because I couldn't wait around for him any longer. He went away to college and lost a sense of reality for a while and thought I would wait around forever. He tried very hard for a while to get me back but I was too afraid to take a chance on him again, I had moved on to a good man, a different style of relationship, but he was good. What I can say about the relationship is we had so much fun together, we were both very free spirited and did not impose anything on each other, it was fun and filled with many dreams for the future.

Enjoy your Pisces. We can be dreamers, and confusing, sensitive and hard to figure out, but we will love you with all our hearts. Sag's know just how to make us smile, and laugh, and that alone is priceless! They know how to handle our humor, and not take us seriously when we are in our moods, and Pisces need that. Sag's optimism and zest for life makes us feel alive, so just be you!

I know many happy Sagittarius - Pisces relationships, there really is a strong attraction between these two. In real life (forget the books).

Archer, thank you for enjoying my post 🙂

As for what we bring to Sag, I think we make them feel special. Sag's know they can depend on Pisces, and they completely can be themselves. Pisces helps Sag grow and mature. Pisces loves to feel needed and Sag's need Pisces to help them be a bit more tactful...lol...Pisces and Sag know how to be children again without fear of judgment. Sag can be himself and feel free...

Hi Archer,
I missed you and I've been keeping up with your posts. You really love the Pisces-Sagittarius combo, don't you? I have to admit that it is indeed powerful, intense and beautiful. I know that when a Sag hurts a Pisces un-intentionally, it's like they use that accidental nick of pain to draw themselves in closer for pleasure. Then everything's all better.

Hey Archer,
no, I don't take it as "stalking". As a matter of fact, I sent you a PM.
Dreamy-Eyez aka ENIGMA

OK I need an honest opinion from you Sags. I was with the Sag I told you about for about 9 years, we broke up due to growing pains (we were highschool sweethearts) and although we broke up a few times, always knew we wanted to spend our lives together. I became tired of the back and forth and moved on. Although I am happy, I don't feel fulfilled the way I did with my Sag, he unconditionally loved and accepted me for who I was. After many attempts, my Sag finally moved on to an Aries girl, who from what he tells me goes over and beyond for him. They moved in together about 2 months ago. He bought a condo but wouldnn't put her name on it, as he puts it, just in case things don't work. The things is, up until they moved in, he was still trying to see me and would always say things that reminisced about our past, but out of guilt for my present relationship, I would always say no about meeting up...

I finally stopped playing on my fears and wrote him a long letter about how I did miss him and everything we once had and that I just didn't want to hurt anyone or interfere in his life. That I thought of how it would have been if it was us moving in together. He called me immediately and asked why I hadn't told him this before. I told him it was just something I was trying to ignore. He said he felt the same but that he couldn't hurt his girlfriend, that she did it all for him and would do anything not to lose him. But that he thought of me always and how it would be if we were together. He said she would have to mess up somehow for him to leave.

I feel like he is staying with her more out of obligation. But I can't lie, I love my boyfriend very much, our relationship is just different. I too, could not see myself leaving him. I guess it would have to be something that just happens. Life would have to lead us back to each other....

Maybe I am just stuck in the ways of a 9 year, first love, high school sweetheart relationship. Maybe I am still adjusting although I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years. My previous relationship was just easier and light hearted but I am 26 now, and was 15-24 then...completely different...

Is it normal to hold on to the past like this— Any comments...