@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces
Maybe .. but, if I don't do it AT ALL, then how can it be wrong?
I'm a sex addict. If I take a step back and think about it it's kinda scary. It's ok to not like sex at 48 though (wink)
Being put off of sex, relationships and in rare cases 'life', has recently been recognised and classified with a clinical diagnosis:
'The Virgo effect'.
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You may have a point, there .. in the past, BEFORE 'Mr. Cold' my libido was very active. My Libra man, from years past, didn't have any troubles finding my wickedness.
Damn, maybe he'll waltz back into my life .. he can definitely light my fire.
Nah, you're not the only one. I went without sex for years on purpose and really didn't care. Now that I'm at a certain age, though, I feel like I'm Sigourney Weaver and the space between my legs is the demanding, fierce Alien creature -- always with the gimmie, gimmie, gimmie 😛
Fortunately I can ignore her.
i think it's just because of who you're with P. Back when i was with the scorp, i hated sex. I would come home from work, eat and say my day was long so im going to bed, just so i wouldnt have to have sex with him. i was no more interested in what he had between his legs anymore than im interested in the life of a dung beetle.
lol but thats because of all the things that we went thru towards the end, i was completely turned off and certainly didnt want to get pregnant. best way i know to make sure that you dont have the spawn of satan is not to have sex with him. so that's what i did. i turned off the love faucet lol. maybe you're not attracted to your spouse anymore... sexually i mean. you know we pisceans have to be spiritually into it in order for it to work out. if you're not connecting with him, then you might as well hang it up.
Being put off of sex, relationships and in rare cases 'life', has recently been recognised and classified with a clinical diagnosis:
'The Virgo effect'.
LOL!
I guess it depends on the person with whom you have sex with/ desire to have sex with because different people could ignite certain passionate feelings...
You pisces love sex though lol
I think as many said, love has to exist, I think pisces dont do sex by sex, they make the words "making love" make sense.
If he even thinks about touching me I cringe .. ewwwwww, don't touch me.
It's been years, I think .. a long time, I don't even know how long. Before the grandkids, I think.
pp, I take meds for certain conditions, but, they don't do any damage to my sex drive. It's the Virgo Effect, that's it, for sure. OK, so if a person fantasizes while masturbating everyday .. then, that's still sex, isn't it? So, I'm a liar, then.
Or, confused, that sounds better, lol
Sex is on my mind 24/7 .. do I cheat to satisfy myself or continue to turn blue and be a faithful wife? If I'm thinking about somebody everyday while I do myself, is that still cheating?
You're right, Lil .. it's him. I'd rather jump out of an airplane without a parachute, and plunge to my death than let him touch me.
That's bad .. and, yet, I stay. What the hell's the matter with me?
So, how does a person take these "fantasies" and apply them with a partner?
There's was this one man in my life, years ago, the two of us shared all kinds of deliscious fantasies together .. he was no naughty. Some of the shit that went through his head that he found arousing was definitely bordering on forbidden to many people.
Damn! I missed the really good part of the conversation!
Sorry to hear about the sex thing, PA. Hope that works out for you.
Oh no!!! Here I go sticking my foot in my mouth (keyboard?)!!
I'm not at all saying that the previous discussion on spas and pedigrees wasn't one of the best discussions I have seen in my life. Ever.
I'm just saying that it's tough for a new participant to said discussion. I could have put in my two cents worth when it comes to PA getting more of that sweet loving at home. I don't have a single thing to add when it comes to Dave.
This is all about my own limitations. Not anyone else's. Have some pity on a poor lost soul that just wants to waste some time while having a cup of coffee.
Hey DC! If you became a squillionaire, I would really, really like an around-the-world plane ticket. If you're feeling particularly generous and made it British Airways, first class... well, golly gee. I don't know that I could say no.
Why would either you or Dave feel insulted, DC?
Think of my silence on the matter as something along the lines of being unable to tell you how many angels can dance on the head of a pin.
There are some mysteries in the world that are so magnificent that my little mind can't wrap itself around them. Dave is clearly one of them.
*rifles around the closet for a hair shirt and cat o'nine tails*
Ordinarily, I would call all this a typical Saturday night. For you, capgirl, I'll call it a mea culpa.
Awww shucks, DC. Don't make me have you acknowledge that there's some good in us virgos. 😛
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"CG - If I win the lotto tonight, what do you want? pp wants a Harrods bracelet, DK gets an unlimited supply of charger parts .. what about you?"
*pouts*
Hey, v-lady .. thanks. Where ya been? You went MIA on us for a couple weeks.
Doing your Virgo thing, eh?
Welcome back 🙂
Shares is too risky. You can't go wrong in real property .. it only appreciates. Buying a hotel would be lucrative investment, especially in a hot-spot, like a resort or hollywood. With the remainder of your 2 mil (if you won 5 and only invested 3), you should split up into 3,6,9 & month CD's. The return isn't tremendous, but, there is no cash on hand to piddle away.
When people get their hands on money, they spend on stupid stuff, only to later realize how wasteful it was. Whereas, if the money was in a CD (which only yields about 3% ), you would have those months (3,6,9 or 12) to scrutinize over which purchases are really desired.
Oh, and the only thing I would want is off this mountain .. so, can you buy my house as part of your real property investments?
Thanks PA! How have you been? I've kept sort of half an eye on the forums and caught something about a job interview that you rocked.
And can someone tell me how to get the little photo going in my profile? I'm really struggling with figuring that out.
Well, I didn't get the job, apparantly .. so, I guess my interview wasn't as great as I thought. Thanks, though 🙂 The main part is just that I have little to no experience in marketing my skills and I felt like I really pushed myself and I feel like it was an accomplishment, even if it secure me the post.
Man, I tell you, I'm like a computer dummy and it me forever .. I'm not even sure how I got it on here. If I knew, I would tell you.
hehehehe
That's ok, DC .. I don't really need the money .. I was just looking to get out of the house .. you know, get a life!
Did I ever thank you for my mouse?
Thank you .. it will be forever here (of course, I don't know how to do another one, so, it's not like there's a choice).
Damned photo. This only convinces me that information really is transferred on the internet by little hamsters running through tubes.
Are you calling me ugly, DC?
We're a spicy bunch.
My, what big nostrils you have. And no mouth.
Well, I think he's cute .. why a "he" though?
Are we making too much of a racket, pp?
There's just something about the photo that makes me smile. Beaker tends to do that to a person. Plus, he's got this perpetually shocked expression on his face that somehow embodies the way I've been looking at the world lately.
Oh, upon closer inspection, I see those dots aren't nostrils, at all.
It's your mouth .. why the frown?
My God, DC .. those look dangerous .. she wanted to be plugged, not bored.
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