insecurity

so my aries bff and me were talking about my hair because i just got back from the salon. she had been saying that she wants to go but she decided to sleep in.

so she same over to my house and she started talking about her insecurities. im thinking to myself, wth. you have ALOT going for you. if u want something to change, then make the first move.

i knew aries can be insecure but good grief, i didnt think it was this much.

We ALL have insecurities. I've never met anyone who doesn't.

Posted by ellessque
I don't.

..and I have an aries moon. does that count?

insecurities are less of a sun sign then they are a product of your environment, upbringing...etc.

Really?

Aries are very open and honest about who they are.

What you think are insecurities as she discussed with you, are true words from her heart that speak about things she feels she must think about.

They aren't necessarily insecurities if she is sharing them with you.

Insecurities are things you hide away from others and then nervously twitch about life and act like you don't have, and then usually these same people talk about others as if they are less than they are.

Ugh, why did I read this post ...

I agree Aries are like an open book shes just sharing with you everything that she is feeling im sure you have insecurities that you tuck away and never talk about for fear of being weak but she is just sharing with you apart of herself that means she really trusts you be happy about it. 🙂

Yes. Everyone has insecurities. She's just being honest. People hide so much, I guess it looks strange when someone keeps it real.

Posted by ellessque

Posted by Sagittarius89

Posted by ellessque
I don't.

..and I have an aries moon. does that count?

insecurities are less of a sun sign then they are a product of your environment, upbringing...etc.

Really?

I was being facetious 😛

Of course everyone has insecurities, an aries may just be more willing to speak about them openly.

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Haha got it. Ya I notice you scorps don't do that much.

I too have an Arie bff and she is VERY insecure at times. She does tend to complain even when she has so much to be grateful for. She also tends to be a bit jealous at times. But, I still love her. I am sure she could go on and on about my flightiness and short attention span...now, what was I saying?

Posted by heroic_guy
Aries are very open and honest about who they are.

What you think are insecurities as she discussed with you, are true words from her heart that speak about things she feels she must think about.

They aren't necessarily insecurities if she is sharing them with you.

Insecurities are things you hide away from others and then nervously twitch about life and act like you don't have, and then usually these same people talk about others as if they are less than they are.

Ugh, why did I read this post ...

Exactly! She's just being honest, and trusts you to a certain extent with that information. Besides, I doubt she would tell you things that you can hurt her with, as heroic_guy said, those are the real insecurities.

I prefer honest and upfront people like that. She probably won't spill all the beans about whats going on inside, but atleast she's not trying to hide, overcompensate for, or ignore what she's feeling. Self-awareness will keep one from going insane.