Can simi religious women date a religious aries?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by mahogany2 on Friday, May 13, 2011 and has 14 replies.

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@mahogany2
15 Years

I have noticed that my aries man are always talking about the bible, church and quoting diferrent scriptures from the bible. Also telling me to read the bible and go to church; not that there is anything wrong with this because I do believe i'm just not into it like he is. When he is saying these things to me I don't say anything because I think that is my decision and others should not push their religion on other people. But we are of the same faith although I don't think he know this about me because he never asked.

I think he has a problem with me because of the religion thing but I never said I didn't believe, I just don't know all the verses in the bible like that. I want to know will he still date me or just keep me at a distance?

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@Lady Aries
16 Years

That will depend on your Aries, and has little to do with sign. It would help to discuss the significance of religion in both of your lives and your expectations with each other. Since I am Atheist, and religion has no place in my life, it is one of the first topics I bring up to make sure there there will be no misunderstandings.

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@KingOfAries
15 Years1,000+ PostsAries

you talk about us like we are pets -_-

i believe in God but i am not a fanatic, however, i do know Bible very therthally, not lines, but almost every story i do and if you argue with me on something i can get stuff from bible right away, although i never do, though happened few times in my life.. yes its a big turn off for us if you dont share the same passion, at least show him that you are interested and listen to him, at least tell him that its also your religion, if you wont show him that he will keep you on the distance because you will frustrate him

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@TeflonDon
15 Years

My Aries always quotes scriptures too. God is good for them. They are polar-opposites of Libras so their life lesson is balance. God does this for them.

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@TeflonDon
15 Years

Posted by KingOfAries
you talk about us like we are pets -_-

i believe in God but i am not a fanatic, however, i do know Bible very therthally, not lines, but almost every story i do and if you argue with me on something i can get stuff from bible right away, although i never do, though happened few times in my life.. yes its a big turn off for us if you dont share the same passion, at least show him that you are interested and listen to him, at least tell him that its also your religion, if you wont show him that he will keep you on the distance because you will frustrate him

I disagree about how you should "at least show him that you were interested" because if you're not really interested then that's a lie and will cause a conflict later.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Religious beliefs are huge in a relationship .... along with political

If you two aren't on the same page enough to be accepting of each other now ... then it will only get worse in time.

You said, "When he is saying these things to me I don't say anything because I think that is my decision and others should not push their religion on other people."

Already you feel like he is pushing you into something, and he isn't going to change this because it is his belief system.

Instead of wondering if he's going to want to date you ... you should be thinking about whether you want to be with a Jesus Freak. Relationships are a two-way situation, and it's not just about what he wants to do. Can YOU handle him being a fanatic, and from the way you are already upset about it .... the answer looks like, no, you can't deal with it.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

And it's not even a matter of .... can a person learn to deal.

It's a matter of compatibility. Spiritually speaking, people need to be connected because if they aren't, then it effects much more than just the physical plane of existence.

If two people have to argue or be upset about or uncomfortable when concerning their spiritual path, then that goes beyond this plane, and causes soul fractures.

Two people who are a couple NEED to be very much connected spiritually. It's ok to be at different levels, so long as the belief system is the same.

If you believe the same as he does, then let him know how you feel.
If you don't believe the same as he does, you should probably consider stepping away.

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@KingOfAries
15 Years1,000+ PostsAries

well being fuking ignorant about religion or interesting things is kind of pathetic and drives me nuts, if you are an idiot trying to date an Aries just leave him alone before he makes you look stupid and cry and all sorts of drama that will fallow

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@heroic_guy
16 Years500+ PostsAries

I love all aries, even ones on the bender!

But that doesn't mean they are necessarily good to be around for other people.

I met the most endearing guy who was homeless at the time, heck it is NYC, I know it happens to the best of them. Anyway, he quoted scripture better than most and was on and on about how this explains why this is happening etc etc. I could keep up with the conversation but I could see how anybody else would wave him off as a complete nutcase.

Some Aries can get quite focused on certain aspects of life, religion being one of them, and I guess it is something where one person can get through and another can't.

If you are interested in being friends or more with this type, I have to say, you can get "through" to that person and have a conversation that you want, it does take a lot of will to do it, but have heart if you are interested.

I would understand if you didn't.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by KingOfAries

well being fuking ignorant about religion or interesting things is kind of pathetic and drives me nuts, if you are an idiot trying to date an Aries just leave him alone before he makes you look stupid and cry and all sorts of drama that will fallow

VirgoLovesAries/DearDiary ..... used the word "fallow" ... she was also very angry. Maybe it's a territory thing .. are you from Toronto?

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@mahogany2
15 Years

Thanks for all of you all responses; it does not bother me that he is always quoting from the bible. And I do listen to him and I do respond to what he is talking about. Religion is everything to him when it comes to him having a mate. So I do think he is distant from me because of this and his last relationship. And that makes since that his religion keeps him balanced because I think with out it he will be extremely wild. Because I have seen some of it and he is holding back a lot.

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@KingOfAries
15 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Posted by thomas1214

Posted by KingOfAries
well being fuking ignorant about religion or interesting things is kind of pathetic and drives me nuts, if you are an idiot trying to date an Aries just leave him alone before he makes you look stupid and cry and all sorts of drama that will fallow

relax folks it's only KingOfNoKnowledgeWhatSoEver he spews out more garbled useless info in one post then P-Angel in a week.

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excuse me? if i say something i am always right comprende? and even if it isnt right when it comes out of my mouth it becomes right, if anyone disagrees they will disagree, so far i havent seen anyone disagree except for you crying little bithc
you cant think like aries, so stop following me around, stalking me, and crying about my posts you ignorant fool

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@akgem74
13 Years

i've been married to an aries man for 9 years. he's been 3 different religions in that time period. it is a problem for us because i'm not as into as he is and that bothers him a lot. it's hard for me to get into it because one, i'm just not that religious. two, he keeps changing religions what am i to think. three, i feel like i'm just doing it for him not for god.