I've got to learn to be more flexible.

i was so pissed at my Aquarius that I lay in bed awake most of the night. I thought someone slipped me some crack or something my blood was boiling so much. It was our last night together on a king sized bed with zebra print sheets and a built in vibrator. Yeah, I know that screams cheap motel circa 1967; and ok, it was actually at her grandma's house, but she wasn't the least bit interested in taking advantage of the situation.

I was cool the 1st night that I didn't get any, but by the next night, I was livid after her drunk ass fell asleep. But then on the way home while driving down a highway in the rain, that's when she wants it; and that's when the flexibility would have come in handy. My head hurts.

did u ask her way u aint get no booty

well, yeah. she's been saying that she hasn't been in the mood so much lately ... and that I'm not that great at getting her in the mood. That's troubling because when we first started dating, I didn't have to get her in the mood. She was a horny maniac and always came after me. I guess I just assumed that's the way it would continue.

whats her mars sign? she's the party starter

hmmmm, not so good at looking stuff like that up, but best I can tell: Gemini

This is the first time I have heard about a female not being sexual enough in a long time

yeah, maybe I just had my expectations out of whack ... I see from above the comments about G-ma's being a mood kill. I'm still remembering the fish I dated a while back, and the hottest business we ever got down to always happened when her very strict Catholic mother was in the next room. different strokes for different folks

I'm just paranoid because I'm really liking this one, but I abhor the thought of getting married again only to have all the great sex dry up. That's just a deal breaker. I suppose a spell that lasts a couple of weeks is ok, but I get really worried during a time like that. Things seem better now. watch ... this week she'll want it and I'm kinda satisfied now.

Thanks for the tips aquan ... your comments are pretty consistent with things she's said and done also. she likes the aggressive stuff too, but I'm conflicted about that. That's like a pandora's box ... how does a guy let an animal like that out and control it at the same time?

As far as giving goes ... if she asks for something ... I'm on it!

The way things went after she passed out at her g-ma's was kinda interesting. In the middle of the night she figured out in her sleep that something wasn't right. She started cuddling up to me and laying on top of me in her sleep. I just lied there, stiff as a board, silently fuming. Then later she woke up a little and we talked and that's when I let her know that I was too mad to sleep. She said some of the stuff you said, aquan ... but also, that she just hadn't been in the mood much in the last couple of weeks. That's when I explained straight up that this was exactly the situation that drives me crazy. Sometimes when I'm about to explode, I want my lover to just take care of me. I can't stand the thought of only being with one person if that person is not willing to do that for me on occasion. (I also probably said something like, I don't give a shit about your vajayjay right now, lol) Well, she dozed in and out of sleep a bit more, but finally took care of business later in the morning. Ever since then she's been her normal horny self ... I just hope she's not faking it or secretly hurt or pissed at what I said.

wow, you sound so much like my girl. Thanks for sharing ... great insights. LOL @ your sag not liking make up sex. She looked at me like I was crazy once when I said that I had never really done the make up sex thing. Sags really are about "happy". It's confusing to me thinking about sex and anger in the same moment ... but I get the potential for passion there. She's so different from anyone I've dated before though, and she's getting me in touch with uncharted territory in my own personality. That's why I'm so attracted to her right now ... also why I find myself getting so upset from time to time, because I care more about where this is going.

It's funny, we were a little high one night and she was comparing our charts on i-phone ... it really didn't look like that great of a match to me, but the funny part was how she was interpreting everything possible in our favor. I'm not going to sweat the details ... really, she needs me (I think she kinda knows it), and I enjoy being with her. I've been able to have a pretty honest relationship with her so far, and that feels good. In some ways, we're like a mid-air collision, and only time will tell if we are going to level out together.

Posted by aquansidenout
Lmao I feel so sorry for you everytime you post because I can see my sag boyfriend in your words. All frustrated and intrigued by his aqua woman at the sametime. We love sex but we want spontaneously sometimes and yes we usually want it when your mind is far from it or when it just seems impossible. I tried getting oral from my boyfriend on his balcony one night while people were outside. They couldn't see us but he was like are you crazy this is the most inoportune time for head. Oh well I got my way for like five seconds then he's like that's it this is just to weird we got neighbors. Scardy cat.

I can't name how many times I've fallen asleep before sex even when I've only had one drink. Alcohol just isn't my friend. Cut her some slack and just take that putty cat next time. I like that kind of stuff. 😉

I thought you were dating a sagg, however in another thread I read you had sex with a ex so I was kinda confused but I guess you are still with your sagg men...