jealousy?

I got a question for you saggi's i am a gemini, and i've got a relationship with a saggi.. really my polar opposite.
Anyway we finally got together in a way. Anyway i've kinda known her for over a year, and at times its very rough but fun. I dont mind we've got an understanding where we can have fun with other people to. What i dont get is at times when im talking to other girls or that, she gets somewhat gets a little jealous. But she does the same and i don't mind. Why do you saggi's get jealous i will never understand, i like it but still tell me

Archer, you?re soooo right. They hate to make a scene. They despise vulgarity and being too flirtations my seem vulgar to them. They?re regal and highly selective and if she selected you, you should show some reverence to her in the way you go around charming people. If you cannot help your gemini self, do it with class and discretion.

Another advice, if you allow me: If you end up cheating on her, NEVER let her know (she most probably won't ask) and never, NEVER EVER, cheat on her emotionally. She won't talk it through, she won't try to savage the relationship, she'll turn her back and leave.

***I dont mind we've got an understanding where we can have fun with other people to**

Does this mean you are dating more than each other? If so, that would be a problem if it was me because I only date one man at a time otherwise I don't date them.

***What i dont get is at times when im talking to other girls or that, she gets somewhat gets a little jealous.***

If you are in a relationship with this Sag female than she will only get jealous if she feels you are cheating on her but, she can be annoyed and not jealous if you are being disrespectful to her by stepping over the boundaries of friendly flirting.

When I am in a relationship with someone, I don't mind if they are flirting with other women but if they take it too far then, I will be pissed and walk away because that shows that you don't respect me or my feelings.

ah well ive never cheated on her. I like her, im not possesive over her and demand anything from her. Cause thats not what i want either. She's her own free being, i let her do anything she wants. What i just never understood is when shes around guys dancing and having fun, i let her, but if i was just talking to some other girls, not in a flirting way she sometimes gets a little irked i guess. Just never know how she reacts at times. Like its ok for her to do it, but i have to be refrained a little. urgh i dont know

theres a problem here - u see u both started out on this we like each other but no strings attacched relationship - now thats all fine. Except Sagi is not Gemini, and Sagi when romantically involved, (and lots of sagi women get romantically involved in situations like these)is very very jealous.

dunno why but sagi girls always start loving their best frds - and then it goes all horribly wrong - while geminis can cooly keep to the no strings attached conditoin

ingo: I am not really a jealous type at all. I'm just as much of a flirt as the next person so, I have no right to be jealous. If I start to feel real jealous than there is something wrong because I usually have good instincts about someone I date and if that's the case I need to move on because I don't like feeling that way and it's not worth it to.

"and lots of sagi women get romantically involved in situations like these)is very very jealous."

That's very interesting because I have observed that as well! I find that extremely misleading, plus sagis though can't keep their love life straight, but they have demands on their friends' who they started liking! How annoying is that! As a scorp I just want to smack them around. If you are going to be jealous you better be sure you want to be with that person! Duh!

So true. I don't get jealous - just annoyed.
If you want to go be with that girl/guy...go right ahead, but don't be flashy and flirt with them in front of a Sag. It's tacky.

I am not jealous but I will not tolerate a man flirting constantly if he is with me then it is not necessary for him to be doing it!!!

Hi,

This might be a rather lengthy reply, but hopefully this will help you. If you have probably read anything about a sagi, all the books say they are not the jealous type. This on a over all is partly true. Especially if we are not emotionally involved. The amount of jealousy though is dependent on many things. Not just her sign, but how she was raised, if she was cheated on and it really cut her deep, she will be jaded and cautious to not make the same mistake again. If we get burnt, it hurts badly because we put all the cards on the table. Also.. if she is a Sagi I, Sagi II or Sagi III. Sagi's I are very close to the Scorpion sign, so they will share a few of there traits but not to the extent as there neighboring sign. Also, in there birthing charts.. if they have a few signs in there houses that are more of the jealous type.. then she will be a bit more jealous then your average Sagi.

I personally do not like to label it jealousy. Least for me, its not that black and white. Maybe a tad bit possessive might be a better word to describe how a sagi female feels. Not possessive in the sense were we want to know where you are at all times.. keeping tabs and etc. We are cool if you want a night out with the boys.. some of us even calling your boys begging them to take you out! We needing our own space. But possessive in the sense they we do not like to share what we feel is ours, and we have a strong intuitiveness to us. We might be picking up on a particular girl that the guy is flirting with.. knowing how her nature is and slightly worried.

I think the biggest thing to remember is that a Sagi woman loves attention. We like to be the center of attention. If we have felt forgotten.. we get a bit irked. We can also be rather hypercritical.. providing one set of expectations but doing the opposite. That's a trait of immaturity.. it will pass overtime as we grow and experience life. If there is one thing I have learned about my sisters of my sign and myself.. we like to improve our faults. Some might take longer then others.. but we like to grow.. actually its almost as if we need to grow, a strong desire for us. I am not sure if you have read a lot about the connections between a gemini and sagi. I am bringing this up because of all the signs of the zodiac, these two have the strongest connection. There is a permanency when these two signs get together. If you were wanting something light and carefree.. this is not going t

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I am not sure if you have read a lot about the connections between a Gemini and sagi. I am bringing this up because of all the signs of the zodiac, these two have the strongest connection. There is a permanency when these two signs get together. If you were wanting something light and carefree.. this is not going to be this kind of relationship. Its going to be intense.. revealing and in many ways passionate. Your air will fuel her fire. I am married, to a capricorn.. he intrigues the hell out of me. I can not understand him, that's part of the allure and frustration. However I met a guy who was a Gemini, he is older, married as well.. There was/ is a strong connection.. one we both feel.. but dare not openly remark about it.

Just for some reason.. this is so with Gemini and sagi.. this will make her feel off centered, things that normally will not bother her, will now. Least until she can pull apart these emotions and sort them out.. control them in a sense. Just remember that.. its going to be an emotional, but wonderful learning experience you two will go through. Teaching you much about life, love, yourself and desires. And not to forget her while out.. we really hate that.. Part of our attractions to the Geminis.. we too love your flirting *winks* we have someone who responds beautifully to us when we tease them.. that's hard to find.