My Sag boyfriend does not feel appreciated

My Sagitarius boyfriend does not feel appreciated because according to him I do not do enough nice and unexpected things for him. We have only been dating for three months. I did do a few unexpected things for him. I took him to a show, paid for his tennis lesson, but he still feels unappreciated.
Since I deeply dislike unexpected things and surprises, it's hard for me to think of anything unexpected.
Do you have any suggestions?

I have to answer this from two perspectives:

1. As a woman, the man should make more of an effort in the beginning of the relationship. EX: Be a gentleman, pay for most outings (if possible) , call his lady often , etc.

2. As a Sagittarius, I have felt unappreciated in a relationship. I did not expect expensive gifts or extravagant weekends all expense paid getaways. (Most men in my age bracket that are single do not have money 😢 ) BUT...I did want an occasional surprise rose maybe? He would talk about a great hot dog stand he used to go to, or a park he would frequent but would not spontaneously call me and say. "Hey LadySag, wanna go get a hot dog ? Lets take a drive." I felt he was selfish at times and even though I stayed with him for over 6 months, looking back, I should've left him sooner.

Some extra hugs and kisses would be good. 🙂—

Posted by MzSag
Well... Do you do it from you heart? Or do you do it because you know it's something that he wants you to do?

For me, it's the simple gestures that mean the most. For instance, if you hear him complaining about how his watch is broken, go get him a new one... or get his old one fixed. Listen to him. Reaffirm him. Let him know that you do appreciate him.

Where's your Moon? Capricorn, Virgo?

I'm that way also, but sometimes I would like to see a woman break the bank for me. But I do have a question on dating. This is something that men often talk about amongst themselves and the OP mentioned it in her first post. If we're supposed to be friends or getting to know one another in the name of taking it slow or getting comfortable, why is it expected for the man to pay for going out. If you're both wanting to see if the other person is worth your time, shouldn't the expenses for dates be shared? Just asking

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by MzSag
Well... Do you do it from you heart? Or do you do it because you know it's something that he wants you to do?

For me, it's the simple gestures that mean the most. For instance, if you hear him complaining about how his watch is broken, go get him a new one... or get his old one fixed. Listen to him. Reaffirm him. Let him know that you do appreciate him.

Where's your Moon? Capricorn, Virgo?

I'm that way also, but sometimes I would like to see a woman break the bank for me. But I do have a question on dating. This is something that men often talk about amongst themselves and the OP mentioned it in her first post. If we're supposed to be friends or getting to know one another in the name of taking it slow or getting comfortable, why is it expected for the man to pay for going out. If you're both wanting to see if the other person is worth your time, shouldn't the expenses for dates be shared? Just asking

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I have known Sag males can be very calculating & stingy......U just proved it again!!! Sucks!!!!!!!!!

Be a real man, U should be gentle to take care a lady who U are dating with...otherwise, U don't deserve for a date.

Remember that "Lady First" is a golden rule!!!

lol, +1 on the stingy

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by MzSag
Well... Do you do it from you heart? Or do you do it because you know it's something that he wants you to do?

For me, it's the simple gestures that mean the most. For instance, if you hear him complaining about how his watch is broken, go get him a new one... or get his old one fixed. Listen to him. Reaffirm him. Let him know that you do appreciate him.

Where's your Moon? Capricorn, Virgo?

I'm that way also, but sometimes I would like to see a woman break the bank for me. But I do have a question on dating. This is something that men often talk about amongst themselves and the OP mentioned it in her first post. If we're supposed to be friends or getting to know one another in the name of taking it slow or getting comfortable, why is it expected for the man to pay for going out. If you're both wanting to see if the other person is worth your time, shouldn't the expenses for dates be shared? Just asking

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i think the guy should always pay for the first date. sets the tone of the rest of the relationship. i also think that the girl can treat her man to dates.

LoL. ^^^^since when did six code for s*x? That's wierd.

Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
The Sag that I have dated broke his back to pay for EVERYTHING and called almost every hour to see how I was doing, to tell me a joke or ask me what is up in the news. When I paid for something I had to sneak. He told me that I deserved the best from him because I did all of the cooking, cleaning, washed his clothes, gave him back rubs when he got off work and kissed, hugged, carressed him all of the time. Also, I never turned him down when he wanted to have sex. I was always game for anything. With that being said, if you just do what comes naturally for a woman then your Sag won't feel unappreciated. It's simple, really....

i think that if a sag is really into you, we will go broke for you. at least i will. money, overdraft fees, please...

Posted by MzSag
Well... Do you do it from you heart? Or do you do it because you know it's something that he wants you to do?

For me, it's the simple gestures that mean the most. For instance, if you hear him complaining about how his watch is broken, go get him a new one... or get his old one fixed. Listen to him. Reaffirm him. Let him know that you do appreciate him.

Where's your Moon? Capricorn, Virgo?

Sorry , but for some reason I could not logged into this page for a long time. e wants constant reassurance and attention.I do things from my heart. Listen to is a difficult sometimes e never stops talking lol loves details etc. I ave Moon in Pisces and love silence sometimes. I need to recharge and time alone. It probably feels like rejection to him sometimes