Posted by beautifuldiasterYou must be just as fucked up as she is
So how did you go from finding out about his gf to sex in the car!?!? ... Well I know how that happens... I'm not dumb, I've been there where passion is so unreal that your body leaves its physical state and enters a world of fantasy and Ecstasy.
How do you feel about everything now?
He stopped having sex with you because she called him— Or did my sag merc make me skip the details??
Are you okay?
Posted by beautifuldiasterYep I was right. You are just as fucked up as she is. People get in the situations because they don't understand themselves. It's not about me understanding someone. It's about them understanding themselves and why they do the stupid shit they do. Validating someone and making them feel better about their piss poor choices in life is not helping anyone. You have issues just as bad as she does. You're fucking delusional.Posted by HappygoluckyI warned her of this.
So, you actively pursued a man that was in a committed relationship and fucked him? And you fucked him in his car? And you were upset because he stopped while his girlfriend was calling him? To me that's the lowest form of life on earth. A fucking cheater. And someone actually had the balls to tell you they thought you were a good person? What a fucking joke!
You mean well. I get your pov but I doubt it will benefit anything by being harsh. Come on. Despite the wisdom that life deals us we can all agree that sometimes people need someone to just listen.
Despite our warnings.
Despite our logic
People will do as they please.
I think the only way to reach another human is by understanding them which you are in no way trying to do.click to expand
Posted by HappygoluckyLOL I have thick skin and am a Taurus mixed with Aries and Scorpio, and you're opinion honestly doesn't matter to me. You're just speaking airrrr....
So, you actively pursued a man that was in a committed relationship and fucked him? And you fucked him in his car? And you were upset because he stopped while his girlfriend was calling him? To me that's the lowest form of life on earth. A fucking cheater. And someone actually had the balls to tell you they thought you were a good person? What a fucking joke!
Posted by crownedinbeautyI figured that's what you would say. Also add pieces of ass think the same way. Awaiting the thread next week on why the sag Man won't leave his girlfriend for you.Posted by HappygoluckyLOL I have thick skin and am a Taurus mixed with Aries and Scorpio, and you're opinion honestly doesn't matter to me. You're just speaking airrrr....
So, you actively pursued a man that was in a committed relationship and fucked him? And you fucked him in his car? And you were upset because he stopped while his girlfriend was calling him? To me that's the lowest form of life on earth. A fucking cheater. And someone actually had the balls to tell you they thought you were a good person? What a fucking joke!click to expand
Posted by dontgetmewrongIf the sag is that sexy then the gf ain't cheating.
He seems stuck. His gf probably coaxed him to working it out. She cheated on him, so ya he holds some animosity towards her. Don't put yourself in the situation where he.leaves his gf just to be with you.
Tell him to work out his situation with his gf, and if amd when the time is right, you may be available to try something real together..but you don't want to start your relationship out this way.
Posted by exoShe can't because she got that dick up in her now
a relationship that begins on lies will end on lies.
time to dash out.
Posted by capricornmoonYou get it
Did he answer his girl's call?
If that man answered the call of a woman who supposedly cheated on him twice while he was sexing you
Then let that sink in, like all the way in.
Plus he a Sagg, he told you his girl cheated to get sympathy and deceive you for sex.
Deception is the name of the game.
Posted by capricornmoonNo he didn't answer the phone. But I honestly think if it was just sex that he wanted, he had that, but he stopped. He chickened out. I think he's wanting more than that and doesn't know what to do because she was his first...and I completely understand that. I'm not asking him to leave her and he knows that, but I'm also not helping by giving in to him...
Did he answer his girl's call?
If that man answered the call of a woman who supposedly cheated on him twice while he was sexing you
Then let that sink in, like all the way in.
Plus he a Sagg, he told you his girl cheated to get sympathy and deceive you for sex.
Deception is the name of the game.
Posted by capricornmoonBut WE need to be more understanding? Right?Posted by crownedinbeautyBut he STOPPED. Whatever you do, don't fall in infatuation with this guy. He takes you as seriously as a pair of 98' Nike kicks.Posted by capricornmoonNo he didn't answer the phone. But I honestly think if it was just sex that he wanted, he had that, but he stopped. He chickened out. I think he's wanting more than that and doesn't know what to do because she was his first...and I completely understand that. I'm not asking him to leave her and he knows that, but I'm also not helping by giving in to him...
Did he answer his girl's call?
If that man answered the call of a woman who supposedly cheated on him twice while he was sexing you
Then let that sink in, like all the way in.
Plus he a Sagg, he told you his girl cheated to get sympathy and deceive you for sex.
Deception is the name of the game.click to expand
Posted by exoLooks like he did. Strange how the truth comes out.
crowned,
is this about the same sag? who tried so hard to break you down?
www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/sexually-attracted-to-a-sagittarius-male-but-is-he-trying-to-really-dominate-a-bull-5727812.asp
Posted by beautifuldiasterYou look real smart right now!
@crownedinbeauty,
You seem to be kind and good at heart. You may catch a lot of crap for this post but only because people want to help you and it will frustrate them.
1. If a man is involved with another, never allow yourself to get involved. If he is dishonest to his gf, he could be dishonest with you.
2. You are 28 and seem to be a little sheltered? I am asking, and I mean no harm. It is rare to find someone your age who is aa " virgin."
3. If you have been mad at him it was for a reason and I can only suspect you wanted more from him which is why you were mad. Why were you mad? Sex does not cure problems in a relationship. You gave him exactly what he wanted.
Can you go a little deeper with the details of your relationship?
You said he has a gf, how do you fit in to the picture? How did you know he is in a relationship? Did he tell you and then say she is a cheater? Why doesn't he leave her? All these questions I have.
Posted by HappygoluckyWhat truth exactly—? That he thinks he's so dominate but didn't at all prove that when had the chance to — And that he's sexually attracted to me but didn't actually go through with that either LOL —?Posted by exoLooks like he did. Strange how the truth comes out.
crowned,
is this about the same sag? who tried so hard to break you down?
www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/sexually-attracted-to-a-sagittarius-male-but-is-he-trying-to-really-dominate-a-bull-5727812.aspclick to expand
Posted by crownedinbeautyHe broke you down and put the dick up in you didn't he?Posted by HappygoluckyWhat truth exactly—? That he thinks he's so dominate but didn't at all prove that when had the chance to — And that he's sexually attracted to me but didn't actually go through with that either LOL —?Posted by exoLooks like he did. Strange how the truth comes out.
crowned,
is this about the same sag? who tried so hard to break you down?
www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/sexually-attracted-to-a-sagittarius-male-but-is-he-trying-to-really-dominate-a-bull-5727812.aspclick to expand
Posted by exoI could kiss you right now
lol, from the other thread:
Posted by crownedinbeauty
LMFAO!!!! And who the hell are you to judge me exactly—!!!! No one. And I'm supposed to value your worthless opinion?? LOL
Anyone who DOESN'T whore around and respects themselves, and who actually has STANDARDS/MORALS/GOALS for their life and just doesn't jump at the first person who is in my face CHOOSES not to have a boyfriend at 28 because their standards/morals/goals are more IMPORTANT than a man, being in several waste-of-a-time relationships, or getting knocked up, which could all possibly have the potential to make me lose focus of what I'm trying to obtain in my life which is having my own sense of financial security and being SELF-RELIANT.
Trust, it has NOTHING to do with me being "UNABLE" to get a boyfriend. It has EVERYTHING thing to do with me saying NO to a lot of guys because they DON'T meet my high-minded Taurus quota/conditions or I have no chemistry with them. I CHOOSE. I could stoop down and sleep with anyone I wanted. I get hit on by several men everyday of my life, but that's NOT what I want.
I CHOSE this Sag, and I PURSUED him for months which is why I'M getting what I want. How am I teasing him, when our feelings are both mutual and we're both playing the game like he so very much likes??
....He's the first guy that I've ever had Chemistry with, which is what I meant to begin with....I'm a Taurus, I get EVERYTHING I plan and want in every area of my life, which is how I got him to begin with.
Not having had a boyfriend DOESN'T mean that I don't have any life experience or doesn't mean that I'm not dominant, or a virgin or inexperienced, LMFAO. That alone makes you sound so ignorant and obviously you haven't learned anything in your senile, miserable, dependent 50 years.
END OF TOPIC on my end because everything that comes out of your mouth, to me, is worthless...
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Posted by exoYep. That's all you should be taking from this.
a relationship that begins on lies will end on lies.
time to dash out.
Posted by crownedinbeautyThen own it you cheating hooker. Quit complaining
AGAIN, you're proving nothing....I ALLOWED him to have sex with me. I CHOSE him because there are so many other guys who are constantly in my face, which he sees and asked me why I chose him and not a Virgo guy who literally asks me out everytime he sees me and I tell him no or a Libra guy that has flirted with me for two years.
LOL I know what I said...
Posted by Nevermore28 going on 17Posted by ashley1734That's the problem.. she's 28 years old..Posted by exoYep. That's all you should be taking from this.
a relationship that begins on lies will end on lies.
time to dash out.
If he cheated WITH you, chances are he will cheat ON you. End of story, gather your remaining integrity and peace the fuck out. When I read your post, I was sure you were 16 or 17, not because of the virginity thing, I have several friends in their late 20's who remain virgins...but because it doesn't seem you have learned the art of self-respect yet. We ALL get wrapped around some a-holes finger from time to time and forget our senses, but I refuse to believe you think you deserve to be treated like that by someone like that.
Nope. He is playing you and his chick.click to expand
Posted by exoI've been celibate the MAJORITY of my life and I gave into feelings/ emotion because I'm HUMAN with the first guy I allowed to do it with in my adulthood and you're trying to tell me that I don't have morals — LMFAO WHO THE HELL ARE YOU?!!! I didnt do the right thing ONCE in my life because I have always done the right thing and I'm being judge — That's HILARIOUSPosted by crownedinbeautyyou claim to be respectable and have "standards/morals/goals", but you allowed a taken dude to pipe you down.
AGAIN, you're proving nothing....I ALLOWED him to have sex with me. I CHOSE him because there are so many other guys who are constantly in my face, which he sees and asked me why I chose him and not a Virgo guy who literally asks me out everytime he sees me and I tell him no or a Libra guy that has flirted with me for two years.
LOL I know what I said...
you say you've pursued him for months and now you're getting what you want, but in reality you're settling as his side chick/whore.
*claps*click to expand
Posted by exoLOL AND I'm seriously supposed to listen to someone who says you don't claim to not have morals and than want to question my morality and you have NONE?? You're seriously a joke and you're truth is definately NOT mine. You're a straight up hypocrite. BYE Felicia.
the truth hurts. we are on the sag board after all. 😛
Posted by CuriousramIm being called a "victim" because I'm defending myself—Posted by tizianiI honestly don't get it at all. Fair enough you sleep with a taken man but to act like a victim over it.... jeezus.Posted by CuriousramBout sums up my view right here.
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Posted by exoI asked for advice from SAG MEN and the responses I've gotten are NOT from Sag men....but by judgmental women who are obviously getting gratification from trying to judge me when ya'll are NO where near from not being judged yourselves...that is the truth.Posted by crownedinbeautyyou asked for advice and you got it.
And did I also just not say that I was HUMAN and gave into feelings which contradict logic—??
I LOVE how everyone who has room to judge and throw stones at me are living perfect lives LOL but ya'll don't want to talk about that though....but I guess everyone on this board is superhumanclick to expand
Posted by beautifuldiaster6 pages ago you were singing a different tune. I call you delusional and you sing my praise? Delusional and fake. Own your own stupidityPosted by HappygoluckyIt sucks to be the bearer of bad news. Your more equipped for it than I.Posted by beautifuldiasterYep I was right. You are just as fucked up as she is. People get in the situations because they don't understand themselves. It's not about me understanding someone. It's about them understanding themselves and why they do the stupid shit they do. Validating someone and making them feel better about their piss poor choices in life is not helping anyone. You have issues just as bad as she does. You're fucking delusional.Posted by HappygoluckyI warned her of this.
So, you actively pursued a man that was in a committed relationship and fucked him? And you fucked him in his car? And you were upset because he stopped while his girlfriend was calling him? To me that's the lowest form of life on earth. A fucking cheater. And someone actually had the balls to tell you they thought you were a good person? What a fucking joke!
You mean well. I get your pov but I doubt it will benefit anything by being harsh. Come on. Despite the wisdom that life deals us we can all agree that sometimes people need someone to just listen.
Despite our warnings.
Despite our logic
People will do as they please.
I think the only way to reach another human is by understanding them which you are in no way trying to do.click to expand
Posted by HappygoluckyNo, sweetheart, it's not being fake or delusional. I just have NO respect for men who call women "Cheating hookers" or out of their name in general in spite of what they've done. Women--that's different to some degree, but men?? I don't think so... How the hell do you treat your mother or the woman who pathetically claims you?Posted by beautifuldiaster6 pages ago you were singing a different tune. I call you delusional and you sing my praise? Delusional and fake. Own your own stupidityPosted by HappygoluckyIt sucks to be the bearer of bad news. Your more equipped for it than I.Posted by beautifuldiasterYep I was right. You are just as fucked up as she is. People get in the situations because they don't understand themselves. It's not about me understanding someone. It's about them understanding themselves and why they do the stupid shit they do. Validating someone and making them feel better about their piss poor choices in life is not helping anyone. You have issues just as bad as she does. You're fucking delusional.Posted by HappygoluckyI warned her of this.
So, you actively pursued a man that was in a committed relationship and fucked him? And you fucked him in his car? And you were upset because he stopped while his girlfriend was calling him? To me that's the lowest form of life on earth. A fucking cheater. And someone actually had the balls to tell you they thought you were a good person? What a fucking joke!
You mean well. I get your pov but I doubt it will benefit anything by being harsh. Come on. Despite the wisdom that life deals us we can all agree that sometimes people need someone to just listen.
Despite our warnings.
Despite our logic
People will do as they please.
I think the only way to reach another human is by understanding them which you are in no way trying to do.click to expand
Posted by beautifuldiasterAMEN!!!Posted by Sage50I think she knew it would happen.
You should have known you were going to get judged. Why bring something up when you don't be be criticized.
Sometimes we want to be slapped to get us out of our fantasy.
It's a fair assessment to say that being cruel and harsh is unreasonable. Do you agree?click to expand
Posted by beautifuldiasterSOMEONE who actually has some intelligence!!!!Posted by Sage50I think she knew it would happen.
You should have known you were going to get judged. Why bring something up when you don't be be criticized.
Sometimes we want to be slapped to get us out of our fantasy.
It's a fair assessment to say that being cruel and harsh is unreasonable. Do you agree?click to expand
Posted by beautifuldiasterMost def! You're a Sag, and obviously one of my weaknesses, lol. Everyone in my life is a Sag right now, with the exception of my Scorpio friend. Can't be mad at you! 🙂Posted by crownedinbeautyKeyboard warriors.Posted by beautifuldiasterAMEN!!!Posted by Sage50I think she knew it would happen.
You should have known you were going to get judged. Why bring something up when you don't be be criticized.
Sometimes we want to be slapped to get us out of our fantasy.
It's a fair assessment to say that being cruel and harsh is unreasonable. Do you agree?
I used to be one too with my uppity views and all.
We shake it off, yeah? 🙂click to expand
Posted by beautifuldiasterI'm being sarcastic...I'm with you on this one. It's just a shame to see so many women who I'm sure have been disappointed in love and made their fair share of mistakes jump on another woman like their puritans. It's sickening actually.Posted by MsTeeq1974Awe.
I'll come back when there's yet another 5 pages filled with judgments and insults. smh
She already has been put down enough.
Where is the logic?
The compassion?click to expand
Posted by Vixen2...and it was half assed fuck at that. Dude didn't even finish!
Ya know, I was envisioning a tween while reading this saga and then I got to the 28 yr. old part...
What the hell planet are you living on?
I mean in one sentence you say you didn't have sex or alcohol until you were 28 ...due to your MORALS
Then the next yoy fucking him in his car while knowing he had a girlfriend.
Are you kidding me—
Let's just call a spade a spade here...
Posted by exoNothing to wipe off, he didn't finish.Posted by crownedinbeautyi've never fucked a taken man. and you did it knowingly.Posted by exoLOL AND I'm seriously supposed to listen to someone who says you don't claim to not have morals and than want to question my morality and you have NONE?? You're seriously a joke and you're truth is definately NOT mine. You're a straight up hypocrite. BYE Felicia.
the truth hurts. we are on the sag board after all. 😛
wipe that jizz off your halo, girl.click to expand
Posted by crownedinbeautyMy mother did not cheat on my father so therefore no need to call her a cheating hooker. My mother has morals and honor. She was a LADY and an actual WOMAN. You are nothing but a cheating hooker with zero self respect and no morals. The name fits you perfectly.Posted by HappygoluckyNo, sweetheart, it's not being fake or delusional. I just have NO respect for men who call women "Cheating hookers" or out of their name in general in spite of what they've done. Women--that's different to some degree, but men?? I don't think so... How the hell do you treat your mother or the woman who pathetically claims you?Posted by beautifuldiaster6 pages ago you were singing a different tune. I call you delusional and you sing my praise? Delusional and fake. Own your own stupidityPosted by HappygoluckyIt sucks to be the bearer of bad news. Your more equipped for it than I.Posted by beautifuldiasterYep I was right. You are just as fucked up as she is. People get in the situations because they don't understand themselves. It's not about me understanding someone. It's about them understanding themselves and why they do the stupid shit they do. Validating someone and making them feel better about their piss poor choices in life is not helping anyone. You have issues just as bad as she does. You're fucking delusional.Posted by HappygoluckyI warned her of this.
So, you actively pursued a man that was in a committed relationship and fucked him? And you fucked him in his car? And you were upset because he stopped while his girlfriend was calling him? To me that's the lowest form of life on earth. A fucking cheater. And someone actually had the balls to tell you they thought you were a good person? What a fucking joke!
You mean well. I get your pov but I doubt it will benefit anything by being harsh. Come on. Despite the wisdom that life deals us we can all agree that sometimes people need someone to just listen.
Despite our warnings.
Despite our logic
People will do as they please.
I think the only way to reach another human is by understanding them which you are in no way trying to do.click to expand
Posted by crownedinbeautyIt sounds like you're making progress. I've never been in a situation like this, but common sense tells me he doesn't respect his whore girlfriend, and that you could take her place. It's gotta be an emotional journey for him, and I guess you've sorted out his controlling ways... All's well that ends well
Ugghhh you SAG GUYS!!!
Soooo AFTER having being sexually frustrated with this Sag, who we've been flirting back and forth with for months...we FINALLY did it last night in his car, but not completely because he stopped right in the middle of it! I nearly died!!!!
Taurus's are seriously no doubt sensual, because I was ALL caught up in the moment, LOL I seriously thought I wasn't a virgin because I was with someone in that way in my teens, but he obviously didn't break anything and this Sag must have because it hurt and I bled so bad afterwards (and it was unprotected :/).
The thing is...he has a GF, who has cheated on him more than once, and she was calling right in the middle, which was partially he stopped.
I have been mad at him for the past 3 weeks, which I told him because I thought he had been acting indifferent with me since the last time we had almost done it.
He took us not doing it the first time as it not being meant to be, but I told him that wasn't true.
He asked me if I thought he was pressuring me and I said no, but I also asked him was he trying to work things out with his girlfriend, and he said he was, but kissed me right after and one thing led to another...I'm SO confused??
He already admitted that I was the kind of girl he wanted and he even thought he stopped he said that he wasn't going to lie, that it had felt really good.
Even though he told me that he couldn't he did, and I know it'll end up happening again next week.
Not only do I think that I just gave him my virginity, which that is surprising in itself, LOL, I really, really like him and the sex we had was really emotional, which I think partly scared him because he's only been with his GF in that way.
SAG men why do you have to have it all? All why am I falling for one of you??!!!
Posted by MsTeeq1974*they're puritans.Posted by beautifuldiasterI'm being sarcastic...I'm with you on this one. It's just a shame to see so many women who I'm sure have been disappointed in love and made their fair share of mistakes jump on another woman like their puritans. It's sickening actually.Posted by MsTeeq1974Awe.
I'll come back when there's yet another 5 pages filled with judgments and insults. smh
She already has been put down enough.
Where is the logic?
The compassion?click to expand
Posted by capricornmoonThe op. Just straight up stupidity.Posted by HappygoluckyHow so? From the op or the comments?
This whole thread is hypocrisy.click to expand
Posted by HappygoluckyAND WHO ARE YOU EXACTLY—!!!! And stop posting because I honestly DO NOT CARE WHAT YOU THINK.....Posted by capricornmoonThe op. Just straight up stupidity.Posted by HappygoluckyHow so? From the op or the comments?
This whole thread is hypocrisy.click to expand
Posted by crownedinbeautyI'm happygolucky. I post where I wanna post. You might wanna take some solid advice. Just a thoughtPosted by HappygoluckyAND WHO ARE YOU EXACTLY—!!!! And stop posting because I honestly DO NOT CARE WHAT YOU THINK.....Posted by capricornmoonThe op. Just straight up stupidity.Posted by HappygoluckyHow so? From the op or the comments?
This whole thread is hypocrisy.click to expand
Posted by crownedinbeautyYou're the idiot getting pumped and dumped. Not me. This is funny as fuck.
EXACTLY, NO ONE....and SOLID—!!! LMFAOOOOOOO
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