@thefierybull
11 YearsTaurus
What's Up with This Sag Man?
Sagittarius Men Often Flirt to Boost Their Ego
Sagittarius men tend to be flirtatious and enjoy attention, which can sometimes be mistaken for romantic interest. Their behavior may include teasing, showing off, and seeking validation. This does not always mean they want a serious relationship; they often value fun and excitement. Understanding their need for independence and adventure can help clarify their intentions.
He has a big mouth and spills the beans where he need not.
Classic trait.
Big Flirt Classic trait..
Some signs just cant handle sags plain and simple.
Sag men are assholes. They are just little kids. The one I know is 51 and plays these stupid.games. they'll never change. I dated him for 10 years and we broke up. He came back and its the same shit however now he does his flirting dirt online. And is addicted to jerking off and porn. He cant even be with a real woman. I.blocked him because hes a waste of my time. Do.yourself a favor and run.
Posted by bnr7013
They say sag men are different from us sag women...idk...but here's my 2 cents:We don't try to make ppl jealous - ever. We also never really get jealous ourselves...we stay in our lane.
The poster above said it best ...we don't intentionally flirt & you can always expect the truth. Everyone thinks we're big flirts but we are just friendly SOB's. He's probably being truthful about wanting to spend quality time ...we like to genuinely get to know ppl we are interested in.
Good to know. I LOVE people who are blunt, and I love his honesty. I'm pretty blunt myself (Virgo rising), and I hate when people sugar coat stuff. Thanks for the input.
Idk why but, this post gives me good vibes.
Enjoy yourself with him. You sound like u have your head on straight.
You guys could become good friends.
Posted by bnr7013
They say sag men are different from us sag women...idk...but here's my 2 cents:We don't try to make ppl jealous - ever. We also never really get jealous ourselves...we stay in our lane.
The poster above said it best ...we don't intentionally flirt & you can always expect the truth. Everyone thinks we're big flirts but we are just friendly SOB's. He's probably being truthful about wanting to spend quality time ...we like to genuinely get to know ppl we are interested in.
Lol the one I.know is a serious game player he is jealous and likes to.make other jealous maybe his pisces moon makes him a douchebag
Posted by bnr7013
They say sag men are different from us sag women...idk...but here's my 2 cents:We don't try to make ppl jealous - ever. We also never really get jealous ourselves...we stay in our lane.
The poster above said it best ...we don't intentionally flirt & you can always expect the truth. Everyone thinks we're big flirts but we are just friendly SOB's. He's probably being truthful about wanting to spend quality time ...we like to genuinely get to know ppl we are interested in.
Lol the one I.know is a serious game player he is jealous and likes to.make other jealous maybe his pisces moon makes him a douchebag
The one I knew was 52 , Taurus moon!! But this Taurus taught him NEVER mess with a bull.. You WILL get the horns!
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Yep, they are worthless. Probably still be playing their games when their old and in a rest home. i need a real man. dont have time for the BS.
Posted by thefierybull
Is he saying this to get a reaction out of me, or does he just want to boost his ego?
It seems like he was saying that to let you know that he preferred you over all those other women you mentioned.
Kind of awkward and charming at the same time. And confusing, lol
Posted by dontgetmewrong
Some signs just don't get us..it's probably better that way. Cuts out the bs.
Agreed.
They dont get us but theyre still carrying a torch for us.
Posted by thefierybull
I feel like this Sag man I'm crushing on is trying to make me jealous. I don't really know much about Sag men, and I don't know if this is something they do intentionally. When I went to his house to "chill", he kept talking about how all these girls practically throw themselves at him, and how a lot of girls like him. I believe it, because I know most of the girls he's talking about, and that's how they are. I also have 3 friends who like him, and want to hook up with him so bad, but he won't do it because he's annoyed with them.He said he hates when girls get jealous, and try to control him, and when they try too hard to hook up with him. I'm the complete opposite, when I like a guy I don't show it. I have a "poker face". I'll give a hint here or there, but it's very very subtle. When we're at parties, I distance myself from him so I don't make it obvious, but he always tries to sit or stand next to me even if we're not talking. I always catch him staring at me, and he gets very touchy-feely (not inappropriately). When I went to his house, we watched a movie, and all he wanted to do was cuddle at first (I hinted that I wasn't there to just cuddle lol), and wanted me to sleep over after we hooked up. When we woke up and did it again he wouldn't let me leave after. He wanted me to stay and spend "quality time" with him lol. He's also a big flirt so Idk.
What's the deal? Is he saying this to get a reaction out of me, or does he just want to boost his ego? Is this what Sag's do? Does he like me or does he just wanna be FWB's? I'm fine with FWB as I just got out of a relationship.
His placements are Sag sun, Venus Scorp, Moon Aqua, Mars Aries, Sag Mercury. Mine are Taurus sun (aries cusp), Venus Gem, Moon and Mars Cancer, Aries Mercury.
I'm new here, and a Sagittarius male, and I used to get that way. You mentioned parties, so maybe you are in high school or college? That's when I used to do that, but I'm now 27 and it's been a while since I've had that attitude. He doesn't like feeling like girls are hitting on him, but he likes his ego stroked. He wants you to know he's wanted because it makes him feel confident, and makes you feel jealous or proud lol. It never went over well for me.
I think you are stuck at FWB, and spending "quality time" isn't anything romantic; fuck buddies are still buddies! B
But the Tauruses I have been involved with have taken time to develop, so maybe there is history between you.
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Yeah.
When he brings up other women do you laugh or give advice? Or ignore?
I'll bring up other men to get a better perspective of how to handle them. I like a male perspective on it so perhaps he is doing the same. I wouldn't bring it up with just
I just laugh it off and say "well if you had the chance why didn't you hook up with her?" or "if you thought she was cute you should've talked to her". Probably not the best things to say lol but I can't help it. It's my "poker face". I don't like to come off as jealous or needy like the other girls, so I act very detached. Plus I want to see why he doesn't want to mess around with them, and I get my answers.
Posted by DMV
Idk why but, this post gives me good vibes.Enjoy yourself with him. You sound like u have your head on straight.
You guys could become good friends.
Nice to hear someone has good vibes 🙂 I definitely hope we can become good friends.
I'm new here, and a Sagittarius male, and I used to get that way. You mentioned parties, so maybe you are in high school or college? That's when I used to do that, but I'm now 27 and it's been a while since I've had that attitude. He doesn't like feeling like girls are hitting on him, but he likes his ego stroked. He wants you to know he's wanted because it makes him feel confident, and makes you feel jealous or proud lol. It never went over well for me.
I think you are stuck at FWB, and spending "quality time" isn't anything romantic; fuck buddies are still buddies! B
Lol we're actually both in our mid 20's, it was more of a calm "get together" rather than a "party" lol 😛 interesting... like I said I'm fine with fwb, I'm honestly just curious. I like to analyze how each sign acts, and I've never really messed around or dated a Sag, so I was just interested to know what he's thinking. Thanks for your input 🙂
Posted by TheShire
But the Tauruses I have been involved with have taken time to develop, so maybe there is history between you.
Oh, and no history between us. I do take a lot of time to develop and let someone know how I feel, but only if I'm looking for something serious. I'm just having fun, and I don't really want to be in a serious relationship with him. I just got out of a relationship. I know what I'm getting myself into, and I'm not hurt by it or anything like that lol
Posted by busyeyes88
You had sex with him! You are just an FWB like all the other harems on HIS list! Welcome to his club! You are now a qualified member. You got the sex and happy with an FWB so why the extra questions? Sags love having their egos boosted by man women!! Taurus and sag so not make good Long term relationships and long as it just sex and you do not want anything else, then sag is the perfect guy to sex and then throw out the next morning with the rubbish!!! Lol
Is it wrong to just ask questions simply because you're trying to analyze a sign, and how they act? I clearly stated that I am fine with FWB's. I'm not trying to get into another relationship, because I haven't moved on from my ex.
So I just found out from a good friend of mine that she hooked up with him the night after I did. No one knew about us, because I don't like to put my business out there but I had to tell her, just because I feel like I'm a shitty friend if I don't. I'm really not mad or anything, no feelings hurt, just a bit grossed out, and I feel bad for telling, and because my friend likes him. He's an asshole for that. A cool person to hang out with, but he's a manwhore lol.
Posted by thefierybull
So I just found out from a good friend of mine that she hooked up with him the night after I did. No one knew about us, because I don't like to put my business out there but I had to tell her, just because I feel like I'm a shitty friend if I don't. I'm really not mad or anything, no feelings hurt, just a bit grossed out, and I feel bad for telling, and because my friend likes him. He's an asshole for that. A cool person to hang out with, but he's a manwhore lol.
Jesus take the wheel
Posted by busyeyes88
You had sex with him! You are just an FWB like all the other harems on HIS list! Welcome to his club! You are now a qualified member. You got the sex and happy with an FWB so why the extra questions? Sags love having their egos boosted by man women!! Taurus and sag so not make good Long term relationships and long as it just sex and you do not want anything else, then sag is the perfect guy to sex and then throw out the next morning with the rubbish!!! LolIs it wrong to just ask questions simply because you're trying to analyze a sign, and how they act? I clearly stated that I am fine with FWB's. I'm not trying to get into another relationship, because I haven't moved on from my ex.
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Ummm. Re read this. Youve clearly stated that you are fine with a FWB but now youre grossed out because he is actually having benefits with other friends.
Seen this a mile away.... the back peddling not the double dipping.
Posted by busyeyes88
You had sex with him! You are just an FWB like all the other harems on HIS list! Welcome to his club! You are now a qualified member. You got the sex and happy with an FWB so why the extra questions? Sags love having their egos boosted by man women!! Taurus and sag so not make good Long term relationships and long as it just sex and you do not want anything else, then sag is the perfect guy to sex and then throw out the next morning with the rubbish!!! LolIs it wrong to just ask questions simply because you're trying to analyze a sign, and how they act? I clearly stated that I am fine with FWB's. I'm not trying to get into another relationship, because I haven't moved on from my ex.
Ummm. Re read this. Youve clearly stated that you are fine with a FWB but now youre grossed out because he is actually having benefits with other friends.
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I'm more grossed out that he practically had sex with her right after me... I don't care that they hooked up, now that I think about it, it was practically on the same day lol. I was with him at like 5 am, and he was with her around 10 pm. If he at least waited a day then whatever lol
yawn
ohh... then tell him how many men that instantly fall for your grace. Show him that you are valuable girl. Make him realize that he is lucky to be with you. Tell him that he just one in a million. And if he is not treat you good, you can let him go easily.
Oh, great, one more Taurus. First busyeyes88, now you. Don't you get it, it's not a good combination, ofc that you will not understand. Go with some Virgo or Capricorn, and leave Sagi alone. 😄
Taurus are boring for a Sag, that's the whole truth. 😄
Posted by selin1
ohh... then tell him how many men that instantly fall for your grace. Show him that you are valuable girl. Make him realize that he is lucky to be with you. Tell him that he just one in a million. And if he is not treat you good, you can let him go easily.
Fucking one of his friends might set the tone.
Glad I read the whole thread before I posted my two cents.
If he knew the girl was a friend of yours, “FWB” or not, that shit is just gross. I’d forget him in a heartbeat, that’s ultimate disrespect in general. Fuck who you want but stay clear my friends or inner circle, or I will ice you out forever.
If he didn’t know…I’m almost certain I wouldn’t go there with him again regardless. I’d be cool with him when I see him, but he’s a little too loose for my taste, plus he’s got a case of diarrhea of the mouth in terms of who he’s bedding, when, and why. That means he needs to grow up. If you don’t like your business out in the streets then close your legs on him, because if he runs his mouth about other women he’ll run his mouth about you too.
Posted by selin1
ohh... then tell him how many men that instantly fall for your grace. Show him that you are valuable girl. Make him realize that he is lucky to be with you. Tell him that he just one in a million. And if he is not treat you good, you can let him go easily.Fucking one of his friends might set the tone.
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lol. I believe Shire is joking. Dont do this. It's one thing to get your swerve on here and there, but dont be a hoe about it.
Posted by selin1
ohh... then tell him how many men that instantly fall for your grace. Show him that you are valuable girl. Make him realize that he is lucky to be with you. Tell him that he just one in a million. And if he is not treat you good, you can let him go easily.Fucking one of his friends might set the tone.
lol. I believe Shire is joking. Dont do this. It's one thing to get your swerve on here and there, but don't be a hoe about it.
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I'm not joking. Fucking one of his friends could be a beautiful thing if the circumstances are right.
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I feel like this Sag man I'm crushing on is trying to make me jealous. I don't really know much about Sag men, and I don't know if this is something they do intentionally. When I went to his house to "chill", he kept talking about how all these girls practically throw themselves at him, and how a lot of girls like him. I believe it, because I know most of the girls he's talking about, and that's how they are. I also have 3 friends who like him, and want to hook up with him so bad, but he won't do it because he's annoyed with them.
He said he hates when girls get jealous, and try to control him, and when they try too hard to hook up with him. I'm the complete opposite, when I like a guy I don't show it. I have a "poker face". I'll give a hint here or there, but it's very very subtle. When we're at parties, I distance myself from him so I don't make it obvious, but he always tries to sit or stand next to me even if we're not talking. I always catch him staring at me, and he gets very touchy-feely (not inappropriately). When I went to his house, we watched a movie, and all he wanted to do was cuddle at first (I hinted that I wasn't there to just cuddle lol), and wanted me to sleep over after we hooked up. When we woke up and did it again he wouldn't let me leave after. He wanted me to stay and spend "quality time" with him lol. He's also a big flirt so Idk.
What's the deal? Is he saying this to get a reaction out of me, or does he just want to boost his ego? Is this what Sag's do? Does he like me or does he just wanna be FWB's? I'm fine with FWB as I just got out of a relationship.
His placements are Sag sun, Venus Scorp, Moon Aqua, Mars Aries, Sag Mercury. Mine are Taurus sun (aries cusp), Venus Gem, Moon and Mars Cancer, Aries Mercury.