Revenge sag sun Venus scorpio

Hey guys, may remember my situation with my ex sag, anyway things have moved on and ive started dating and she is now having an affair with a married man who has kids in the same class as our oldest son, I found this out by mistake and since then she has gone in to full on hate against me, sometimes she will soften when she needs something but mostly hate, but yesterday she took it to another level.

She told me I couldn't have the Middle child last night but could have the youngest, (middle and oldest are step kids) so I said why not, she said I have no room at mine?! Ok I kept calm and said I'll take them to my sisters for the night, she then said no because the biological father would be uncomfortable with it!!!! I've brought these up for the last 6 years and we have a massive bond, she lets me see them whenever, in fact I get on so well with their dad he uses me to organise access with her becaus she is so evasive with him! She calls him cock features and has never cared what he thinks, so load of bullshit.

She then tells her mother I called her a cunt! Which we mother asked me about this morning! I said I would never do that, I said that your daughter calls me this on a regular basis and I pointed out to her on text that I was fed up of her calling me this!

I know she has Venus in scorpio and this unleashes hell on me but when will it end! It seems like a turn on for her to beat me up!!
I've started dating lately and she found out and at first she reeled me in being flirty then she lost it!!

I think she still loves me and wants to make me pay for ruining her perfect life, it's a massive revenge trip!
I think something else happened in her life yesterday so she took it out on me and unleashed hell.

Any sag with Venus in scorpio give me an idea when this hell will end, crazy thing is I still love the nutter, she is an awesome woman normally!!

The main thing is, that the kids remain unaffected thank god.

Cheers

Yeah you know her ex is a Taurus and I remember thinking at the time that they kept banging heads all the time not one of them stepped back!
She is really bad at accepting responsibility for things, she reminds me often "you caused this" I get that often with "this was your choice" but I have to say I have never seen her like this before, I have done everything to make this transition as soft as can be for the kids, this included me pretending I still lived with them for 6months, I was there in the morning before they woke and tucked them in at night, all because she didn't want to tell the kids, it absolutely fucked my head up though, I feel like a little ball being played around with by a cat!!

Anyway raindancer I think your spot on, the way she has handled the split and behaved since is just not her, I just put it down to rebelling but I think she may have put some pressure on this married guy for commitment and he said no, he is a Leo by the way, this would have damaged her pride and made her realise she is being used by him, hence she reverts to the easy target which is me!
I will be there for the kids and I guess there is nothing more I can do for her now, it's down to her to accept some things and hopefully get back to the beautiful sag she can be.

Posted by Impulsv
Seems like she's always been a piece at work. Never civil with ex n now u. This is how she has been n is.

Yeah she seems to have issues with her ex's, i tried to learn from how she handled her ex but she basically throws as much shit whether it's right or wrong and hope some of it sticks, I used to joke with her that she was like a firework going off in arguments, few seconds of colourful banging and whistles and it's over! No repeat, no replay just 1 firework!

Posted by Impulsv
Is it like she has to find a man fast to take care off her n all her plans are not working , Leo said no, u didn't fall for her flirting n now she's angry?

We'll sort of, I've been quite open to us getting back together so she sees that as too easy and has gone for the hard to get!
She is trying to find someone fast because she needs a man in her life but she is realising maybe that we were that perfect and she can't find that spark snd connection we had?

Then she shouts at me for putting her in this position

Look, it will stop once you let her go, 100% .

Posted by Stryker77
I know she has Venus in scorpio and this unleashes hell on me but when will it end!

lol

Posted by DMV
Look, it will stop once you let her go, 100% .

Not that easy, believe me DMV, I have tried to let go and once I get somewhere, she gets the fishing rod out and hauls me in again, for example I start dating Aries, I'm enjoying Aries then Sag finds out, all of a sudden i'm getting texts from her, flirty ones, sending me video clips of herself watching our favourite film!?! i mean wtf! suck me right in so she is back in control again, being nice, spending time with me and the kids, This is what she does and because she knows I love her she has this control, I hate it, I hate the fact she can control me like this, But there is a bigger issue here and I truly believe her upbringing (domestic abuse) has had a massive affect on her, she refuses to talk openly about her past, she told me some snippets but it was always brushed under the table, this is how she deals with negativity, brush it away and move on but clearly she cant move on and years of brushing things aside have now caught up with her, she takes it out on me because i'm the easy target.

So what if she reels you in! Stick to your guns. Its the only way out off the merrygoround.

Go read all the scorp man wont let me go threads. Women cant seem to make a decision because they are weak and the scorp pulls them back in.

are you not exhausted? Or do you like the merrygoround?

Posted by DMV
So what if she reels you in! Stick to your guns. Its the only way out off the merrygoround.

Go read all the scorp man wont let me go threads. Women cant seem to make a decision because they are weak and the scorp pulls them back in.

are you not exhausted? Or do you like the merrygoround?

Thanks DMV, yes I am tired, I'm confused too, it's so hard when my 3 babies are so close to me, she knows that too and it's used against me, I'm tired of being there for her, if we didn't have kids I would have moved away, then maybe we would be having a different conversation.

I will read the scorpio board as I guess she is very much ruled by this sign, thanks

If these are your biological kids, go to court, get a court order and keep it about the kids.

Sounds like the same advice I gave you. You need to let all hopes of getting back together go for good. It may happen later inlife, but no time soon. She needs help/therapy badly to get over and face her past.

It pains me to see you going through this. You are too good of a man. Go enjoy your life! Tell the Aries that you are ready and allow her to adore you. If not, I'll kick your ass! (sweet face) lol