Good afternoon everyone, I am a pisce and have been communication with a sag man for a minute. This past year we recently just been during more things with each other. He state we are friends to the end. I explained to him that I'm looking for a relationship. However to make the long story short he claims he's scared of a relationship right now. I came out and told him how I felt about him and what I was looking for again. It has been one day and I haven't heard from him yet. Basically I told him that I'm a woman of potential and deserve the best and want the best. I don't know if I was too open for him. At this point I decided not to chase him any longer or hang out. Please advise anyone.......
he cannot give you what you want... his way of telling you that is by saying he's afraid... I think you're doing the right by leaving him alone... we can't really change
I don't think you were too open with how you feel .. you were just too inconsiderate of him in telling him, after he conveyed to you his fear.
It's like ... he told you this, and you just told him anyway with an expectation that he should do something about it.
That's being pretty self-centered on your part.
Perhaps, you do think of yourself as quality, however, I would beg to differ if you would present to a man who just told you about his fears at this moment ..... the exact fear with intentions of him having a reaction to satisfy this for you.
^^^ If not the case, then why would you wonder why he hasn't contacted you? You might say that you didn't tell him this with an expectation of a reaction out of him, but, that would be a lie ... because you actually expressed how time has gone by after you told him this and he hasn't contacted you.
My suggestion to you would be to actually do a self-search .. quality, as it's deserving, isn't something that is self-proclaimed for it to be of value to anybody except yourself. And since you are looking for it to be of value to another person .... then self-awareness regarding your ego needs to be a priority if you are going to obtain a person who will regard you highly.
I am a pisces chick who has recently started up with a Sag and I must say I'm loving it. I am in a place where I need it to be unrestricted. No titles, no games, just very laid back. And that's exactly what it is. And the constant logical and analytical nature is quite intriguing as well.
(The only problem with this science-minded man....doesn't believe in anything out of the known world-----very cute to a pisces 🙂 )
"Friends till the end?" Oh yeah, there is your answer right there. That's all he sees you as. I think it's because he's afraid of a relationship. And if he's afraid of a relationship, I wouldn't try. Sag's are huge players🙂 And if they are in something that's not the stable that's laid back that's when they cheat like no tomorrow. They don't give a fuck. I always laugh at people who think if they go lacks like a sag it'll win them over. It doesn't. We'll see you as a doormat and walk all over you. The people who have the best chance of getting anything from a sag or the one's who lay down the line for them. Than they want to rise to the occision ya see? And feel cared about, cause you care about yourself. Yeah, if he wasn't so scared I bet he'd go for it.
"I came out and told him how I felt about him and what I was looking for again. It has been one day and I haven't heard from him yet"
He may not be talking to you cause he may be offended that you were trying to get more for him than he was offering. Sags can get scared and offended when you try to turn a friendship into something romantic cause they really value friendships. And not so much relationships. I'd go find someone else, who you desevere cause it's not likely a sag will be able to give it to a pisces😢 He'll always be your friend tho! Just give him sometime.
Sag89 - I think you hit the nail on the head. I think Sag people don't like to hurt other people's feelings and the most polite thing they can do is vanish.
It is true ....they will always remain friends. I am torn with the whole fish / archer connection. It is amazing......but at the end of the day I think the fish needs something more steady, but no one can deny the connection of intellectual, spiritual, and almost magical bond. This is the way I approach all archer male relations ....friendship only and nothing more. I tuck that damn heart away closely .....because the vanishing act hurts too much.
hmmmm Ash I am pretty firm with my observation with Sag's .......they just leave ....poof no warning. I am convinced this is not a good match whatsoever. Sag's make great friends .....and nothing more. They see a little too eratic for the fish.
J - Not sure if I want to ride my bicycle all the way to Texas. Not one of my favorite destinations. Money is tight these days and if I am doing traveling it is somewhere I really want to go. If you were in NYC, Seattle, San Francisco, Boston, or some place on the coast ....than maybe. Texas ....not so much. 🙂 Don't get me wrong Austin is okay, but if I have to spend hard earned money it is some place where I can breath in life of place that is fills my senses. Have fun riding in your tri ....sounds like you are doing quiet fine on your own. 😉
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I am a pisce and have been communication with a sag man for a minute. This past year we recently just been during more things with each other. He state we are friends to the end. I explained to him that I'm looking for a relationship. However to make the long story short he claims he's scared of a relationship right now. I came out and told him how I felt about him and what I was looking for again. It has been one day and I haven't heard from him yet. Basically I told him that I'm a woman of potential and deserve the best and want the best. I don't know if I was too open for him. At this point I decided not to chase him any longer or hang out. Please advise anyone.......