Sag with Venus in Scorpio in love?

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I don't know too many Venus-Scorpios who

would put up with 1/10th of what you do.



I don't know either...I would have bailed long ago 😛

I'm a Scorpio Venus as well and I can relate more with jru2's experiences...such as there always seems to be a 3rd party in the relationship getting in the way.



Do explain the 3rd party getting in the way?

If you don't mind.
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Seems like he always has an ex he's carping about, or another love interest who takes precedence over me or he's trying to get with. I found out my last serious boyfriend(Cancer) was still screwing his ex-wife. I drove/stalked to her house at 3AM a few times and saw his truck there.
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How do I feel in relationships.


mmm weird. It's really about an emotional thrill ride with extremes rather than some tranquil hollywood romance story



How do you act when you like/love someone??



fickle. Its like Ill want to be inside my girl for 4 days straight and then not want to see her for a week because when someone starts calling me a lot I get very angry to the point I lose respect totally for the person so I need to stay away for a bit and then I get this nostalgia bug and come back lol. Thats the cycle.
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thats totally my cycle. could it be the cancer desire to "miss" someone?
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Some are guilty of putting on that old familiar sweater

of an ex, long after they've established something with

another party.



Yeah 🙂

I didn't handle it very well, and we tried to work it out. He tried hard too, but I was so angry and resentful and I would just lay some sarcastic shit on him that I knew hurt him. I wish I could take some of it back, but well, too late now.

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My ex-girlfriend and mother of our son is a Sag with Venus in Scorpio. As this is the only major relationship I have had I may be judging her harshly (as no other major relationship to compare her with) but I would say that she is basically a selfish person (more than average) though her Moon square Saturn may be a major player in this. She is a taker rather than a giver: I don't mean that she (or anybody else) should be a complete giver (martyr) but I am just talking about being fair-minded. I think her basic attitude is just "this is who/what I am, so take it or leave it", which is not a way ahead in relationships. Because of this it has always seemed to be me who has had to make concessions/be patient and understanding/etc. and it basically sucks.
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Ligeia - pretty spot much on for me aswell. It would take a very long time for me to get to know that person to decide whether he's potentially long term or just a friend. Haha
"Mr and mrs smith"!!!! Lmaoooo that is soooo true. Dont go there... Haha

Sutekh "fickle. Its like Ill want to be inside my girl for 4 days straight and then not want to see her for a week because when someone starts calling me a lot I get very angry to the point I lose respect totally for the person so I need to stay away for a bit and then I get this nostalgia bug and come back lol. Thats the cycle"
I have always had that problem, cant have them in my face or buzzing around me constantly, i need my breathing space and time to myself, alot of that..
Ligeia - sometimes it doesnt take living with a person to feel like you're wrapped in that person's company. I think, well for me, that time apart is good for my relationship, otherwise i'd feel like im suffocating or "oh god this is so repetitive"
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Oh i totally forgot to ask!
How's a venus in scorp jealous shown or handled?

As a sun sag myself, i hide my jealousy, then i become curious and ask about them, ask him to tell me about her, but then when he doesnt........ugh i hate that feeling of not knowing!
Sometimes i would say to him "she likes you, suits you" im telling the truth aswell, because i dont like to hold onto him (possessively) ive always seen that for him, its an opportunity so i let it be known to him. In a way reminding him, you dont have to stay if you dont want to. Sigh just cant budge this guy hahaha xD
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Oh i totally forgot to ask!
How's a venus in scorp jealous shown or handled?

As a sun sag myself, i hide my jealousy, then i become curious and ask about them, ask him to tell me about her, but then when he doesnt........ugh i hate that feeling of not knowing!
Sometimes i would say to him "she likes you, suits you" im telling the truth aswell, because i dont like to hold onto him (possessively) ive always seen that for him, its an opportunity so i let it be known to him. In a way reminding him, you dont have to stay if you dont want to. Sigh just cant budge this guy hahaha xD



What's your Moon? If you don't mind my asking.
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Posted by MzSag
Evelyn Lozada has a Scorpio Venus?!That makes sooo much sense!

I knew there was some Scorpio somewhere in the mix, but I figured she had Scorpio rising... maybe she has some strong Mars & Pluto action.

Totally explains her possessiveness, and ride or die (friendship wise) mentality.

Now she and Jen'll never be friends. 😢



yeah she does have intimidating features.