Should i be worried.....

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GalacticFun89
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I guess you can say im fwb with a taurus guy...we never said it to each other, but automatically that's what i wanted cuz im still not over my first taurus guy. This is my first fwb situation. But according to one of my guy friends, he says that me and taurus guy have been crossing over the lines. I never thought about it until then, and now im confused. lol. So heres whats going on so far with us.
We text eachother, or call eachother everyday. No matter what time it is.
We've talked about everything, from kids to relationships, to movies, to food or our jobs.
He's asked me a few times already about my parents, but i just assume that he just asks a lot of questions.
I sleep over his place, even when he has work cuz he doesn't seem to mind. Well, he tells me 'i hope u don't mind that ur staying over tonight..ok great!' lol.
We play fight with each other a lot.
He gave me a food nickname that matches my name.
He stares at me ALL the time. I feel awkward cuz its those long stares sometimes.
We've hung out outside of his place, like we'll go to the grocery store, to his favorite place to eat, etc. One time i told him i was going out to the club with my friend on valentines day and just asked if he was going to go cuz his buddys are usually where we are-he told me he wasn't going, but then later he called me and said 'so you're just going to walk by me like that?' lol. He showed up with his cousin and other friend, and introduced me. Another little surprise since he said he hates going to the club. He wanted to take me back to his place too, but i had to work.
We both like two of these songs, and whenever im in the car with him, those two songs come on. The other day we had sex, and one of the songs came on right at that moment. He's like 'oh that's so crazy that this song comes on right now'--i didnt say a word cuz i thought that was really odd.
He checks to make sure i have my seat belt on, by touching my side and checking. Its a bit cute.
I invited him to go on a cruise with me, but he can't go cuz he has to work. But right away he's like 'well who's going on this cruise with you anyway?' in a way like as if he wanted to know exactly who else was going. I just told him my girlfriends and that's it. I assume it's just cuz he's a guy that doesn't want his f-buddy to go f somebody else.lol
He wants sex almost everyday from me, but it gets annoying sometimes cuz he gets so persistent. One night i was out with my best friend, and he said he wanted
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He wants sex almost everyday from me, but it gets annoying sometimes cuz he gets so persistent. One night i was out with my best friend, and he said he wanted me to sleep over. I told him i couldn't cuz i was already out and didn't think of it as anything...APPARENTLY, he texted my friend telling her that she's going to have problems cuz i was with her and not with him! I texted him off of my phone saying he shouldn't be upset and we'll hangout another day.
Then recently, we were texting and he said he was home from work and wanted to see me but i was cleaning so i didn't reply right away. He sent me a sarcastic text saying 'nice talk' with a grumpy face. I mean really?lol I told him that i didn't have my phone on me and that i was sorry. He was fine after that. But those are the things that have been going on so far.
Soooo should i be worried?? lol. It's going on almost 3months now.
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Posted by DonAmanMarat
Ummmmm.....he DID threaten your friend. If that don't ring alarm bells, then what will?



Yea, but that night he was a little drunk and i didn't get mad about it. I just laughed about it honestly, cuz it did seem like he acts like a little kid when he doesn't get what he wants. My friend laughed about it too.
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But that's a fault of ours. We may be able to shrug it off and not get mad but it foreshadows worse things to come. When things like that happen, its a sure sign we need to cut it off but we tend to be too forgiving and accepting. Something ain't right with him.
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@beautifulsoul74,

I get what ur saying too..i know that it kinda sucks being a sag because i tend to go through this denial phase, and then when i think about it i get confused and don't know whether it's really a problem or if it's just in my head.
That's why i wanted to ask on here.
I accept people for who they are a lot of times..but i do know the difference between right and wrong. Taurus men seem to get possessive over the things or people they claim as theirs..so i just assume that's how he is and i don't take it seriously. He sounds controlling, but he really isn't that bad to me. I've been in a very emotionally controlling relationship with an ex, so he's super harmless to me. I've been pretty dominant with him as well a few times cuz i let him know that im not some chick that's going to just fall for him, and i guess it's just how we are with each other. He tells me everything, i've met his cousin, we've hung out outside of his place. Yea, he gets possessive a bit, but i thought it's cuz he's a guy that wants what he wants.
I just figured that's our comfort level...