@libralioness
12 Years
Taurus Male Question
Will a Taurus Male Keep Pursuing After Rejection
A Taurus male may continue to pursue if he is genuinely interested but often respects boundaries once told to move on. Taurus men value stability and loyalty, so persistent pursuit is less common unless there is strong mutual connection. Respecting her decision is key for future possibilities.
LOL....why r u asking this? Did u tell him this to try to motivate him?
No, lol, I told him this because I meant it. And I still mean it...it's just so hard to get over him.
Posted by libralioness
No, lol, I told him this because I meant it. And I still mean it...it's just so hard to get over him.
You don't mean it.
Try to attempt this anyway....
I double-dog dare you. 😉
Last time I blew him off, he came back, with a baby step, only to go cold again. I didn't tell him I was done though, just acted nonchalant with him, and ignored his advances. This time, I said the words, I'm moving on. Will he accept this and move on himself?
Posted by libralioness
Last time I blew him off, he came back, with a baby step, only to go cold again. I didn't tell him I was done though, just acted nonchalant with him, and ignored his advances. This time, I said the words, I'm moving on. Will he accept this and move on himself?
I REPEAT
Try to attempt this anyway....
I double-dog dare you. 😉
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Do the man a kindness and make a clean break. That is if you are sincere. False hope is game. If you don't want the man after all....
Posted by libralioness
No, lol, I told him this because I meant it. And I still mean it...it's just so hard to get over him.
LOL, this sounds like a yes to me.
Did the fox stop trying to badmouth the grapes after he failed to eat them?
These are the questions that astrology simply cannot answer.
But for you ofcourse the taurus will continue to stroke your ego even though you have left the party.
My sister is a Libra.
Wonderful people.
But very indecisive people.
Libralioness,
If you couldn't convince us, you're certainly not going to convince him.
Was anyone 'schooled' on the Taurus can see right through the BS Handbook?
Posted by venusianbull
Do the man a kindness and make a clean break. That is if you are sincere. False hope is game. If you don't want the man after all....
I do want the man, or I wouldn't even be asking...I just can't deal with the bs! It's been 11 months...I guess to the Taurus that isn't long enough to make up his mind. He runs like a scared cat with every single baby step. I'm going to have to make a clean break, or lose my mind!
Posted by TaurusBull1977
My sister is a Libra.Wonderful people.
But very indecisive people.Libralioness,
If you couldn't convince us, you're certainly not going to convince him.
Was anyone 'schooled' on the Taurus can see right through the BS Handbook?
That's why I didn't say it in person, I sent him an email. Straight to the point. No emotions.
I know you want the man girl and I am telling you straight up: He knows it too. Your shooing motions are like wet tissue paper.
I am not being unkind. If you mean it, stand behind it.
Plain English works too:
Dear Bohunk,
I want to be your woman. I want you to come correct. If you cannot then stand down. No further contact. No wiping my eyes with my stuffed bunny, no waiting around and hoping you'll come to your senses and no clutching my phone and willing you to ring or text.
Live long and prosper,
A. Libra
No hiding behind an internet connection knowing that you'll bend like a reed in the breeze either. He knows that too. Time for courage and those big girl pants.
He didn't buy the email either....
The Hot and Cold Behavior doesn't stem from fear or indecisiveness...
It's triggered by uncertainty.
The 'feeling' of uncertainty can be caused by a myriad of reasons.
I can't tell you why. This thread is vague.
Dear Bohunk,
I want to be your woman. I want you to come correct. If you cannot then stand down. No further contact. No wiping my eyes with my stuffed bunny, no waiting around and hoping you'll come to your senses and no clutching my phone and willing you to ring or text.
Live long and prosper,
WAIT!!! Did a Virgo write this? This is a perfect letter. WELL DONE!!!
*If you cannot then stand down* *Live long and prosper* I love every part of it.
*Saves it just in case I ever need to use it on my bull*
I'm not even going to answer my phone if he calls
Posted by fembot
Dear Bohunk,I want to be your woman. I want you to come correct. If you cannot then stand down. No further contact. No wiping my eyes with my stuffed bunny, no waiting around and hoping you'll come to your senses and no clutching my phone and willing you to ring or text.
Live long and prosper,
WAIT!!! Did a Virgo write this? This is a perfect letter. WELL DONE!!!
*If you cannot then stand down* *Live long and prosper* I love every part of it.
*Saves it just in case I ever need to use it on my bull*
I told mine "I hope for the best for you and wish you a happy and fulfilling life."
Virgo Lilith. 😎
Posted by fembot
Dear Bohunk,I want to be your woman. I want you to come correct. If you cannot then stand down. No further contact. No wiping my eyes with my stuffed bunny, no waiting around and hoping you'll come to your senses and no clutching my phone and willing you to ring or text.
Live long and prosper,
WAIT!!! Did a Virgo write this? This is a perfect letter. WELL DONE!!!
*If you cannot then stand down* *Live long and prosper* I love every part of it.
*Saves it just in case I ever need to use it on my bull*
I told mine "I hope for the best for you and wish you a happy and fulfilling life."
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Yea unfortunately mine would see right through a stmt like that. Particularly because I say things like that to him all the time (in a not breaking things off sort of way). He'd know that I still care and if I care he can still have me. VB's letter was concise and stuck to the point, which is essentially- Get on board or kick rocks! I like that...
But honestly you could say just about anything...he's still going to try to keep you around. The only thing that convinces anyone of any sign is ACTION. So you said it...now you have to back it up with your actions, even if he tries to come back. Can you really do that?
I have to do it
Posted by venusianbull
Virgo Lilith. 😎
Posted by fembot
Dear Bohunk,I want to be your woman. I want you to come correct. If you cannot then stand down. No further contact. No wiping my eyes with my stuffed bunny, no waiting around and hoping you'll come to your senses and no clutching my phone and willing you to ring or text.
Live long and prosper,
WAIT!!! Did a Virgo write this? This is a perfect letter. WELL DONE!!!
*If you cannot then stand down* *Live long and prosper* I love every part of it.
*Saves it just in case I ever need to use it on my bull*
I told mine "I hope for the best for you and wish you a happy and fulfilling life."
Yea unfortunately mine would see right through a stmt like that. Particularly because I say things like that to him all the time (in a not breaking things off sort of way). He'd know that I still care and if I care he can still have me. VB's letter was concise and stuck to the point, which is essentially- Get on board or kick rocks! I like that...
But honestly you could say just about anything...he's still going to try to keep you around. The only thing that convinces anyone of any sign is ACTION. So you said it...now you have to back it up with your actions, even if he tries to come back. Can you really do that?
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Well, as far as caring goes...I'm not sure that I agree. I don't want to give the impression that I do not care, I want to give the impression that I am a strong, independent, beautiful woman who deserves to be treated with the respect and love that I deserve.
Well, as far as caring goes...I'm not sure that I agree. I don't want to give the impression that I do not care, I want to give the impression that I am a strong, independent, beautiful woman who deserves to be treated with the respect and love that I deserve.
Just because you think you're worthy of it (no pun intended)...
It doesn't mean that he thinks you're worthy of it.
As I stated earlier, Hot & Cold behavior stems from uncertainty.
We do not have the entire story.
Posted by venusianbull
I know you want the man girl and I am telling you straight up: He knows it too. Your shooing motions are like wet tissue paper.
I am not being unkind. If you mean it, stand behind it.
Plain English works too:Dear Bohunk,
I want to be your woman. I want you to come correct. If you cannot then stand down. No further contact. No wiping my eyes with my stuffed bunny, no waiting around and hoping you'll come to your senses and no clutching my phone and willing you to ring or text.
Live long and prosper,
A. Libra
No hiding behind an internet connection knowing that you'll bend like a reed in the breeze either. He knows that too. Time for courage and those big girl pants.
LOL - this is sexy. I recommend something like this.
🙂
Posted by venusianbull
Virgo Lilith. 😎click to expand
Tribbles! 😄
Well, as far as caring goes...I'm not sure that I agree. I don't want to give the impression that I do not care, I want to give the impression that I am a strong, independent, beautiful woman who deserves to be treated with the respect and love that I deserve.
I know how endearing those little Ferdinand's can be. All the while fucking you over. Its OK that you care, you always will but stay strong. It is hard and its OK if you wipe your tears with your stuffed bunny??_only you know about it. Taurus men are wonderful and stupid all in one. If its meant to be then it will work out
you go girl! 😉
Well if I'm going to move on, then continuing to occupy my mind with thoughts of him is not a good idea, so no more posting on here. Thanks for all of your insight. Have a good day, week, life or whatever. Maybe I'll update now and then.
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Will a male Taurus continue pursuing a woman after she tells him she is moving on, after tiring of the hot and cold?