venus in capricorn

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do any of you have your venus in capricorn? if yessss....let me know, how are you with love and relationships? how do you show someone that you are interested? there is this sag guy who is texting me alot, we went to school together 5 years ago.
we see eachother sometimes, but there is always friends around.

him: when is your bday
me: 29 sept, why
Him: just asking
me: you wanna buy me a present
him: no who said that
me: why else would you wanna know
him: maybe i wanted to ask you out on your bday or maybe i just wanted to start a conversation
me: what about "hey how are you"
him: haha never tried that
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Posted by static
Wow, with those placements he sounds like he would be a fiercely dedicated guy.

When I love someone I make sure that I'm there for them when they need me. I will be more receptive to stepping out of my comfort-zones and will more readily compromise my time and priorities for this person. If I say I'm going to do something, I will be sure to do it (even if I don't particularly want to) because I would hate to disappoint them.

I don't come to love easily, it's a very rare feeling, but when I do, it is all-encompassing and there is never a question of loyalty. Your hurts become my hurts, your joy is my joy, and your secrets are my secrets. I'll want to help where I can, tasks great or small.

Verbal proclamations of love don't come easily, or quickly. Thoughts and feelings are weighed and measured, painstakingly so. There are considerations of the future, and how someone might fit into it, though always in secret so as not to scare them off... But as DMV said, with trust and time these defenses are lowered, and you'll get a glimpse into a heart that isn't so remote and cold as the rest of the world thinks it to be.



nice write up
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Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
thanks everybody..
one moment he is totally in to me, the next he is so cold. cant figure him out



DO NOT try to figure that shit out. there will be alot of that. what i think, he is just getting scared and insecure from all that lovey doveyness. men with a venus in cap move slow. even with his sag sun, he may fall a bit quicker but he will still have his "naw im good" moments. as long as you remain consistent you should be all good.

dont get frustrated 🙂
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@DMV, try me once in a while? what do u mean by that?

we've been to two dates so far, and it was nice. he texts me alot, thats ok sometimes, but i dont like it to be ALL the time, wich it was until today. i dont like it to be all the time because i dont wanna move forward with him too fast. i reply to every text offcourse because i dont want to be rude. he havent texted me today,and when i think about it its cool, but it kinda annoys me, because why? lol-- i know im not normal :-P
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@dmv, ok so how do u Think i should act/do when he goes cold or dissappeares, im asking because u got the same placements :-)

@cancerboo, how long have u been dating? And what do u do when it happens...

U know, i have been kinda psycho in my last relationship lol, because of these hot cold moments...i couldnt tackle Them. And Then found out the dig was cheating on me. I never wanna be in that situation again. Its a bad feeling being insecure all the time...But my own fault .. I gave myself too fast abd he got used to me Chasing Him...

btw. Sorry my english isnt the Best
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Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
@dmv, ok so how do u Think i should act/do when he goes cold or dissappeares, im asking because u got the same placements :-)

@cancerboo, how long have u been dating? And what do u do when it happens...

U know, i have been kinda psycho in my last relationship lol, because of these hot cold moments...i couldnt tackle Them. And Then found out the dig was cheating on me. I never wanna be in that situation again. Its a bad feeling being insecure all the time...But my own fault .. I gave myself too fast abd he got used to me Chasing Him...

btw. Sorry my english isnt the Best



i would not chase. when he goes cold, just leave him be. give him a couple days to think and to miss you and he will run hot again.

take his lead.
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Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
@dmv, ok so how do u Think i should act/do when he goes cold or dissappeares, im asking because u got the same placements :-)

@cancerboo, how long have u been dating? And what do u do when it happens...

U know, i have been kinda psycho in my last relationship lol, because of these hot cold moments...i couldnt tackle Them. And Then found out the dig was cheating on me. I never wanna be in that situation again. Its a bad feeling being insecure all the time...But my own fault .. I gave myself too fast abd he got used to me Chasing Him...

btw. Sorry my english isnt the Best



i would not chase. when he goes cold, just leave him be. give him a couple days to think and to miss you and he will run hot again.

take his lead.
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