anyone with venus in capricorn help!!!

my lover, in the past week and half, has begun to show old depressive inclinations due to neurotic sensitivities. for the past month we have been apart and unfortunately will continue to be apart until the end of august and he is showing some strain and is sadly closing himself off. his venus is in capricorn and he can be overly cautious and miserly with his affection when that cappy pragmatism overshadows the expressiveness of his sun in sagittarius. do any other venus caps find themselves recently feeling distant from a lover— any insight please!!

Yes, both my Piscean and I have venus in Cap. He's pessimistic about the outlook of the relationship and already writing me off as leaving him eventually. Plus he has moon in Cap. As if I didn't have enough to deal with with my own Capness! lol Just keep the communication going... I find that's the best way out of things going south...

*raises hand*

I do..😢

maybe its more of case of out of site out of mind

I have cap in venus and actually i have felt pretty damn good more so than bad

I have Venus in Cap and have a very negative view on relationships. It's pretty bad. I have a very difficult time expressing myself and I constantly beat myself up about it. I can't control it. It's just how I am. I feel like the guy can do 10x better than me and I convince myself that he will cheat/leave me. So I act like the guy means nothing to me most of the time.

Any physical contact makes me uncomfortable :/

But then again, I have a lot of Cap in my chart, which sucks the life out of me :/

it may have a lot to do with his chart placements but it may not... some people don't care for long distance anything even if its temporary. He could very well jus be doing his own thing, if she can allow some quiet energy in the space of the relationship, leave him alone meaning allow him to initiate contact and communication he will eventually open up and tell her whats on his mind if there is anything really on his mind when it comes to the relationship, it may not even be about her at all, it could very well be life itself thats making him shutdown, I can attest to that emotion on a personal level.

well he actually called a day after i posted this but i have yet to call him back. i'm giving him the "space" it seems like he needs. i figure, if he wants to talk to me, he'll call me regardless of whether i call return his message or not.