What is it about you guys?

Everytime I get infatuated with someone they are Sagittarius. I would never had noticed this guy if it wasn't for him giving me so much attention. He has tried several different ways of talking to me just not the right ones, yet somehow i feel like i am crushing on him more than he is on me. What can I do to get him to have a normal conversation instead of either flirting or walking away when I am trying to talk to him?

Push back a little bit. We like a challenge.

What do you mean push back? I never initiate the conversation, just try to add to to it, but when I do he starts talking but also walking away as he is doing so. And he always flirts when I am not so physically close and if I look at him he turns his head. I dont know maybe we just dont have a mental connection and its purely physical.

Posted by alcjam
What do you mean push back? I never initiate the conversation, just try to add to to it, but when I do he starts talking but also walking away as he is doing so. And he always flirts when I am not so physically close and if I look at him he turns his head. I dont know maybe we just dont have a mental connection and its purely physical.

We naturally flirt so I wouldn't put too much into that. I would flirt with a bum on the street just for the hell out. When we say "push back" we mean fall back. Straight up act like he doesn't exist. We love the chase.....let him come to you.

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Posted by alcjam
What do you mean push back? I never initiate the conversation, just try to add to to it, but when I do he starts talking but also walking away as he is doing so. And he always flirts when I am not so physically close and if I look at him he turns his head. I dont know maybe we just dont have a mental connection and its purely physical.

We naturally flirt so I wouldn't put too much into that. I would flirt with a bum on the street just for the hell out. When we say "push back" we mean fall back. Straight up act like he doesn't exist. We love the chase.....let him come to you.

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Agreed 🙂 fall back and let him chase you to the ends of the earth... but beware, once he catches you he could just as easily fall back. You might not want to take him so seriously, he seems like he's just toying with you, a Sagi that really likes you and wants you for more than just sex will not try to be seen at all. He will make subtle hints more so than going full force. At least that's how I know to be true. Most Sagi's that are head over heels for someone will become very shy and be more aware towards your feelings. 🙂

hope this helps

The thing is I fall back so much I dont think he has a clue that I like him. I am friendly with everybody, so he wouldnt be able to tell from that. Anyway, I dont even know him well enough to say I really like him but when hes not acting weird around me or flirting, I do like his surface personality I just want him to stop complimenting me and just talk, that way I could get his little face outta my head. Anyway, thanks for the advice guys. And like a Pisces always does I will just go with the flow.

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we will try to have more of a filter so to speak. Try more thinking b4 we talk. we dont want to lose our crush.

i suggest the other party throw out some interest. obvious interest. were fire sigs, we like directness.