Sheever
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Posted by Aquarius3189Here:
Im curious what are your placements?
Posted by Aquarius3189Here:
Im curious what are your placements?
Posted by lesenfantterriblesIt's not that bad here, she have to face her demons though. It's very multifaceted as she have qualities make her extremely rare and superior woman. On the other hand comes with exhausting work, and I either can break her demons or help her or she won't get over them without giving her mirror.
one of my exes is a capricorn sun/scorp moon & he was by far the most toxic relationship i've ever had.
emotional manipulation, always trying to teach me a lesson, cheating, lying, stealing money, heroin addiction, always willing to go to the lowest blow to win an argument.
good luck!

Posted by SheeverPosted by Aquarius3189Here:
Im curious what are your placements?
https://imgur.com/2oAeTIY
What is interesting also, scorpio moon has sone serious self destructive tendency by nature. Can destroy everything around them including themselves. They have beautiful soul and sensitive and responsive. Very instable due can not control that responsivity and falling in the same trouble all over again.
My current relationship has some brutal influences from pluto, chiron, nodes all heavy and dangerous in the same time triple soul mate type alignment.click to expand
Posted by RooSagicornHi, yes dramas, which I generally avoid as far as possible.š but the other side is worth it, and I believe her, will see. Scorpio moon is very unique personality, and you can touch them as deep as you can go, they are black holes with no end in a good sense.
You have a lot of Aries! And you like those Scorpio moons lol. It must be drama. My surrogate daughter ( daughters bff who practically lives with me) is a Scorpio moon. Man sheās always crying and everything is wayyyy more important than it is in reality lol. Even my Scorpio daughter goes wait why are you crying again?
Posted by Aquarius3189Yes, the same problem under progress, identical.Posted by SheeverPosted by Aquarius3189Here:
Im curious what are your placements?
https://imgur.com/2oAeTIY
What is interesting also, scorpio moon has sone serious self destructive tendency by nature. Can destroy everything around them including themselves. They have beautiful soul and sensitive and responsive. Very instable due can not control that responsivity and falling in the same trouble all over again.
My current relationship has some brutal influences from pluto, chiron, nodes all heavy and dangerous in the same time triple soul mate type alignment.
you have a lot of fire,scorpio moon is a powerful placement when properly channeled it takes time and maturity to handle those emotions,i was destructive in the past and i push people away just because i dont trust no one anymore,scared of being hurt it took me years to learn how to control it and the realization that im also losing my family for the way i behave emotionally, even now its hard but the good thing is i have moon in the 8th so when i wake up and realize something i come back stronger than the last(rebirth thing)click to expand
Posted by nanoThanks, also they have some beautiful side when they let them out, I fall for that as I feel them totally and non stop sensing. Potentially for me the best partners as to me this emotional depth and connection is very important aspect and intense as hell. I can drive them deep and as thry responsive can pull me more depth and so on. The connection is incredibly strong in all cases, and very dedicated and generally caring and genuine
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.

Posted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.

Posted by SheeverPosted by Aquarius3189Yes, the same problem under progress, identical.Posted by SheeverPosted by Aquarius3189Here:
Im curious what are your placements?
https://imgur.com/2oAeTIY
What is interesting also, scorpio moon has sone serious self destructive tendency by nature. Can destroy everything around them including themselves. They have beautiful soul and sensitive and responsive. Very instable due can not control that responsivity and falling in the same trouble all over again.
My current relationship has some brutal influences from pluto, chiron, nodes all heavy and dangerous in the same time triple soul mate type alignment.
you have a lot of fire,scorpio moon is a powerful placement when properly channeled it takes time and maturity to handle those emotions,i was destructive in the past and i push people away just because i dont trust no one anymore,scared of being hurt it took me years to learn how to control it and the realization that im also losing my family for the way i behave emotionally, even now its hard but the good thing is i have moon in the 8th so when i wake up and realize something i come back stronger than the last(rebirth thing)
Especially that caps are closing off when they feel vulnerable or made something wrong as highly insecure of themselves. Now, add short temper to it as extra šclick to expand
Posted by Aquarius3189Exactly, I might be naive but I tend to think that, she knows my value, and how much effort I am able to make for her, and do. The more she got the more must help her realise to be protective what we have because nothing is grantedPosted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.click to expand
Posted by Aquarius3189They usually analyse afterwards. Also tend to make the same mistakes one after the other, which is Totally make no any sense at all.Posted by SheeverPosted by Aquarius3189Yes, the same problem under progress, identical.Posted by SheeverPosted by Aquarius3189Here:
Im curious what are your placements?
https://imgur.com/2oAeTIY
What is interesting also, scorpio moon has sone serious self destructive tendency by nature. Can destroy everything around them including themselves. They have beautiful soul and sensitive and responsive. Very instable due can not control that responsivity and falling in the same trouble all over again.
My current relationship has some brutal influences from pluto, chiron, nodes all heavy and dangerous in the same time triple soul mate type alignment.
you have a lot of fire,scorpio moon is a powerful placement when properly channeled it takes time and maturity to handle those emotions,i was destructive in the past and i push people away just because i dont trust no one anymore,scared of being hurt it took me years to learn how to control it and the realization that im also losing my family for the way i behave emotionally, even now its hard but the good thing is i have moon in the 8th so when i wake up and realize something i come back stronger than the last(rebirth thing)
Especially that caps are closing off when they feel vulnerable or made something wrong as highly insecure of themselves. Now, add short temper to it as extra š
some logic will knock their stubborn self the way i see it because we are so driven with our emotions that we forgot logic,thankfully i have my aqua sun to same byensate for thatclick to expand

Posted by nanoIf she wouldn't be as amazing as she is if I sum everything I wouldn't got into this relationship. I am good analytical and observer so the problem was already clear before. It's rather my confidence in myself I am able to create something positive and help her to be even more amazing. Well, I don't give up easy that's for sure.Posted by Aquarius3189Iām glad that you are able to change yourself for the better, but I find that to be an exception and not the rule. My 2 best friends have Scorpio moon, my father, and my boyfriend now. I know this placement. The aqua sun - scorpio moon father is the worst of them all, and he will never change. He does not care how he inflicts suffering and pain on his family and loved ones. The sag sun Scorpio moon seems to be the only one who wants to accept and change.Posted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.
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Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189Iām glad that you are able to change yourself for the better, but I find that to be an exception and not the rule. My 2 best friends have Scorpio moon, my father, and my boyfriend now. I know this placement. The aqua sun - scorpio moon father is the worst of them all, and he will never change. He does not care how he inflicts suffering and pain on his family and loved ones. The sag sun Scorpio moon seems to be the only one who wants to accept and change.Posted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.
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Posted by LiriellOh, that's not a problem. I tell in the face Straight on no sugar coating. I am very patient so sometimes I cut off when I get tired of the entertainment due I hate to be impulsive. It's rather a mystery to me how others don't know boundaries and it's not my job to show them. Especially mature grown-up persons.
Yeah, we can be toxic. It's also inability to see our faults somehow, until someone points them out bluntly (good to have mutable friends). After that we try to work on that faults but at the same time in need of constant reminder if we're still doing wrong. We also sometimes have crisis moments which fortunately don't last that long. At least how it's all for me.
Also I seem to attract Scorp Moons for friendships.

Posted by SheeverPosted by Aquarius3189They usually analyse afterwards. Also tend to make the same mistakes one after the other, which is Totally make no any sense at all.Posted by SheeverPosted by Aquarius3189Yes, the same problem under progress, identical.Posted by SheeverPosted by Aquarius3189Here:
Im curious what are your placements?
https://imgur.com/2oAeTIY
What is interesting also, scorpio moon has sone serious self destructive tendency by nature. Can destroy everything around them including themselves. They have beautiful soul and sensitive and responsive. Very instable due can not control that responsivity and falling in the same trouble all over again.
My current relationship has some brutal influences from pluto, chiron, nodes all heavy and dangerous in the same time triple soul mate type alignment.
you have a lot of fire,scorpio moon is a powerful placement when properly channeled it takes time and maturity to handle those emotions,i was destructive in the past and i push people away just because i dont trust no one anymore,scared of being hurt it took me years to learn how to control it and the realization that im also losing my family for the way i behave emotionally, even now its hard but the good thing is i have moon in the 8th so when i wake up and realize something i come back stronger than the last(rebirth thing)
Especially that caps are closing off when they feel vulnerable or made something wrong as highly insecure of themselves. Now, add short temper to it as extra š
some logic will knock their stubborn self the way i see it because we are so driven with our emotions that we forgot logic,thankfully i have my aqua sun to same byensate for thatclick to expand

Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189How can I make a Scorpio moon see what they do to other people and what they do to themselves, when they donāt want to see it?Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189Iām glad that you are able to change yourself for the better, but I find that to be an exception and not the rule. My 2 best friends have Scorpio moon, my father, and my boyfriend now. I know this placement. The aqua sun - scorpio moon father is the worst of them all, and he will never change. He does not care how he inflicts suffering and pain on his family and loved ones. The sag sun Scorpio moon seems to be the only one who wants to accept and change.Posted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.
glad im not one of them,im sorry for what you have experienced with this signs but it doesnt mean that its the same with everyone,lets say you know 10 but there are thousands or millions with this sign(im the example of it)and know a few scorp moons,2 i have been working with,yes they are very stubborn at first(virgo sun and a scorp sun)but they too realize they need to change for them to grow now everytime something came up and needs changing we adapt,we do have different perspective i suppose since this is base both in our experience with them
I just want to shake the fuck out of them and say HOW are you so blind.
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Posted by nanoYes that's the only thing works. It depends how much shock they get from it and learn boundary that way. If they comfortable enough may do it again. You re wiser, you see where it goes so you try to protect the relationship against their own self distruction. Very child like situation.Posted by Aquarius3189How can I make a Scorpio moon see what they do to other people and what they do to themselves, when they donāt want to see it?Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189Iām glad that you are able to change yourself for the better, but I find that to be an exception and not the rule. My 2 best friends have Scorpio moon, my father, and my boyfriend now. I know this placement. The aqua sun - scorpio moon father is the worst of them all, and he will never change. He does not care how he inflicts suffering and pain on his family and loved ones. The sag sun Scorpio moon seems to be the only one who wants to accept and change.Posted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.
glad im not one of them,im sorry for what you have experienced with this signs but it doesnt mean that its the same with everyone,lets say you know 10 but there are thousands or millions with this sign(im the example of it)and know a few scorp moons,2 i have been working with,yes they are very stubborn at first(virgo sun and a scorp sun)but they too realize they need to change for them to grow now everytime something came up and needs changing we adapt,we do have different perspective i suppose since this is base both in our experience with them
I just want to shake the fuck out of them and say HOW are you so blind.
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Posted by nanoPosted by LiriellYES šš»šš»šš»
Yeah, we can be toxic. It's also inability to see our faults somehow, until someone points them out bluntly (good to have mutable friends). After that we try to work on that faults but at the same time in need of constant reminder if we're still doing wrong. We also sometimes have crisis moments which fortunately don't last that long. At least how it's all for me.
Also I seem to attract Scorp Moons for friendships.
Itās like yāall can read anyone else, but are completely oblivious to your own selves... shortcomings and flaws... itās crazy. Like how can you know everything about everyone but then be blind to the person standing in the mirror in front of you?
Same is true with Scorpio suns.
And like I said, itās more manageable and fixable with the women and 1000% worse with the men. Even when you point out flaws in ways of thinking and logic, they wonāt listen and they sure as hell will never change.
How can someone get through to you if they wonāt listen to you and never want to change?
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Posted by nanoHow long you been together? Just wonderPosted by SheeverOh yea, I hear you Sheever. Like I said, Iām with a Scorpio moon too, so I do understand and know what they have to offer and what youāre saying. It just gets hard sometimes and I struggle with it.Posted by nanoIf she wouldn't be as amazing as she is if I sum everything I wouldn't got into this relationship. I am good analytical and observer so the problem was already clear before. It's rather my confidence in myself I am able to create something positive and help her to be even more amazing. Well, I don't give up easy that's for sure.Posted by Aquarius3189Iām glad that you are able to change yourself for the better, but I find that to be an exception and not the rule. My 2 best friends have Scorpio moon, my father, and my boyfriend now. I know this placement. The aqua sun - scorpio moon father is the worst of them all, and he will never change. He does not care how he inflicts suffering and pain on his family and loved ones. The sag sun Scorpio moon seems to be the only one who wants to accept and change.Posted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.
I am also learning. She taught me more about myself and made me open more than anybody ever. So my commitment also much greater, unless she Betray. She knows that though that's it then. I can cut anybody out of my life on that reason no matter how strong connection and moving over very fast
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Posted by RooSagicornGood job, glad to hear šPosted by SheeverOh yes definitely unique. This girl is a Scorpio, Scorpio May be worse. But when she started coming to my house she was self-harming and close to committing suicide. A little love & understanding goes along way š sheās in college, working & doing well now.Posted by RooSagicornHi, yes dramas, which I generally avoid as far as possible.š but the other side is worth it, and I believe her, will see. Scorpio moon is very unique personality, and you can touch them as deep as you can go, they are black holes with no end in a good sense.
You have a lot of Aries! And you like those Scorpio moons lol. It must be drama. My surrogate daughter ( daughters bff who practically lives with me) is a Scorpio moon. Man sheās always crying and everything is wayyyy more important than it is in reality lol. Even my Scorpio daughter goes wait why are you crying again?
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Posted by nanoAbsolutely agreePosted by SheeverI agree - I find Scorpio energy to be petulant and childlike when itās āunevolvedāPosted by nanoYes that's the only thing works. It depends how much shock they get from it and learn boundary that way. If they comfortable enough may do it again. You re wiser, you see where it goes so you try to protect the relationship against their own self distruction. Very child like situation.Posted by Aquarius3189How can I make a Scorpio moon see what they do to other people and what they do to themselves, when they donāt want to see it?Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189Iām glad that you are able to change yourself for the better, but I find that to be an exception and not the rule. My 2 best friends have Scorpio moon, my father, and my boyfriend now. I know this placement. The aqua sun - scorpio moon father is the worst of them all, and he will never change. He does not care how he inflicts suffering and pain on his family and loved ones. The sag sun Scorpio moon seems to be the only one who wants to accept and change.Posted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.
glad im not one of them,im sorry for what you have experienced with this signs but it doesnt mean that its the same with everyone,lets say you know 10 but there are thousands or millions with this sign(im the example of it)and know a few scorp moons,2 i have been working with,yes they are very stubborn at first(virgo sun and a scorp sun)but they too realize they need to change for them to grow now everytime something came up and needs changing we adapt,we do have different perspective i suppose since this is base both in our experience with them
I just want to shake the fuck out of them and say HOW are you so blind.
And this is coming from a Gemini....
The difference is that geminis are childlike in that we are wanderers and resilient, to adapt and not become bitter to these sorts of situations, like a child. We can be very immature in love, not know what we want, selfish, etc, but not the same way as Scorpio energy. They are immature and petty sometimes, and often like to hurt people when they feel scorned. And they can feel scorned for any irrational reason. This to me is immature in the worst way possible
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Posted by RooSagicornThis!Posted by nanoSometimes itās not about the right person. Itās about they just canāt face their shit & take responsibility for themselves. Was the case for my ex-husband.Posted by Aquarius3189Iāve tried everything to no avail. I understand what you are saying though - maybe I am not the right woman for him, for him to not want to change.Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189How can I make a Scorpio moon see what they do to other people and what they do to themselves, when they donāt want to see it?Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189Iām glad that you are able to change yourself for the better, but I find that to be an exception and not the rule. My 2 best friends have Scorpio moon, my father, and my boyfriend now. I know this placement. The aqua sun - scorpio moon father is the worst of them all, and he will never change. He does not care how he inflicts suffering and pain on his family and loved ones. The sag sun Scorpio moon seems to be the only one who wants to accept and change.Posted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.
glad im not one of them,im sorry for what you have experienced with this signs but it doesnt mean that its the same with everyone,lets say you know 10 but there are thousands or millions with this sign(im the example of it)and know a few scorp moons,2 i have been working with,yes they are very stubborn at first(virgo sun and a scorp sun)but they too realize they need to change for them to grow now everytime something came up and needs changing we adapt,we do have different perspective i suppose since this is base both in our experience with them
I just want to shake the fuck out of them and say HOW are you so blind.
that made me laugh im sorryš,the way i see it people in my life made me change like right now im the eldest and i love my family with all my heart,no one told me to change i just did because i feel that i need to or else i would lose the love and respect of my family everytime i snap,writing and music helped me a lot,have you tried telling them bluntly while hitting their weakness(their emotion)
I truly think that men will want to change for the better and want to work on their flaws to the best of their ability when they meet someone that brings out the best in them. I donāt think Iām the right person for this~
Iām also torn because I have seen my aqua father destroy women I believe that he truly loved over the year, because he was so stubborn and unwilling to change, giving in to his sex addiction and control games, to where it still has him fucked up to this day.
Complicated and complex. Thatās what yāall are.
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Posted by nanoWell, as I wrote earlier my previous one was 12 years and was very smooth no even arguments. She had some problem too internally but not as major I helped her, and was very harmonic though. I realised as they age those negative aspects kicks in more and get amplified. Self doubt and other nasty things, complete lost of sense of reality.Posted by RooSagicornSo us women kind of just stick around until we decide that we canāt take it anymore and accept they will never change?Posted by nanoSometimes itās not about the right person. Itās about they just canāt face their shit & take responsibility for themselves. Was the case for my ex-husband.Posted by Aquarius3189Iāve tried everything to no avail. I understand what you are saying though - maybe I am not the right woman for him, for him to not want to change.Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189How can I make a Scorpio moon see what they do to other people and what they do to themselves, when they donāt want to see it?Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189Iām glad that you are able to change yourself for the better, but I find that to be an exception and not the rule. My 2 best friends have Scorpio moon, my father, and my boyfriend now. I know this placement. The aqua sun - scorpio moon father is the worst of them all, and he will never change. He does not care how he inflicts suffering and pain on his family and loved ones. The sag sun Scorpio moon seems to be the only one who wants to accept and change.Posted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.
glad im not one of them,im sorry for what you have experienced with this signs but it doesnt mean that its the same with everyone,lets say you know 10 but there are thousands or millions with this sign(im the example of it)and know a few scorp moons,2 i have been working with,yes they are very stubborn at first(virgo sun and a scorp sun)but they too realize they need to change for them to grow now everytime something came up and needs changing we adapt,we do have different perspective i suppose since this is base both in our experience with them
I just want to shake the fuck out of them and say HOW are you so blind.
that made me laugh im sorryš,the way i see it people in my life made me change like right now im the eldest and i love my family with all my heart,no one told me to change i just did because i feel that i need to or else i would lose the love and respect of my family everytime i snap,writing and music helped me a lot,have you tried telling them bluntly while hitting their weakness(their emotion)
I truly think that men will want to change for the better and want to work on their flaws to the best of their ability when they meet someone that brings out the best in them. I donāt think Iām the right person for this~
Iām also torn because I have seen my aqua father destroy women I believe that he truly loved over the year, because he was so stubborn and unwilling to change, giving in to his sex addiction and control games, to where it still has him fucked up to this day.
Complicated and complex. Thatās what yāall are.
Itās hard because itās not easy, when you really really love that person. Eventually I guess you will realize that both of you deserve better.
The problem with Scorpio moons is - can they have healthy relationships with anyone? Iād like to see it, but I havenāt yet to be honest š God I have watched fucked up relationship after fucked up relationship, where the same mistakes are made over and over.
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Posted by nanoThat 3 years living together? If yes and no change that would make me consider really. Especially if it burn you out, you can't give yourself on the level it requires because you have to deal with problems not yours and it's a sort of impossible mission. You should have enough influence already. Your partner comforted and take the situation for granted. All relationships required effort from both side and constant monitoring the relationship. If that is missing, it becomes one sided where one is always sacrifice and becomes bitter. You have one life tooPosted by Sheever3 yearsPosted by nanoHow long you been together? Just wonderPosted by SheeverOh yea, I hear you Sheever. Like I said, Iām with a Scorpio moon too, so I do understand and know what they have to offer and what youāre saying. It just gets hard sometimes and I struggle with it.Posted by nanoIf she wouldn't be as amazing as she is if I sum everything I wouldn't got into this relationship. I am good analytical and observer so the problem was already clear before. It's rather my confidence in myself I am able to create something positive and help her to be even more amazing. Well, I don't give up easy that's for sure.Posted by Aquarius3189Iām glad that you are able to change yourself for the better, but I find that to be an exception and not the rule. My 2 best friends have Scorpio moon, my father, and my boyfriend now. I know this placement. The aqua sun - scorpio moon father is the worst of them all, and he will never change. He does not care how he inflicts suffering and pain on his family and loved ones. The sag sun Scorpio moon seems to be the only one who wants to accept and change.Posted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.
I am also learning. She taught me more about myself and made me open more than anybody ever. So my commitment also much greater, unless she Betray. She knows that though that's it then. I can cut anybody out of my life on that reason no matter how strong connection and moving over very fast
But Iām tired, Sheever.
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Posted by nanoThat's brutal and catastrophic especially your bf situation totally dominating controlling behavior.Posted by RooSagicornBut they can never take that first step if they donāt see the error of their ways, which is the problem, for us.Posted by nanoPosted by RooSagicornSo us women kind of just stick around until we decide that we canāt take it anymore and accept they will never change?Posted by nanoSometimes itās not about the right person. Itās about they just canāt face their shit & take responsibility for themselves. Was the case for my ex-husband.Posted by Aquarius3189Iāve tried everything to no avail. I understand what you are saying though - maybe I am not the right woman for him, for him to not want to change.Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189How can I make a Scorpio moon see what they do to other people and what they do to themselves, when they donāt want to see it?Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189Iām glad that you are able to change yourself for the better, but I find that to be an exception and not the rule. My 2 best friends have Scorpio moon, my father, and my boyfriend now. I know this placement. The aqua sun - scorpio moon father is the worst of them all, and he will never change. He does not care how he inflicts suffering and pain on his family and loved ones. The sag sun Scorpio moon seems to be the only one who wants to accept and change.Posted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.
glad im not one of them,im sorry for what you have experienced with this signs but it doesnt mean that its the same with everyone,lets say you know 10 but there are thousands or millions with this sign(im the example of it)and know a few scorp moons,2 i have been working with,yes they are very stubborn at first(virgo sun and a scorp sun)but they too realize they need to change for them to grow now everytime something came up and needs changing we adapt,we do have different perspective i suppose since this is base both in our experience with them
I just want to shake the fuck out of them and say HOW are you so blind.
that made me laugh im sorryš,the way i see it people in my life made me change like right now im the eldest and i love my family with all my heart,no one told me to change i just did because i feel that i need to or else i would lose the love and respect of my family everytime i snap,writing and music helped me a lot,have you tried telling them bluntly while hitting their weakness(their emotion)
I truly think that men will want to change for the better and want to work on their flaws to the best of their ability when they meet someone that brings out the best in them. I donāt think Iām the right person for this~
Iām also torn because I have seen my aqua father destroy women I believe that he truly loved over the year, because he was so stubborn and unwilling to change, giving in to his sex addiction and control games, to where it still has him fucked up to this day.
Complicated and complex. Thatās what yāall are.
Itās hard because itās not easy, when you really really love that person. Eventually I guess you will realize that both of you deserve better.
The problem with Scorpio moons is - can they have healthy relationships with anyone? Iād like to see it, but I havenāt yet to be honest š
They can if they work hard & really desire it. Anybody can. But it has to come from within. No one can do that for them.
And yes in a relationship, you have no control of the other. They make their own choices. I was with my ex for 20 years. I finally had to choose myself. I stayed to save him.. well he didnāt drink for 14 years & didnāt die like was predicted, but never dealt with himself. I dealt with myself & got strong enough to leave. I was actually trying to save the marriage.. well, heās back to drinking in a new relationship. So I guess I saved him for awhile but not completely.. anyway just a little example of why you canāt do it for them.
And thatās really sad about your ex - itās like he wanted to change for the better, but he always had those demons inside of them, which he eventually let take back control. I think they have a lifelong struggle with their demons - whatever the form, and relapse.
My fathers demons are sex addiction and abuse
My best friend, cheating
My other best friend, a romantic doormat and captain save a hoe complex - has gotten him into awful situations with horrible women - never changes
My boyfriend,not taking responsibility for his shortcomings in the relationship. Like heās on this high horse and everything is my fault, when itās not, and I have taken responsibility for my own shit.click to expand
Posted by RooSagicornSorry to hear, however happy for that you ok now in your new relationship.Posted by nanoYes this is why it is important to choose yourself. Then you can find someone who also understands and allows you to choose you & then to choose themselves. To work on themselves & work together with you. I had to learn the hard way. Went to CoDA meetings for 2 years. Itās a 12 step program for codependents & you learn how to have healthy relationships. This is where I learned this. Current boyfriend & I are much healthier šPosted by RooSagicornBut they can never take that first step if they donāt see the error of their ways, which is the problem, for us.Posted by nanoPosted by RooSagicornSo us women kind of just stick around until we decide that we canāt take it anymore and accept they will never change?Posted by nanoSometimes itās not about the right person. Itās about they just canāt face their shit & take responsibility for themselves. Was the case for my ex-husband.Posted by Aquarius3189Iāve tried everything to no avail. I understand what you are saying though - maybe I am not the right woman for him, for him to not want to change.Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189How can I make a Scorpio moon see what they do to other people and what they do to themselves, when they donāt want to see it?Posted by nanoPosted by Aquarius3189Iām glad that you are able to change yourself for the better, but I find that to be an exception and not the rule. My 2 best friends have Scorpio moon, my father, and my boyfriend now. I know this placement. The aqua sun - scorpio moon father is the worst of them all, and he will never change. He does not care how he inflicts suffering and pain on his family and loved ones. The sag sun Scorpio moon seems to be the only one who wants to accept and change.Posted by nanoNot really, i have changed a lot in so many ways from my past and i have many fixed and cardinal sign,everyone can adapt to change if they are willing and if they see how its affecting their lives and family,its like fighting a strong current in a river you know how it flows and you cant win but your just too damn pridefull and stupid to go with the flow,change is inevitable
Scorpio moons have a very strong aura, and yes they can be toxins in your life, and they are people incapable of change. They are most tolerable with a Mutable sun.
glad im not one of them,im sorry for what you have experienced with this signs but it doesnt mean that its the same with everyone,lets say you know 10 but there are thousands or millions with this sign(im the example of it)and know a few scorp moons,2 i have been working with,yes they are very stubborn at first(virgo sun and a scorp sun)but they too realize they need to change for them to grow now everytime something came up and needs changing we adapt,we do have different perspective i suppose since this is base both in our experience with them
I just want to shake the fuck out of them and say HOW are you so blind.
that made me laugh im sorryš,the way i see it people in my life made me change like right now im the eldest and i love my family with all my heart,no one told me to change i just did because i feel that i need to or else i would lose the love and respect of my family everytime i snap,writing and music helped me a lot,have you tried telling them bluntly while hitting their weakness(their emotion)
I truly think that men will want to change for the better and want to work on their flaws to the best of their ability when they meet someone that brings out the best in them. I donāt think Iām the right person for this~
Iām also torn because I have seen my aqua father destroy women I believe that he truly loved over the year, because he was so stubborn and unwilling to change, giving in to his sex addiction and control games, to where it still has him fucked up to this day.
Complicated and complex. Thatās what yāall are.
Itās hard because itās not easy, when you really really love that person. Eventually I guess you will realize that both of you deserve better.
The problem with Scorpio moons is - can they have healthy relationships with anyone? Iād like to see it, but I havenāt yet to be honest š
They can if they work hard & really desire it. Anybody can. But it has to come from within. No one can do that for them.
And yes in a relationship, you have no control of the other. They make their own choices. I was with my ex for 20 years. I finally had to choose myself. I stayed to save him.. well he didnāt drink for 14 years & didnāt die like was predicted, but never dealt with himself. I dealt with myself & got strong enough to leave. I was actually trying to save the marriage.. well, heās back to drinking in a new relationship. So I guess I saved him for awhile but not completely.. anyway just a little example of why you canāt do it for them.
And thatās really sad about your ex - itās like he wanted to change for the better, but he always had those demons inside of them, which he eventually let take back control. I think they have a lifelong struggle with their demons - whatever the form, and relapse.
My fathers demons are sex addiction and abuse
My best friend, cheating
My other best friend, a romantic doormat and captain save a hoe complex - has gotten him into awful situations with horrible women - never changes
My boyfriend,not taking responsibility for his shortcomings in the relationship. Like heās on this high horse and everything is my fault, when itās not, and I have taken responsibility for my own shit.
Yes my ex wanted to be better but couldnāt. He refused to go to AA, to marriage counseling and tried to stop me from going to therapy and to CoDA to better myself.. he only stopped drinking because he was told he would be dead in 6 months if he didnāt. He was in bad shape at the time.click to expand
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Just found something interesting as trying to learn reading synastry.. as my previous partner (12 years long relationship) and my new partner both has scorpio moon..
The previous were capricorn rising, the new one is capricorn sun.
Anyone has similar experience? Scorpio moon is like magnet for me, I can sense them from miles away... Anyone?