How do you Scorpio man handle stress ? Do they withdraw or would they rather you be closer ? What are some ways that they like to be comforted when stressed out?
How do Scorpio man handle stress ?
Posted by thatlibralife
My take: They may withdraw and get a little testy.....so best to give them their space and let them come to you...don't push but be available when they're ready to talk about it...
That’s what I thought but I wasn’t sure. I told him today that I was here for him if he needed to talk or need anything I was just giving him space because I know how busy he is and he said thanks. I thought about sending him a care package with some random stress relievers some funny some actually beneficial but I didn’t want to feel like I was being patronizing.
Posted by thatlibralife
My take: They may withdraw and get a little testy.....so best to give them their space and let them come to you...don't push but be available when they're ready to talk about it...
That’s what I thought but I wasn’t sure. I told him today that I was here for him if he needed to talk or need anything I was just giving him space because I know how busy he is and he said thanks. I thought about sending him a care package with some random stress relievers some funny some actually beneficial but I didn’t want to feel like I was being patronizing.
Posted by dilettante
how long have you been dating?
most scorps i know, myself included, prefer to brood alone.
Not long at all but it feels like a lifetime we met on Valentine’s Day.
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by ladylibra21Posted by thatlibralife
My take: They may withdraw and get a little testy.....so best to give them their space and let them come to you...don't push but be available when they're ready to talk about it...
That’s what I thought but I wasn’t sure. I told him today that I was here for him if he needed to talk or need anything I was just giving him space because I know how busy he is and he said thanks. I thought about sending him a care package with some random stress relievers some funny some actually beneficial but I didn’t want to feel like I was being patronizing.
Yeah although the care package would definitely be a sweet thing to do, he may take it as you are trying to control the situation or be pushy. That's such a libra thing to do though lol. We like to get in there and fix it if we can. It seems some Scorp men like to lead and may take it the wrong way...I think when you told him you are there to help if he needs it went a long way in his mind as a good thing. He probably took that to heart and you scored some major trust points there. Now just sit back. He'll snap out of it soon enough 🙂...click to expand
That makes a lot of sense. Yeah definitely a Libra thing. I need to just chill out always feel like I need to do something to help the situation.
Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettante
how long have you been dating?
most scorps i know, myself included, prefer to brood alone.
Not long at all but it feels like a lifetime we met on Valentine’s Day.
hmm
whats stressing him out?click to expand
He works for major TV network and they are having to do everything online so he is very busy . He’s found out last week that this week would be busy but he said today he found out that he’s gonna be working six days a week with his new responsibilities.
Posted by LaPetiteEtoilePosted by dilettantePosted by LaPetiteEtoile
Sex.
im sorry but if im hella stressin & some fool tries to sex me, they are getting a hard ass no from me
You didn’t see the duplicate thread? 😋click to expand
No I’ll delete the other one
Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettante
how long have you been dating?
most scorps i know, myself included, prefer to brood alone.
Not long at all but it feels like a lifetime we met on Valentine’s Day.
hmm
whats stressing him out?
He works for major TV network and they are having to do everything online so he is very busy . He’s found out last week that this week would be busy but he said today he found out that he’s gonna be working six days a week with his new responsibilities.
and he isnt acting agitated with you or anything right?click to expand
No he had a tiny argument last week but it wasn’t really an argument and we were good the rest of the day we had sex before I left and have been talking since then. It’s just been this week which he had told me would be busy last week. Tho I thought he may have been punishing me the other day because he text me at 7:30 which he’s normally sleeping but I slept until 9. I messaged him when I woke up but he didn’t talk to me until the end of the day when I reached out to him but he seemed fine Monday and Tuesday.
Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettante
how long have you been dating?
most scorps i know, myself included, prefer to brood alone.
Not long at all but it feels like a lifetime we met on Valentine’s Day.
hmm
whats stressing him out?
He works for major TV network and they are having to do everything online so he is very busy . He’s found out last week that this week would be busy but he said today he found out that he’s gonna be working six days a week with his new responsibilities.
and he isnt acting agitated with you or anything right?
No he had a tiny argument last week but it wasn’t really an argument and we were good the rest of the day we had sex before I left and have been talking since then. It’s just been this week which he had told me would be busy last week. Tho I thought he may have been punishing me the other day because he text me at 7:30 which he’s normally sleeping but I slept until 9. I messaged him when I woke up but he didn’t talk to me until the end of the day when I reached out to him but he seemed fine Monday and Tuesday.
hmmmmmm ok
well if you are certain that everything is fine, letting him know you are there to talk & dropping off a little care package is appropriate. pushing him to call more, pressuring, etc him will make him isolate further.
to me, the worst thing is when someone thinks they can fix my problem/stress & try to give me conclusions. sometimes, the best thing is knowing that someone will just be there. & be consistently there, to listen, complain, pep talk, or just sit in silence.
you have to be secure during his time of instability. if you let his stress get to you, & your insecurities start popping up, it will not go well.
just be supportive & check in to make sure he is doing ok every couple days.click to expand
Thanks that sounds promising. I’ll give it a try. It sucks that we started dating right before pandemic but I feel like we learned a lot about each other in the short amount of time and I would like to continue to learn more and make it to a time with less uncertainty hanging in the air.
Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettante
how long have you been dating?
most scorps i know, myself included, prefer to brood alone.
Not long at all but it feels like a lifetime we met on Valentine’s Day.
hmm
whats stressing him out?
He works for major TV network and they are having to do everything online so he is very busy . He’s found out last week that this week would be busy but he said today he found out that he’s gonna be working six days a week with his new responsibilities.
and he isnt acting agitated with you or anything right?
No he had a tiny argument last week but it wasn’t really an argument and we were good the rest of the day we had sex before I left and have been talking since then. It’s just been this week which he had told me would be busy last week. Tho I thought he may have been punishing me the other day because he text me at 7:30 which he’s normally sleeping but I slept until 9. I messaged him when I woke up but he didn’t talk to me until the end of the day when I reached out to him but he seemed fine Monday and Tuesday.
hmmmmmm ok
well if you are certain that everything is fine, letting him know you are there to talk & dropping off a little care package is appropriate. pushing him to call more, pressuring, etc him will make him isolate further.
to me, the worst thing is when someone thinks they can fix my problem/stress & try to give me conclusions. sometimes, the best thing is knowing that someone will just be there. & be consistently there, to listen, complain, pep talk, or just sit in silence.
you have to be secure during his time of instability. if you let his stress get to you, & your insecurities start popping up, it will not go well.
just be supportive & check in to make sure he is doing ok every couple days.
Thanks that sounds promising. I’ll give it a try. It sucks that we started dating right before pandemic but I feel like we learned a lot about each other in the short amount of time and I would like to continue to learn more and make it to a time with less uncertainty hanging in the air.
i understand. i am seeing someone long distance & plans to visit were cut bc of quarantine. it’s kinda adding stress to a lot of people’s relationships i think.
just be a grounding force for him. show him you arent going anywhere & he can turn to you for whatever he needs.
can i ask what his placements are?click to expand
Cap Rising, Scorp Sun in 11th, Cancer moon in 6th, Scorp Mercury and Venus in 10th, Aqua Mars in 2nd
Posted by dilettante
are yall official?
i shoulda asked that first
No we haven’t had that conversation
Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettantePosted by ladylibra21Posted by dilettante
how long have you been dating?
most scorps i know, myself included, prefer to brood alone.
Not long at all but it feels like a lifetime we met on Valentine’s Day.
hmm
whats stressing him out?
He works for major TV network and they are having to do everything online so he is very busy . He’s found out last week that this week would be busy but he said today he found out that he’s gonna be working six days a week with his new responsibilities.
and he isnt acting agitated with you or anything right?
No he had a tiny argument last week but it wasn’t really an argument and we were good the rest of the day we had sex before I left and have been talking since then. It’s just been this week which he had told me would be busy last week. Tho I thought he may have been punishing me the other day because he text me at 7:30 which he’s normally sleeping but I slept until 9. I messaged him when I woke up but he didn’t talk to me until the end of the day when I reached out to him but he seemed fine Monday and Tuesday.
hmmmmmm ok
well if you are certain that everything is fine, letting him know you are there to talk & dropping off a little care package is appropriate. pushing him to call more, pressuring, etc him will make him isolate further.
to me, the worst thing is when someone thinks they can fix my problem/stress & try to give me conclusions. sometimes, the best thing is knowing that someone will just be there. & be consistently there, to listen, complain, pep talk, or just sit in silence.
you have to be secure during his time of instability. if you let his stress get to you, & your insecurities start popping up, it will not go well.
just be supportive & check in to make sure he is doing ok every couple days.
Thanks that sounds promising. I’ll give it a try. It sucks that we started dating right before pandemic but I feel like we learned a lot about each other in the short amount of time and I would like to continue to learn more and make it to a time with less uncertainty hanging in the air.
i understand. i am seeing someone long distance & plans to visit were cut bc of quarantine. it’s kinda adding stress to a lot of people’s relationships i think.
just be a grounding force for him. show him you arent going anywhere & he can turn to you for whatever he needs.
can i ask what his placements are?
Cap Rising, Scorp Sun in 11th, Cancer moon in 6th, Scorp Mercury and Venus in 10th, Aqua Mars in 2nd
damn he sounds depressing lol
i also have an aqua mars & i def like isolating when feeling any kinda emotional way.click to expand
Lol Yeah he has his moments where I worry if he’s ok. That’s good to know though thanks. Now that I think about it my best friend is a Cap with Scorp moon and Aqua Mars he retreats when stressed but gets upset if we don’t check on him.
I like to fuck. Hard.
Posted by GirlygirlNadiaPosted by Gobby
Don't know about the men but the women become fucking unbearable.
Even an angel would muse over putting them six foot under...
Evidence you've never seen a Scorpio male under stress it's so far from unbearable it's actually quite beautiful because the will to stay calm and composed beats out the rage but you can still see it behind the eyesclick to expand
Omg I get that vibe is that he is holding back his frustration
Posted by Gobby
Don't know about the men but the women become fucking unbearable.
Even an angel would muse over putting them six foot under...
Lol do you really think it’s that bad?
Listen to the scorps here. The non scorps are just guessing. Respect the space. Care package is a nice thoughtful touch. Says just enough without being extra. We dig thoughtfulness. He will come to you. We like to miss people. Let work calm first, then he will come around when he gets a chance. When you respect our wishes and our space, we know you are on the level. Never push because we will ghost you.
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