@Eyes84
12 Years
Scorpio male blocked me
It doesn't really matter why he has blocked you. You knew he came w baggage so CHEERS to your new beginning. Celebrate it and let the baggage go. Sometimes, women are guilty of seeing "potential" and begin to give the benefit of the doubt to the new interest. But more often than not, "potential" is costly. Leave the "struggle love" to the birds. If a man isn't fully in position to play his role then he's not in position to be an asset in his relationship. Learn from this by accepting where the chips have now fallen.
Additionally, it's okay to be independent but as a woman it's important to know that we have to let men be men. They are to protect and to provide. Period! Amongst other things. But we are to allow them to play their God-given role.
Posted by PhangusPosted by sweetpea2977It doesn't really matter why he has blocked you. You knew he came w baggage so CHEERS to your new beginning. Celebrate it and let the baggage go. Sometimes, women are guilty of seeing "potential" and begin to give the benefit of the doubt to the new interest. But more often than not, "potential" is costly. Leave the "struggle love" to the birds. If a man isn't fully in position to play his role then he's not in position to be an asset in his relationship. Learn from this by accepting where the chips have now fallen. Additionally, it's okay to be independent but as a woman it's important to know that we have to let men be men. They are to protect and to provide. Period! Amongst other things. But we are to allow them to play their God-given role.
/rolls eyes
If a man says you are too independent you need a less insecure man.
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Not necessarily. Let's agree to disagree.
Posted by PhangusPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by PhangusPosted by sweetpea2977It doesn't really matter why he has blocked you. You knew he came w baggage so CHEERS to your new beginning. Celebrate it and let the baggage go. Sometimes, women are guilty of seeing "potential" and begin to give the benefit of the doubt to the new interest. But more often than not, "potential" is costly. Leave the "struggle love" to the birds. If a man isn't fully in position to play his role then he's not in position to be an asset in his relationship. Learn from this by accepting where the chips have now fallen. Additionally, it's okay to be independent but as a woman it's important to know that we have to let men be men. They are to protect and to provide. Period! Amongst other things. But we are to allow them to play their God-given role.
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If a man says you are too independent you need a less insecure man.
Not necessarily. Let's agree to disagree.
If he has to ask you to be more submissive, he's not dominant. You are. So own it.
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So....you don't want to agree to disagree? 🙄
Everything isn't always this way or that way. There are hidden factors at times. Hidden issues. False perceptions. Learned behaviors. Etc etc.
Posted by VicktoriaScorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.
You simply are not compatible.
So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol
He blocked you cause you called him on his bs and backed it up with the screenshot.
Posted by mars_in_cappyPosted by Eyes84Posted by VicktoriaScorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.
You simply are not compatible.
So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol
Maybe in those few months, he'd dealt with it and let go? You telling him how you feel now might be too late in his mind. He might have drunk texted you at 2am that night, hence why he might not remember.
Lol that he blocked you - not at your feelings, but at how petty blocking is. I think sometimes people block though, to try to get over it.
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I agree blocking is petty... it was hard for me to do but I felt it was best at the time. We are both adults though and things could of been handled differently on both ends. I am aware he just might be “over it” just gotta wish him well.
A blocker can’t be mad at a blockee for blocking the blocker. Now you know how he felt when you did it. It honestly hurts. Don’t do it again.
Sun Scorpio 26°40'
Moon Virgo 2°16'
Mercury Scorpio 14°33'
Venus Capricorn 13°30'
Mars Virgo 16°21'
Jupiter Libra 28°24'
Saturn Libra 17°58'
Uranus Sagittarius 0°10'
Neptune Sagittarius 23°35'
Pluto Libra 25°32'
Lilith Sagittarius 6°09'
N Node Cancer 24°05'
His rising. Is cancer
Posted by Eyes84Posted by VicktoriaScorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.
You simply are not compatible.
So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol
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Well you blocked him first. You started the petty.
Then you commented something you admit was also petty.
It all sounds kind of childish.
Posted by thethescorpioPosted by LalasReturnPosted by Eyes84Posted by VicktoriaScorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.
You simply are not compatible.
So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol
Well you blocked him first. You started the petty.
Then you commented something you admit was also petty.
It all sounds kind of childish.
You sound hella mature damn so yea shut up now
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What ?
I said IT was childish.
I didn't call you childish. Calm down 🙄🙄🙄
Stop with the pettiness. You literally admitted it was petty in another response. So why attack me out of the blue in a petty way? 👀
Posted by thethescorpioPosted by LalasReturnPosted by thethescorpioPosted by LalasReturnPosted by Eyes84Posted by VicktoriaScorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.
You simply are not compatible.
So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol
Well you blocked him first. You started the petty.
Then you commented something you admit was also petty.
It all sounds kind of childish.
You sound hella mature damn so yea shut up now
What ?
I said IT was childish.
I didn't call you childish. Calm down 🙄🙄🙄
Stop with the pettiness. You literally admitted it was petty in another response. So why attack me out of the blue in a petty way? 👀
Im calm and happy 🙂 sorry not everyone can be as mature as you lol
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Your initial response wasn't very kind. It was passive aggressive
I wasn't trying to be rude like some other posters here.
It's weird how people just post to be rude. 🤔 As if they're perfect.
But yeah whatever you did sounds like the ish my ex Scorp and I would do in the beginning.
I saw it as playful fighting but then it got ugly. So he's done you a favour here.
Ruuuuuuuuuun and never look back.
Trust me. He'll be back if things don't go smoothly with his new SO.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by LalasReturnPosted by thethescorpioPosted by LalasReturnPosted by Eyes84Posted by VicktoriaScorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.
You simply are not compatible.
So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol
Well you blocked him first. You started the petty.
Then you commented something you admit was also petty.
It all sounds kind of childish.
You sound hella mature damn so yea shut up now
What ?
I said IT was childish.
I didn't call you childish. Calm down 🙄🙄🙄
Stop with the pettiness. You literally admitted it was petty in another response. So why attack me out of the blue in a petty way? 👀
That’s not the op.
Some random butthurt
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Ooh oops sorry. My bad
Posted by thethescorpioPosted by LalasReturnPosted by thethescorpioPosted by LalasReturnPosted by Eyes84Posted by VicktoriaScorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.
You simply are not compatible.
So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol
Well you blocked him first. You started the petty.
Then you commented something you admit was also petty.
It all sounds kind of childish.
You sound hella mature damn so yea shut up now
What ?
I said IT was childish.
I didn't call you childish. Calm down 🙄🙄🙄
Stop with the pettiness. You literally admitted it was petty in another response. So why attack me out of the blue in a petty way? 👀
Im calm and happy 🙂 sorry not everyone can be as mature as you lol
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Sorry I retract what I said.
I thought you were the one who responded to me. It's someone else.
My baaaaad sis.
Sooooorrrryyyyyyy
Posted by thethescorpioPosted by LalasReturnPosted by thethescorpioPosted by LalasReturnPosted by Eyes84Posted by VicktoriaScorpio came back to sting you back/retaliate.
You simply are not compatible.
So let me get this straight. I reach out after somewhat agreeing on parting ways to end up pouring my heart out and gave a better closure statement to be retaliated on?? Wtf petty lol
Well you blocked him first. You started the petty.
Then you commented something you admit was also petty.
It all sounds kind of childish.
You sound hella mature damn so yea shut up now
What ?
I said IT was childish.
I didn't call you childish. Calm down 🙄🙄🙄
Stop with the pettiness. You literally admitted it was petty in another response. So why attack me out of the blue in a petty way? 👀
Im calm and happy 🙂 sorry not everyone can be as mature as you lol
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Now where da fuq are my glasses and the wall I can shamefully hide behind. 🤭
He's using you as an emotional flashlight. He puts you away because some way he knows you'll come back for some sense of closure. Person for posterity do not entertain these clowns. Move on and keep your head up.
He is blocked for good this time and I will be changing my number today
You ended things after almost a year of dating in September, and he's already in a relationship in the same month? Damn, boy moves quick! Just be glad you aren't part of his co-dependency anymore...
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Almost made it a year with Scorpio man... it wasn’t easy. He carried baggage in from a relationship he was in 9 years before me. We started off great but we had several issues ahead. He felt I wasn’t open for him enough. Too independent. He was somewhat codependent and had a drinking problem. He had so much potential though he is super intelligent we had deep conversations. It wasn’t enough though I felt I didn’t give him enough affection he felt i didn’t need him which wasn’t truth... things just ended in September. I blocked him from my fb. I never stopped worrying about him but I felt he was done with me. I got a text message in November early morning like 2am.,, I felt in my gut it might of been him but was unsure. I typed “wrong number” to realize it was indeed him while I was cleaning out my photo album to see a screen shot of a text me sent. The numbers matched... this month I thought of him more and more. I unblocked him to see he was in relationship since September! I was upset I text him and asked him why he text me in November while he was in a relationship after that I put a smart ass comment that was un needed. I felt stupid for that and I felt I didn’t give myself the closure I needed and the closure he deserved. I sent him a message saying some beautiful things and wishing him the best. He then replied swearing he didn’t text me and he needed proof. I sent him a screen shot of the messsge... then he blocked me.. wtf! I guess a taste of my
Own medicine ? We were never nasty to each other ever. The only reason he was block is he kept going back dnd fourth with me . One minute he missed me the other he would say this isn’t going to work . He kept ripping the band aid off my wound why block me now and cannot answer why he reached out?