Hi! I think the title says it all...I am new to this board, but I have been reading for quite a long time. I've got a situation going on with a Scorpio guy and would like to know your opinion about it (sorry if I have language problems here...I am French..lol). So, I met this guy online. He lives far from my place. We chat and find out that we have a LOT in common. It clicks...so we meet up. We spent 2 months together (seen each others on week-ends). I know he had told his friends about me and we met each other's family. He was getting along very well with my parents. He has always been nice to me and gave me a personal and kind of exoensive birthday gift. We would talk together about personal things and we never had a fight. Things were smooth. Then, last time we see each others, we made love and kissed. The next day; he calls me to say that he thinks we won't see each others again. Said he didn't love me. I cried and I think he did too...a little. Told me honestly what he didn't like...and it was strange reasons. One week later, we started to talk again over the net. We were joking around. And it's been like this for a month: we would chat sometimes on the web as friends. I reveal a little bit more about me everytime...so he could see me for who I really am. Now, he has started to post more comments on my Facebook and I know that he notices what's going on in my life as he talks about it sometimes when we chat. I guess we are gonna see each others at some point as he doesn't seem cold to the idea...just need to find an available week-end. We have so much in common: it is crazy...and I know he had told his friends about this. My friends think that we'll get back together after some time...but, I just don't want to hope so much...in case of deception. When he broke up with me: he said I was not an emotional girl...told him I was...a lot...it's just hidden underneath as I don't want to be hurt again. I am a Leo girl with Scorpio rising sign. I have never felt as connected with a guy as I am with him. We have never spoken again about the break-up.. What are you thinking? I think honesty is the only way to resolve this situation... Thank you in advance *hugs*
He wanted you guys to split after sleeping with you?? Am abit confused....where you two exclusive?. Splitting with a girl after sleeping with her is never a good sign. Am surprised you spoke to him again,i would be so angry. On a second level i know scorps love playing emotional game with people,just so we can figure out whether you care for us or simply just to see how deep is you love. When i was @ uni i told my bf back then that am leaving him bcoz i didnot love him no more-it was all a test to see how deep his love for me was. I still remember the look of shock on his face,how he bent over like he was in pain and he cried until he was almost sick. Ofcourse i went over to him gave him a big "bear"HUG!!and told him i loved him and will never leave him. So he possibly was testing you-hence why i thought you werent very emotional. However sweety its your call-you dont want to be a FWB.
So, I met this guy online. He lives far from my place. We chat and find out that we have a LOT in common. It clicks...so we meet up. We spent 2 months together (seen each others on week-ends). I know he had told his friends about me and we met each other's family. He was getting along very well with my parents. He has always been nice to me and gave me a personal and kind of exoensive birthday gift. We would talk together about personal things and we never had a fight. Things were smooth. Then, last time we see each others, we made love and kissed. The next day; he calls me to say that he thinks we won't see each others again. Said he didn't love me. I cried and I think he did too...a little. Told me honestly what he didn't like...and it was strange reasons. One week later, we started to talk again over the net. We were joking around. And it's been like this for a month: we would chat sometimes on the web as friends. I reveal a little bit more about me everytime...so he could see me for who I really am. Now, he has started to post more comments on my Facebook and I know that he notices what's going on in my life as he talks about it sometimes when we chat. I guess we are gonna see each others at some point as he doesn't seem cold to the idea...just need to find an available week-end.
We have so much in common: it is crazy...and I know he had told his friends about this. My friends think that we'll get back together after some time...but, I just don't want to hope so much...in case of deception.
When he broke up with me: he said I was not an emotional girl...told him I was...a lot...it's just hidden underneath as I don't want to be hurt again.
I am a Leo girl with Scorpio rising sign. I have never felt as connected with a guy as I am with him.
We have never spoken again about the break-up..
What are you thinking? I think honesty is the only way to resolve this situation...
Thank you in advance *hugs*