So I freaked out a bit during his freak out stage. (The stage they say scorps pull back for no reason and women are just suppose to give them space) It wasn't bad just me asking him whats up? Why so distant?
Same story.. things were good, told me he missed me. Liked me a lot. Wanted to see me a lot. Introduced me to his friends. Called a lot. I was mutual with it as well. To me I showed him I was into him. Than all the sudden he stepped back. When I asked what was up.. He told me I have to show him I care or really like him (He also said he gets like this and is why many girls dont like dating to him). Being that I usually am the one who gets chased.. I had no clue what that meant. Still don't!? It started to get to the point where I would be like "I miss you" and he would reply "no you don't" but than say he misses me. Or I would say "I like you" and he would say "no you dont". So thinking I needed to show him I really liked him I started to persue him. Well that probablly just made me look needy and back fired on me. I was the only one really calling (this past week) and asking to hang out. Which he was always busy. Or he would only have time after he hung out with his friends. So after him rejecting me a few days ago to hang out I just decided to back off and wait till he comes around. I'm really not needy he's just confusing and I didnt know what else to do.
Is he just playing games?
Is he insecure?
Did I push him away and burn out the flame?
Is this a test?
He's told me he's been in a lot of BS relationships so he thinks im playing him. Either that or he just doesnt want anything with me. If not why not just say that? At random times he'll show intrest and than get distant again. IE: He'll kiss me and tell me to call him later and than when I do call he will not answer or call back. I know he likes me it's just either he feels im going to hurt him like other girls have or he just doesnt want me.
It may look like I was needy but really I know how to step back too. If you need space or just want to chill with your friends than say so. Why lead me on? I can handle his withdrawls I just hope he will come back around to see that. Its like we got real close real fast and than he pulled away real fast. Than tells me I have to show him I mean what I say (liking him). But I thought guys like to "chase"? I plan on just doing me and staying away till he wants to talk or see me.. any advice?