Am I asexual?

I really don't know if I'm normal or not... But I'm 20 years old, and I'm not really interested in sex at all. I enjoy kissing (romantic love) etc, but when it comes to having sex I just don't see the point. I think I might be too self conscious, and I think the act itself is pretty ridiculous. I do masturbate a couple of times a month while watching porn, but I never feel the need to actually have sex, and I can't really see myself being so "animalistic". I think this is kinda sad, because I don't want to live my life alone. I want a family eventually.
I do think _a lot_ about sex, but it seems like having sex in my imagination is enough for me. Or maybe I haven't met the right person yet?

I guess being asexual is pretty uncommon for a Scorpio...

What are you guys like?

I was going to say you are only 20yrs old and at that age I didn't completly enjoy sex with men like you I would rather just masturbate a little, as you get older you will meet someone who will help you bring out your sexual side and you will enjoy it and want it more believe me. Give yourself another 5 or 6 years..........

i would wait a little bit before labeling yourself with some affliction. Maybe you just aren't ready yet. You said that you are too self-conscious which is probably why you think sex is ridiculous.

I am good friends with a guy who has no interest in sex outright. He is straight, LOVES to look at women, but doesn't get "that feeling" until long after a mental connection with her first. He just turned 23 not too long ago. He has a gf now who is quite a bit older and she wanted to jump him soon after meeting him. She almost scared him off with that and I remember him coming to me for advice on how to handle it. He was so discouraged that people didn't want to make a deeper connection first. They've been together now for several months and he's a total horndog for her. I think he still has a lower sex drive than she does but he enjoys it now and is very willing.

You also may have a lower libido due to a hormonal imbalance. If it concerns you that much you may want to see a specialist. However, when it comes to human sexuality, your mindset will play a huge role.

All I know is there could be many factors. We don't know your sexual history and there could be a number of things contributing to this. Good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for!