Anger

As a scorpio we are known to have really bad tempers when I get in arguments I feel my heart beating faster and faster and i have a impulse to just stop talking and hit the person. We do really have a dark side and i try my best to concile it because i know what I'm very much capable of.

Tonight for example, i was arguing with my libra brother he is so annoying always like to debate and he is a pathological liar and i always call him out on his bs. Also, he is a big gossiper and when he tries to tell people about stuff that he very well does I always put in him in his place. Libra guys are nosy as heck always in people business and act little b**tches every now and then. He pissed me off so bad that i almost punched him in his face i swear if he was a stranger I would drag him across the room thats how mad I got. It was very hard for me to control my anger so I just threw something at him. He is more of a talker and attention seeker and i don't argue much it's either all or nothing with me either we fight or I don't want to do "talking" with no action. My pulse was really rising and I was ready to click out on him. This is why I keep my distance from people who likes drama and arguments.

I really have to remind myself that people just want attention and would start drama just to get it. I really ignore people from most of the time but when you cross the line I am ready for war.

are any of your scorps have stories about your deep rooted anger and how did learn to calm yourself down or even keep it conciled for the most part?

Lynn Whitefield yeah I get that a lot honestly LOL. Some pics I look like other people as well I'm so over it nothing suprises me. But i am not psycho 🙂

Yes! He was so draining after the argument I was like omg I forgot you just want attention like a kid! He got mad and started saying other stuff but I walked away yelling blah blah blah drama seeker! We argued all night literally! When he isnt arguing with me he argues with my other brothers like ugh why do you like drama leave people alone!

I am ready to ice him out I had to pray about my letting my anger go. He does this all the time I am at the point where I'm ready to ignore him permanently!

i dont expect you to "feel" anything virgo you are more of a "thinker" it made logical sense to cut him off even if you care for them in your heart.

Posted by TachiMichi
i have many horror
stories that i am
ashamed of. sou..
but they have all
taught me lessons.

but i still think
about the worst one.

my then boyfriend
i found cheating on
me. the day i caught
him, he lied to my
face about it. but
i knew the truth.so
i left him. the girl
he cheated with called
me, threatening me.
not only that, he kept
calling me when she was
not around, begging me
to come back and asking
why i left him. i told
him to stop contacting
me. he did not. long
story short, i ended up
stabbing him. he almost
died. i did call for an
ambulance as he lay dying
at my feet. they were able
to save him. i walked off.
feeling very bad about what
things came to. i must have
had grace on my side; even
after the police asked who
done it, he never gave up
my name. he called me later
when he was better and said
he knew what he put me thru
and he loved me. that's why
he did not tell on me. i was
glad he lived, and since that
day i have not allowed myself
to be completely taken over
by rage.

yes that's the correct term RAGE is what I feel and it gets my heart beating extremely fast. I have some horror stories as well about my rage. It is terrible and I know exactly what I am capable of doing it is impulsive! One time I got in a argument at work with a girl who pursposely test me and one day I checked out mentally and was ready to fight. I started saying nasty things to her and soon as my hand went up to hit her a guy picked me up and took me outside. it was grace that saved me because i did'nt lose my job. The girl was known for starting butter and no one saw that side of me because I'm really quiet.

anyway I have worse stories than that but I rather not share on the forum. We are black and white no grey area.

I do yoga every week and it calms me I pray everyday too. It might just be the devil himself testing me because my mind was at peace all day until he came home with his usual bs. I need to stay away from people like that to keep my peace of mind. Sadly sometimes you even have to cut family off. He is def not aware of his consious mind at all and libras are so superficial we can never have a deep conversation.

Posted by PotHeadVirgo25

Posted by Octoberbaby91
i dont expect you to "feel" anything virgo you are more of a "thinker" it made logical sense to cut him off even if you care for them in your heart.

😆 🙂

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lol I am certainly about action i had to walk away because I was ready to hit him and he thought i was playing too. Yes so draining I have no time for it when I ignore people it is for months and years means it's permanent for me.

lol why thank you she is a beautiful woman.

I know you virgos like to get fussy to but just for mental stimulation not for drama 🙂

Do Scorpios show anger you bet they do in my experience they only show anger to people they are close to ones they are comfortable with. The girl in my life has never shown her anger to the others she works with nobody believes me she gets angry. Does she get mad? sure she does but she walks away from the person with me she doesn't walk away she lashes out.

There is a difference between Crab anger and Scorpio anger, crabs don't hide it when we are p*ssed off we let loose it doesn't matter who it is. As I said Scorps will hide it not sure why its just what I've observed.

Anger is an emotional release for a Scorpio what I observed with her is when she would lash out at me you could see the emotions come out. Even if I didn't p*ss her off she would find something to lash out at me to release that emotional anger.

Is Scorpio anger scary? Ya it can be because it is emotional it can turn into an emotional fight then things can turn even more ugly.

It is easier to deal with a p*ssed off crab a p*ssed off Scorpio they will walk away and stew on it which in turn makes them more angry.

Interesting this Scorpio anger thing ........ I've never in all this conscious life broken / hit anything/one in anger ....... its just not me. However, when I've got blimmin angry in past its like a light going on, and Im holding the stage and I've been instantly delivered up of the script and it comes forth calmly, succinctly and with no blasphemy into the now, seemingly very crisp air. True, its freaky. Oh its a beat up on the other person all right, its almost like i have whacked them physically cause they seem to reel back in shock ........ suppose a sting does that. I was always sick for maybe a week or so after this as it seems to gut me, even if my actions were true/right. I think that my 'restraint' is almost more powerful than a full on verbal/physical. This has happened bout 3 times in my adult lfe. It appears that Im twice the age + of a lot of the posters here and I'm not sure if this 'taming the anger' thing is a lesson I've not needed to repeat in this life as I've not lost it to that extent in years - I've remembered more the post times, second guessing my actions etc, than the specifics of those vehement words.
If I was to look at the word Anger as a manifested emotion, then yes I do have the 'emotion gene', lol .........it usually manifests in tears (probably my 'something' in 'something', lol) ....... tears I think as I can feel the passion for the response but the futility of having to get it all together to bring it out - Is it worth the effort for me ? and what point for the 'victim' - usually they've just proved they're a hot butter head and nothing will sink in. People are people ........we need to respect that were all at different places on our path, and we shouldn't judge people for where they aren't. With this most stuff rolls over me and its great ......... nothing much annoys me these days ....... just walk away/switch and learn. Any excess energy is for harnessing in positive ways, stuff the destruction, IMO.

Posted by TachiMichi
so it is not
just me who
has felt this
way. i knew i
was not insane.

No, it is not just you. You are not alone!! I've unfortunately had a few similar extremely violent scenarios. Some were by me and a few against me. The rage is frightening, impulsive, and made worse when drinking vodka! I no longer drink that shit!

Sometimes I find a fragile bottle of this right where my heart should be.

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Who am I fooling? It's more like this

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U know what's sad and funny.. I've thought on a few occasions "I can understand why people kill". That's probably some dark Scorp talking in my head!

Anyway I anger very quickly. I have a taurus moon and I've read we are slow to anger which I think does not apply to me! Due to my moon I am good at keeping the anger inside for the most part. Especially at work I'm talking to people In a calm placid voice and inside I am boiling and my mind is thinking me wanting to physically hurt this person. People tell me 'I can never tell when you're mad'

On very rare occations, I think just my mother has seen me burst with anger. I just end up screaming like a maniac and I feel my skin getting really hot. Usually, though, Im the first to walk away from situations like u explained because I don't have the patience for the bullshit

Posted by Koniucha
Where is your Mars and how is it aspected? That would show your anger, not your Sun sign.

Anyways, mine is in my 12th house, conjunct Neptune. I have a hard time expressing my anger and feel very bad about myself when I do. I avoid situations where I know I will get upset, as much as I can.

wow really? mars in 12th i read is more "thinking" of something than "doing" (which is opposite of what mars is, since it's naturally an assertive energy)

it does sound more like avoiding conflict what you mentioned above.

my mars in Scorpio here is my chart! analyze away!

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Scorpio 7.15 Ascendant Cancer 25.17
Moon Leo 18.43 II Leo 17.59
Mercury Scorpio 23.54 III Virgo 14.21
Venus Virgo 20.45 IV Libra 15.39
Mars Scorpio 9.49 V Scorpio 20.21
Jupiter Virgo 9.20 VI Sagittarius 24.21
Saturn Aquarius 0.45 VII Capricorn 25.17
Uranus Capricorn 10.34 VIII Aquarius 17.59
Neptune Capricorn 14.20 IX Pisces 14.21
Pluto Scorpio 19.48 Midheaven Aries 15.39
Lilith Capricorn 20.53 XI Taurus 20.21
Asc node Capricorn 11.53 XII Gemini 24.21