Breaking up with a mars scorp

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by miso on Wednesday, May 6, 2015 and has 17 replies.

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@AbbyNormal
12 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by GetMisted
Successful how?

A break up where the two individuals are now longer together.. Is successful.

But in the same sense.. A break up where one person is murdered, and the other is serving life without parole.. Is still technically successful since they are no longer together.

LOL

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@TeaMint
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Here Mars in Scorpio. I have no problem with the breaks, I have a few very clear boundaries about what I expect from you in any kind of relationship, and make you know. If you transfer these limits you are out, does not exist for me, as I informed you. If you respect me the same as I respect you (just I ask what I give, no more) even after a break, you will have my respect, support and friendship...if you want. It is very clear, you are worthy of me or you're not. I can look at the face without embarrassment to anyone who has been with me, fortunately I have "good eye" for people, Scorpio x -ray , before they fail i will know where each. I'm wrong bit, only two person can knock my door and i will not open, they know very well why. My motto is: my boundaries are impassable , my space is left clean. Others to do what they want , is not my problem.

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e11e, thank you.

People loves to mourn and take over other, their own responsibilities. It's a vice, an epidemic.
Like crying, claiming! You did me this! You did me other! Buaahh, Buuah...

Ejem...
You did me, what? How often? Who allowed?
- Ahm...?

It's simple, don't do others what you dont want for yourself.
Your limits clear.
Your site always clean.
You can fail me once but if you do two, then responsibility is mine, I will not avoid it.
You can only be responsible for your own actions, but you have to be!

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Immature and demanding people are addicted to their victims role, allow abuse to always have someone to blame, sue, blackmail. It's easier than do self-examination and take responsibility for their own lives. Psychic vampires, parasites.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by TeaMint
Here Mars in Scorpio. I have no problem with the breaks, I have a few very clear boundaries about what I expect from you in any kind of relationship, and make you know. If you transfer these limits you are out, does not exist for me, as I informed you. If you respect me the same as I respect you (just I ask what I give, no more) even after a break, you will have my respect, support and friendship...if you want. It is very clear, you are worthy of me or you're not. I can look at the face without embarrassment to anyone who has been with me, fortunately I have "good eye" for people, Scorpio x -ray , before they fail i will know where each. I'm wrong bit, only two person can knock my door and i will not open, they know very well why. My motto is: my boundaries are impassable , my space is left clean. Others to do what they want , is not my problem.

hmm i heard this same logic from a mars in scorpio. may be other placements at work, but he said he would always be okay to if i wanted to stop seeing him.

he totally didnt mean any of that.

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Posted by DMV
Posted by TeaMint
Here Mars in Scorpio. I have no problem with the breaks, I have a few very clear boundaries about what I expect from you in any kind of relationship, and make you know. If you transfer these limits you are out, does not exist for me, as I informed you. If you respect me the same as I respect you (just I ask what I give, no more) even after a break, you will have my respect, support and friendship...if you want. It is very clear, you are worthy of me or you're not. I can look at the face without embarrassment to anyone who has been with me, fortunately I have "good eye" for people, Scorpio x -ray , before they fail i will know where each. I'm wrong bit, only two person can knock my door and i will not open, they know very well why. My motto is: my boundaries are impassable , my space is left clean. Others to do what they want , is not my problem.

hmm i heard this same logic from a mars in scorpio. may be other placements at work, but he said he would always be okay to if i wanted to stop seeing him.

he totally didnt mean any of that.

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Scorpio usually can withstand any truth, tell, scorp understand and accept even lot of hurts.
If you lie you "passed limits" and scorp also know, that will no forgive.

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Scorpio is more afraid to lie, "to be with" by interest , obligation, lying in spirit, than to hell, than anything else in the world. I don't know a Scorpio doesn't have true panic for this, panic!
In the most horrible pain you can imagine, if it corresponds to the truth , we will be grateful.
Because of this we are also a symbol of death and resurrection , because behind this pain...we can see justice, life worth living, beauty, respect...love. Scorpio living a lie best would shoot himself and end earlier, will suffer less (probably didn't to avoid pain someone he loves) Same case. This is intense and deep, but this we are.

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11 Years500+ PostsAries

Posted by TeaMint
Here Mars in Scorpio. I have no problem with the breaks, I have a few very clear boundaries about what I expect from you in any kind of relationship, and make you know. If you transfer these limits you are out, does not exist for me, as I informed you. If you respect me the same as I respect you (just I ask what I give, no more) even after a break, you will have my respect, support and friendship...if you want. It is very clear, you are worthy of me or you're not. I can look at the face without embarrassment to anyone who has been with me, fortunately I have "good eye" for people, Scorpio x -ray , before they fail i will know where each. I'm wrong bit, only two person can knock my door and i will not open, they know very well why. My motto is: my boundaries are impassable , my space is left clean. Others to do what they want , is not my problem.

Wow! No one could have said it better