Any other Scorps feel like this?

Hi.

I've noticed that when I'm not in a relationship half of me wants one, and half of me wants to be able to meet new people all the time and not be tied down. Once I'm in a relationship (which it's VERY hard to get me into one), I tend to be extremely jealous about everything they do and I find myself having to hold myself back from trying to control them. I also get bored of that one person very easily, but when it comes to letting them go, I have trouble doing it, because the thought of someone else having that person makes me angry.

Of course, all of this could also be attributed to my Mars in Sagittarius and my other Sadge placement..

Anyone else (Scorps in particular) feel like this?

Posted by Samiamascorpio
I feel the same in a relationship, it's so hard to find someone you can trust and love and when you do for me it becomes all consuming and I become obsessed with the person. I get extremely jealous over nothing and I become extremely possessive of that person, an the very thought of my love one being with someone else is enough to send me flying over the edge of reason. And even my past exs who I don't care to be with anymore, it still makes me jealous when I find out they have someone new even if I have someone and have no intentions of ever getting back with that person. I think when we love, we love so deeply we never stop loving a person, we just learn to live without them.

Well said!!

That's pretty normal behavior for all Scorpios, Pluto - at least all those that I've known. lol Methinks you're in good company. 😉

Actually, your Sag influence may be what makes you want to break free when in a relationship. Sag is the epitome of "free spirit." So you have an inner war going on there. But, we all do, in one way or another.

i feel that way along some lines. i get bored very easily. im a scorp with a gem moon. i generally want a relationship but my spiritual and intellectual standards may be too high for me to settle and when i do i generally want out as soon as it starts. jealousy i struggle with that . im extremely flirtatious but i can cool my jets without any hesitation and when i get involved with someone seriously they dont seem to be able to calm down their flirtatious nature and im very much turned off by it. it just comes off as me wasting my time as i wish to exchange passion mutually and exclusively when im involved .but everyone plays by different rules and has hidden expectations so relationships are really rough for me.

Posted by PlutoScorp
Hi.

I've noticed that when I'm not in a relationship half of me wants one, and half of me wants to be able to meet new people all the time and not be tied down. Once I'm in a relationship (which it's VERY hard to get me into one), I tend to be extremely jealous about everything they do and I find myself having to hold myself back from trying to control them. I also get bored of that one person very easily, but when it comes to letting them go, I have trouble doing it, because the thought of someone else having that person makes me angry.

Of course, all of this could also be attributed to my Mars in Sagittarius and my other Sadge placement..

Anyone else (Scorps in particular) feel like this?

I'm not a Scorpio but I swear.. it's like I wrote this myself. Word for word.
I suck at relationships and pity my victims (bf's haha) when I can't for the
life of me follow proper restraint procedures.. :/ lol

How dare they think they can be with someone else... i hear ya bro. It ain't right but (shrugs). I understand a lot of how you're feeling, it's complicated. We're always lookin to conquer the next challenge and have a unhealthy need for that challenge to eventually beg for mercy. Always has to be complex for us... (shaking head) were just wired wrong man.

happy to say i'm better with some things.