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Aqua woman with Scorpio guy - Im confused
Thank you. I hope he meant what he said, I actually said I hope you mean it.
Posted by coffeelovecoffee, it might surprise you that confusion is not unique to aqua women. In fact, confusion is quite common with all women of the zodiac.
Hello,
The Scorpio guy I have been seeing for months told me he loved me over the phone the other day. That same night things were steamy and great, but then he said he thinks Im using him for sex. I told him that it is totally not true!
Next day he calls the usual routine. Now he has gone silent going on almost 48 hours. I don't get it! Do I give him his space or is he looking for me to be more assertive?
He has told me that he changes he mind a lot and that I am not annoying and he wants me to be persistent on certain matters.
I love him and I am willing to give what is needed, he is the most complex person I have ever met. I just need a little more guidance on which way to go. Give him space or be more assertive? Does he really love me or did he say it by mistake?
You're not alone, you see.
As for silence, I can go silent for months. It's not that I don't care, it may be that my mind is focused on other things.
You see, there is more to life than just the relationship. Sooner or later, a man needs his space so he can wrap his head
around it like a bandanna.
No man, can just sit there and gawk, crave and dream of a woman 24/7/365. If he could, he wouldn't be a much of man.
Females seem to have this idea that men think like they do. They most certainly do not.
A developed man, mature in his ways does not think about sex 24/7/365. No, instead, they think about other things
work, hobbies, politics, religion, meaning of life. Weightier matters.
This is not to say that the woman in a relationship is not important, but rather, she is the other "part" of the relationship.
To illustrate this, the body and the head. The woman is the body, the man is the head of the body and the woman is
the body of the head. A cohesive relationship exists when the body and head are in agreement. This is the "union"
the two becoming as "one".
No physical body can live without the head and neither the head without it's body. The two need each other or
else, both dies.
The body has to trust the head to know what to do, how to behave, make decisions for the both.
When the misunderstood and misdefined concept of "equality" presented in the name of women's rights etc.,
the true definition of the marriage of the body and the head, gets lost. The consequence is that the woman
may think she has right answers to life questions, but those answers, however important they may seem
to her, may become self-evident as a vanity that reveals itself at a later time, to her regret. Likewise, the
man can also make the same mistake - this is why the two have to be in agreement, to progress and move
forward through life's challenges. When there are disagreements, progress is stalled and if the problem
is not mutually dealt with in agreement, one is going to resent the other and jealousy, distrust, anger and hate,
and thus "decapitation" of the head, is at the door. Meaning - the woman becomes bitter that the man dictates
decisions that she disagrees with. Her reaction may manifest itself in a heated argument that leads to
others, if she cannot forgive and forget, adding up and keeping score, she may either resolve to end the relationship,
or, through head-games drive the man to end it. The consequence - they both die. And there will always be
a certain yearning and a certain looking for, and never quite finding, in the hearts and minds of both.
A marriage is that way. Husbands and Wives should always respect each other and not harbor great expectations
of each other but accepting each other as they are, and working together to improve and uplift each other.
In other words - throw out the "prince charming", "knight in shining armor" "superman", "hero" nonsense
because they are all fairy tales.
When the misunderstood and misdefined concept of "equality" presented in the name of women's rights etc.,
the true definition of the marriage of the body and the head, gets lost. The consequence is that the woman
may think she has right answers to life questions, but those answers, however important they may seem
to her, may become self-evident as a vanity that reveals itself at a later time, to her regret. Likewise, the
man can also make the same mistake - this is why the two have to be in agreement, to progress and move
forward through life's challenges. When there are disagreements, progress is stalled and if the problem
is not mutually dealt with in agreement, one is going to resent the other and jealousy, distrust, anger and hate,
and thus "decapitation" of the head, is at the door. Meaning - the woman becomes bitter that the man dictates
decisions that she disagrees with. Her reaction may manifest itself in a heated argument that leads to
others, if she cannot forgive and forget, adding up and keeping score, she may either resolve to end the relationship,
or, through head-games drive the man to end it. The consequence - they both die. And there will always be
a certain yearning and a certain looking for, and never quite finding, in the hearts and minds of both.
A marriage is that way. Husbands and Wives should always respect each other and not harbor great expectations
of each other but accepting each other as they are, and working together to improve and uplift each other.
In other words - throw out the "prince charming", "knight in shining armor" "superman", "hero" nonsense
because they are all fairy tales.
Posted by MrFirebirdHi Mr. Firebird,Posted by coffeelovecoffee, it might surprise you that confusion is not unique to aqua women. In fact, confusion is quite common with all women of the zodiac.
Hello,
The Scorpio guy I have been seeing for months told me he loved me over the phone the other day. That same night things were steamy and great, but then he said he thinks Im using him for sex. I told him that it is totally not true!
Next day he calls the usual routine. Now he has gone silent going on almost 48 hours. I don't get it! Do I give him his space or is he looking for me to be more assertive?
He has told me that he changes he mind a lot and that I am not annoying and he wants me to be persistent on certain matters.
I love him and I am willing to give what is needed, he is the most complex person I have ever met. I just need a little more guidance on which way to go. Give him space or be more assertive? Does he really love me or did he say it by mistake?
You're not alone, you see.
As for silence, I can go silent for months. It's not that I don't care, it may be that my mind is focused on other things.
You see, there is more to life than just the relationship. Sooner or later, a man needs his space so he can wrap his head
around it like a bandanna.
No man, can just sit there and gawk, crave and dream of a woman 24/7/365. If he could, he wouldn't be a much of man.
Females seem to have this idea that men think like they do. They most certainly do not.
A developed man, mature in his ways does not think about sex 24/7/365. No, instead, they think about other things
work, hobbies, politics, religion, meaning of life. Weightier matters.
This is not to say that the woman in a relationship is not important, but rather, she is the other "part" of the relationship.
To illustrate this, the body and the head. The woman is the body, the man is the head of the body and the woman is
the body of the head. A cohesive relationship exists when the body and head are in agreement. This is the "union"
the two becoming as "one".
No physical body can live without the head and neither the head without it's body. The two need each other or
else, both dies.
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I respect what you are saying and I can give him lots of space. My worry is that I have been told that I can seem aloof and like I don't care. So when he goes for sometime in not contacting me, I am ok with that, but I am worried he will feel that I don't care because I am not calling and texting and looking for him. As long as he unders
Posted by AlphaHi Alpha :-)Posted by tegonyWith all due respect, I'm a Scorpio male.Posted by AlphaScorpio men can make you feel that they are "the one". Do you know why? Because they are able to analyze like no other. And when you analyze, you can foresee, you can control, you can explain. And you can be the person the other one wants you to be. But we NEVER use this ability to make harm, we hate these things.
And, No, Scorps don't make mistakes when it comes to relationships. lol They will show you only what they want you to see and believe in. This is why they're secretive.
A scorpio man will usually say "I love you" too soon. It doesn't mean that he does. We find it difficult to analyze and express our complex and intimate feelings. I love you means "I like you very much", "I'm in love with you", "I don't wanna see you getting hurt", "Thank you". Many things.
Give him space, but stay around all the time. A scorpio man likes a woman who is always around, but in a manner that lets him breathe. I mean treat him with tenderness, and give him the impression that you are the one you can understand the weird scorpio man well 😛 But always be serious, don't let him feel like the child who will get what he wants.click to expand
Posted by tegonyI understand tegony. ThanksPosted by AlphaScorpio men can make you feel that they are "the one". Do you know why? Because they are able to analyze like no other. And when you analyze, you can foresee, you can control, you can explain. And you can be the person the other one wants you to be. But we NEVER use this ability to make harm, we hate these things.
And, No, Scorps don't make mistakes when it comes to relationships. lol They will show you only what they want you to see and believe in. This is why they're secretive.
A scorpio man will usually say "I love you" too soon. It doesn't mean that he does. We find it difficult to analyze and express our complex and intimate feelings. I love you means "I like you very much", "I'm in love with you", "I don't wanna see you getting hurt", "Thank you". Many things.
Give him space, but stay around all the time. A scorpio man likes a woman who is always around, but in a manner that lets him breathe. I mean treat him with tenderness, and give him the impression that you are the one you can understand the weird scorpio man well 😛 But always be serious, don't let him feel like the child who will get what he wants.click to expand
Posted by ayemtentrem@ayemtentrem Not sure what your question means. What am I made of?Posted by MrFirebirdI fond of this quote of yours twice much than the ones below mr.firebirdPosted by coffeelovecoffee, it might surprise you that confusion is not unique to aqua women. In fact, confusion is quite common with all women of the zodiac.
Hello,
The Scorpio guy I have been seeing for months told me he loved me over the phone the other day. That same night things were steamy and great, but then he said he thinks Im using him for sex. I told him that it is totally not true!
Next day he calls the usual routine. Now he has gone silent going on almost 48 hours. I don't get it! Do I give him his space or is he looking for me to be more assertive?
He has told me that he changes he mind a lot and that I am not annoying and he wants me to be persistent on certain matters.
I love him and I am willing to give what is needed, he is the most complex person I have ever met. I just need a little more guidance on which way to go. Give him space or be more assertive? Does he really love me or did he say it by mistake?
You're not alone, you see.
As for silence, I can go silent for months. It's not that I don't care, it may be that my mind is focused on other things.
You see, there is more to life than just the relationship. Sooner or later, a man needs his space so he can wrap his head
around it like a bandanna.
No man, can just sit there and gawk, crave and dream of a woman 24/7/365. If he could, he wouldn't be a much of man.
Females seem to have this idea that men think like they do. They most certainly do not.
A developed man, mature in his ways does not think about sex 24/7/365. No, instead, they think about other things
work, hobbies, politics, religion, meaning of life. Weightier matters.
This is not to say that the woman in a relationship is not important, but rather, she is the other "part" of the relationship.
To illustrate this, the body and the head. The woman is the body, the man is the head of the body and the woman is
the body of the head. A cohesive relationship exists when the body and head are in agreement. This is the "union"
the two becoming as "one".
No physical body can live without the head and neither the head without it's body. The two need each other or
else, both dies.
What are you made of? *juz curiousclick to expand
Posted by AlphaJust saying hi, your reply made me smile! "With all due respect I'm a man" :-)Posted by coffeeloveHey coffeelove! Sup?Posted by AlphaHi Alpha :-)Posted by tegonyWith all due respect, I'm a Scorpio male.Posted by AlphaScorpio men can make you feel that they are "the one". Do you know why? Because they are able to analyze like no other. And when you analyze, you can foresee, you can control, you can explain. And you can be the person the other one wants you to be. But we NEVER use this ability to make harm, we hate these things.
And, No, Scorps don't make mistakes when it comes to relationships. lol They will show you only what they want you to see and believe in. This is why they're secretive.
A scorpio man will usually say "I love you" too soon. It doesn't mean that he does. We find it difficult to analyze and express our complex and intimate feelings. I love you means "I like you very much", "I'm in love with you", "I don't wanna see you getting hurt", "Thank you". Many things.
Give him space, but stay around all the time. A scorpio man likes a woman who is always around, but in a manner that lets him breathe. I mean treat him with tenderness, and give him the impression that you are the one you can understand the weird scorpio man well 😛 But always be serious, don't let him feel like the child who will get what he wants.click to expand
Posted by ayemtentremPosted by coffeelovePosted by ayemtentremPosted by MrFirebirdI fond of this quote of yours twice much than the ones belPosted by coffeelovecoffee, it might surprise you that confusion is not unique to aqua women. In fact, confusion is quite common with all women of the zodiac.
Hello,
The Scorpio guy I have been seeing for months told me he loved me over the phone the other day. That same night things were steamy and great, but then he said he thinks Im using him for sex. I told him that it is totally not true!
Next day he calls the usual routine. Now he has gone silent going on almost 48 hours. I don't get it! Do I give him his space or is he looking for me to be more assertive?
He has told me that he changes he mind a lot and that I am not annoying and he wants me to be persistent on certain matters.
I love him and I am willing to give what is needed, he is the most complex person I have ever met. I just need a little more guidance on which way to go. Give him space or be more assertive? Does he really love me or did he say it by mistake?
You're not alone, you see.
As for silence, I can go silent for months. It's not that I don't care, it may be that my mind is focused on other things.
You see, there is more to life than just the relationship. Sooner or later, a man needs his space so he can wrap his head
around it like a bandanna.
No man, can just sit there and gawk, crave and dream of a woman 24/7/365. If he could, he wouldn't be a much of man.
Females seem to have this idea that men think like they do. They most certainly do not.
A developed man, mature in his ways does not think about sex 24/7/365. No, instead, they think about other things
work, hobbies, politics, religion, meaning of life. Weightier matters.
This is not to say that the woman in a relationship is not important, but rather, she is the other "part" of the relationship.
To illustrate this, the body and the head. The woman is the body, the man is the head of the body and the woman is
the body of the head. A cohesive relationship exists when the body and head are in agreement. This is the "union"
the two becoming as "one".
No physical body can live without the head and neither the head without it's body. The two need each other or
else, both dies.
click to expand
Posted by coffeelovePosted by ayemtentremPosted by coffeelovePosted by ayemtentremPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by coffeelovecoffee, it might surprise you that confusion is not unique to aqua women. In fact, confusion is quite common with all women of the zodiac.
Hello,
The Scorpio guy I have been seeing for months told me he loved me over the phone the other day. That same night things were steamy and great, but then he said he thinks Im using him for sex. I told him that it is totally not true!
Next day he calls the usual routine. Now he has gone silent going on almost 48 hours. I don't get it! Do I give him his space or is he looking for me to be more assertive?
He has told me that he changes he mind a lot and that I am not annoying and he wants me to be persistent on certain matters.
I love him and I am willing to give what is needed, he is the most complex person I have ever met. I just need a little more guidance on which way to go. Give him space or be more assertive? Does he really love me or did he say it by mistake?click to expand
You're not alone, you see.
As for silence, I can go silent for months. It's not that I don't care, it may be that my mind is focused on other things.
You see, there is more to life than just the relationship. Sooner or later, a man needs his space so he can wrap his head
around it like a bandanna.
No man, can just sit there and gawk, crave and dream of a woman 24/7/365. If he could, he wouldn't be a much of man.
Females seem to have this idea that men think like they do. They most certainly do not.
A developed man, mature in his ways does not think about sex 24/7/365. No, instead, they think about other things
work, hobbies, politics, religion, meaning of life. Weightier matters.
This is not to say that the woman in a relationship is not important, but rather, she is the other "part" of the relationship.
To illustrate this, the body and the head. The woman is the body, the man is the head of the body and the woman is
the body of the head. A cohesive relationship exists when the body and head are in agreement. This is the "union"
the two becoming as "one".
No physical body can live without the head and neither the head without it's body. The two need each other or
else, both dies.
Looks like when I quote things are missing or at least I can't see them. I am a Leo moon, not sure if that answers what I am made of.
Posted by AlphaDone :-)Posted by coffeelovePlease enable private messaging. Thanks!
Looks like when I quote things are missing or at least I can't see them. I am a Leo moon, not sure if that answers what I am made of.click to expand
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Next day he calls the usual routine. Now he has gone silent going on almost 48 hours. I don't get it! Do I give him his space or is he looking for me to be more assertive?
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