Are male Scorpios obsessive when they are in love?

If so, how?

Ted Bundy, John Wayne Gacy, Charles Manson, Bill Gates (Thief). Just a little.

yup

any sign with venus in scorp is obsessive. some scorps aren't at all depending on venus placement.

The below is a quote of yours from just last week ..... nothing in there sounds obssessive on his part .. care to elaborate.



"I broke it off ...well not really cause we weren't officially "back together"
and i told him that we only end up hurting each other.. in the past if i said something like that he would respond ..but this time he didn't.

Then days later he texts me, like nothing happened? Why is this?"

sigh , i guess the only obsessive one is me.

They usually are. Some are calmer until real feelings come out and they explode. I notice people with a lot of Scorpio placements control it well.

Cullenaffair, I'm not disputing the fact that Scorpios can, and usually are very obssessive .. my purpose of my post was to point out that what you have going on with your Scorpio, according to what information you have revealed to us ... doesn't demonstrate any signs of him being obssessive.

"ive welcomed him back too many times with open arms.. hes came back too many times to me.
this time.. i just ignored it

how do they feel when you ignore them?"


Above comes from your other thread, which clearly shows that what is going on is that both of you are trying to figure out the terms of this union, if there even is one. For you to welcome him back many times with open arms is describing where you are also very confused about what it is you want.

To just ignore him back this time = no communication, such as what has happened before when you just accepted him back with open arms.


What I see here is two people who are failing to communicate with each other .. so how is it even possible for these two people to have a real relationship? And any attention given would seem like an obssession to you .. because you can only recognize the actions of the wanting, because there is no discussions to accompany it.

You have described where when things go wrong ... you just open your arms and take him back. Then a time where something went wrong .... so you just ignore it.

^^^ that's what I see here happening .. and for sure, how is it possible to have the ability to understand what is happening in a relationship if there is no proper communication?


"I broke it off ...well not really cause we weren't officially "back together"

In the above, for example, how can you break up with a person to whom you aren't even officially with?



What needs to happen for you ..... you need to not be with any wo/man at this time, so you can search deep within yourself to see what you want in a partner.

p-angel,
I know you're right about most of it all.. but it just makes me be more realistic about what it really is.
about him not caring for me anymore..

Reading that really hit a nerve in me and i was just sad about it today. If he doesn't care, why should i right?
Sometimes i hate being a cancer, can't let go of the past.. sigh.

Hey, leave Bill Gates alone 😄


Anyway, well it depends. When a Scorpio is into you, they kinda don't want anyone else to have you. Most men are like this but Scorps are REALLY bad with it lol