are scorpio's the epitome of dead beat dads??

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i ask because i have a older scorp brother, he had 5 kids by 3 different women,married one of the women( the mother of 3 of his children), who was also his h.s sweetheart..he tried to raise the kids as best as he could thou, had two jobs and everything, but i guess he couldn't deal with his wife (virgo), so he left them, moved to another state far far away, and is now the father of two with some other women whom he plans on marrying also (after he divorce his current wife,hopefully)..

and my current gf's father is a scorp, and he too had a hefty amount of kids, moved far away, and is now raising a new family..

i don't know anybody else who goes to such an extreme in beginning,ending, and starting new families..bunch of low life dirtbags if you ask me, but who am i to judge,ya know??
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Know 2 who fit this description.

6 kids by 5 different women that we KNOW of. Then another with 2 kids, both probably a year old, NOT twins. Then I know a devoted scorpio father to one. I can believe it if they are epitome of deadbeat.

2 Libra men. One has Idk how many but doesn't care for them another has two by 2 different women and is a great father.

I know a deadbeat Sag, despite their being wild their not likely to be deadbeat. The women are more likely.



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Meh. Deadbeat comes in at least 12 flavors and colors, I agree.

My Grey Lizard Scorpio father is a fucktard, probably the poster-child for forced sterilization.

However, if I allowed HIM to color my opinion of ALL Scorps... then I would not have cared to know Lenny.. a Scorpio completely devoted to raising his two girls himself, despite their mother intentionally lying about using birth control in order to get her EX to impregnate her. First one, she didn't even TELL him about for 5 months.. admitted she didn't want him to be able to talk her into an abortion, and knew 5 months would be too late. Fool of a Scorpio man fell for the SAME ruse one more time.. a few drinks and a planned seduction... a one night trip down Memory Lane with his EX.. she's pregnant again. Scorpio wised up and got a vasectomy. (A fact that came to the light after a different psycho girl tried to claim he got HER knocked up! lol) He works too much to date much.

There's also Steve... VERY Scorpio.. TON of Water in his chart. Single father of two VERY young girls (age 3 and less than 1 year)... their Mommy cheated constantly, and eventually ran off with some guy she met online... then HIS friend.. then another guy from the Internet. Last time I talked to Steve, she'd been through 7 "boyfriends" in 6 months... but never had time to come see the girls. The man is busting his ass and doesn't even have time to date.

The Scorpio father of a good friend of mine went to prison for involuntary manslaughter when my friend was two years old. Scorp dad never stopped writing, and 18 years later moved to be near his son when he got out of prison. Granted, not much the guy could do from prison, but he made sure his kid knew he was loved, then and now.

My own Scorpio brother... 1000% devoted to his son and daughter. He's only 25 years old, works 14-16 hours a day so his very loving wife doesn't have to, and he LOVES his family. I could never see him cheating, much less leaving his family.


So what I get from that... Scorps are workaholics, and can be blind fools about their women, esp when those women use his devotion and love to TAKE from him. But deadbeats? Hardly. More like put up with deadbeat bitches until they CAN'T anymore.
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Oh oh.. also.. my Leo ex has a Scorp Dad.. workaholic, yes - retirement just means twice the things to do on half the pay... still married (but not talking lol) to Leo's (borderline nuts) Aqua Mom, after 50+ years, and three children... Leo's brother is also a Scorp.. workaholic, but kinda strange and very anal.. no kids, no marriage... most women can't date him long without going insane. I imagine he'd approach marriage and fatherhood with the same single-minded determination and exacting self-standards he approaches everything else. he might drive his family to homicide.. but he'd only leave in a body bag!
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i ask because i have a older scorp brother, he had 5 kids by 3 different women,married one of the women( the mother of 3 of his children), who was also his h.s sweetheart..he tried to raise the kids as best as he could thou, had two jobs and everything, but i guess he couldn't deal with his wife (virgo), so he left them, moved to another state far far away, and is now the father of two with some other women whom he plans on marrying also (after he divorce his current wife,hopefully)..

and my current gf's father is a scorp, and he too had a hefty amount of kids, moved far away, and is now raising a new family..

i don't know anybody else who goes to such an extreme in beginning,ending, and starting new families..bunch of low life dirtbags if you ask me, but who am i to judge,ya know??



Do they support them financially? Do they call/talk to kids? Do they recognize special days for their kids? Do they visit the kids during the holidays? Have they offered to take the kids all together? Was primary custody granted to the mother pending the finalization of divorce? Are they involved in the other kids lives? There are deadbeat dads that live 5 minutes from their kids and never do for them. Just because someone moves does not mean they are a deadbeat.